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Is this Tove Lo song problematic?


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Hey boy, you're too young for me but I
Don't care 'cause you're all I see
I like 'em young
I, I like 'em young

Eyes wide oh, you're so naive thinkin'
No one knows better than me
I like 'em young
I, I like 'em young

People make me wonder
Age is just a number
That they don't think about
That's all I think about

I like 'em young (Hey)
I like 'em young (Hey)
I like 'em young (Hey)
Young like me with a mind so easy

I like 'em young (Hey)
I like 'em young (Hey)
I like 'em young (Hey)
Young like me with a mind so easy
I like 'em

Hey girl, why you judging me when your
Your guy's turning 53
I like 'em young
I, I like 'em young

I don't know what really gets you more is it
That my guy's gonna live out yours
I like 'em young
I, I like 'em young

They say they don't care but I
I can tell you're lying
'Cause we're all slowly dying
Trying to work it out
And all I think about

I like 'em young (Hey)
I like 'em young (Hey)
I like 'em young (Hey)
Young like me with a mind so easy

I like 'em young (Hey)
I like 'em young (Hey)
I like 'em young (Hey)
Young like me with a mind so easy
I like 'em

Life! I live mine
Love! Not one kind
All is fair in love and war,
My manners out the door,
What do I need them for?

I like 'em young (Hey)
I like 'em young (Hey)
I like 'em young (Hey)
Young like me with a mind so easy

I like 'em young (Hey)
I like 'em young (Hey)
I like 'em young (Hey)
Young like me with a mind so easy
I like 'em young!

 

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Werewoof

“Young like me” :lolga: I think this song was in response to a lot of her friends liking older men 

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ProfessionalClown

No, she’s saying “young like me” as in the same age as her. She likes older men so I feel like this was a jab at her friends like ^^ said 

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LilyLark

Eh, it's a bit creepy but not problematic. I think it's supposed to be a bit ironic, as someone above pointed out, pointing out that no one blinks an eye at a 35-40 year old guy dating a 25 year old woman but freaks out if the reverse happens. I mean, look at the media reaction to Olivia Wilde and Harry Styles (she's late 30s, he's late 20s).

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whore

To restate what everyone else has been saying, it’s using a tongue-in-cheek level of ironic humor to make you think she’s going to be writing an anthem for the cougar women, but when you get to the chorus, she sings “I like ‘em young like me.” She’s definitely writing about someone she knows who is into older men, as the second verse says “why are you judging me when your guy is turning 53” and “my guy is gonna outlive yours.” i think it’s funny, definitely suits her sense of humor. 

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Peroxide555

I knew it was going to be this song before I opened the thread…

No… I think it’s fine to prefer dating guys in their 20’s rather than their 40’s or 50’s…

I mean Tove was in her mid 20’s when this song dropped right?

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Chromatography
10 hours ago, ***** said:

To restate what everyone else has been saying, it’s using a tongue-in-cheek level of ironic humor to make you think she’s going to be writing an anthem for the cougar women, but when you get to the chorus, she sings “I like ‘em young like me.” She’s definitely writing about someone she knows who is into older men, as the second verse says “why are you judging me when your guy is turning 53” and “my guy is gonna outlive yours.” i think it’s funny, definitely suits her sense of humor. 

shhh subtlety is lost on people 

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Luv u Sum

she’s talking about people her own age as opposed to getting an older man or a sugar daddy  

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dopega

Not really but if you wanna talk about problematic lemme just leave these hidden Gaga gems here :stalkga:

 

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