Savage 1,783 Posted June 28, 2019 Share Posted June 28, 2019 I think about this question a lot. Gaga always talks about being kind above all else. I consider myself a nice person, but as someone with (actual) OCD, I tend to overthink a lot of things. I'm very very passive, (not passive-egressive, just passive,) so I am very kind in the way that I wouldn't ever want someone to think they've upset me; I just let people get away with a lot, smile, and do a lot for them. With that said, I tend to **** talk behind closed doors, because I can't stand up for myself and use this as a substitute without even meaning to. This makes me feel like a snake. (I know everyone does this, but my fear is that Gaga would not like me. With that said, I don't think anyone that knows me would call me mean. A lot of people that I say this to laugh at the thought of me being mean, but idk. Also, even Gaga did her share of **** talking on the set of AHS: Roanoke and over text to Kesha about Katy. Still, she's so incredibly genuine and nice, and I feel like I don't live up to her standards.) I guess my question is: does anyone else ever think of this? How do you all show kindness? I just want to be as kind as possible, I'm thinking of making a list of random acts of kindness to do. (On a similar note, I can be "mean" to my sister, but we fight all the time, it's not me going out of my way to annoy her; we've just never gotten along. It's pretty mutual, I'm just two years older.) Rant over Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Savage 1,783 Posted June 28, 2019 Author Share Posted June 28, 2019 Don't let it flop Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ANTI WP 19,825 Posted June 28, 2019 Share Posted June 28, 2019 44 minutes ago, Savage said: I think about this question a lot. Gaga always talks about being kind above all else. I consider myself a nice person, but as someone with (actual) OCD, I tend to overthink a lot of things. I'm very very passive, (not passive-egressive, just passive,) so I am very kind in the way that I wouldn't ever want someone to think they've upset me; I just let people get away with a lot, smile, and do a lot for them. With that said, I tend to **** talk behind closed doors, because I can't stand up for myself and use this as a substitute without even meaning to. This makes me feel like a snake. (I know everyone does this, but my fear is that Gaga would not like me. With that said, I don't think anyone that knows me would call me mean. A lot of people that I say this to laugh at the thought of me being mean, but idk. Also, even Gaga did her share of **** talking on the set of AHS: Roanoke and over text to Kesha about Katy. Still, she's so incredibly genuine and nice, and I feel like I don't live up to her standards.) I guess my question is: does anyone else ever think of this? How do you all show kindness? I just want to be as kind as possible, I'm thinking of making a list of random acts of kindness to do. (On a similar note, I can be "mean" to my sister, but we fight all the time, it's not me going out of my way to annoy her; we've just never gotten along. It's pretty mutual, I'm just two years older.) Rant over you are perfect human begin Spoiler dont overthink too much Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Savage 1,783 Posted June 28, 2019 Author Share Posted June 28, 2019 Just now, ANTI WP said: you are perfect human begin Hide contents dont overthink too much Thank you for the words of encouragement, hope you are having a good day/night!! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
2School4Cool 6,434 Posted June 28, 2019 Share Posted June 28, 2019 I think that if you are thinking that much about whether or not you’re kind enough, I think that proves where your heart is and that you’re genuinely a kind person. See The Best In Everyone Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Savage 1,783 Posted June 28, 2019 Author Share Posted June 28, 2019 2 minutes ago, 2School4Cool said: I think that if you are thinking that much about whether or not you’re kind enough, I think that proves where your heart is and that you’re genuinely a kind person. Thank you Same to you Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mirages 20,259 Posted June 28, 2019 Share Posted June 28, 2019 Look ain't nobody can be kind all the time. You have days when you are just down and depressed or angry and it's hard to be kind then but you are thinking about it and questioning it so that alone makes me think you are a nice and kind person. Nobody's perfect sometimes you need kindness from other people too you know and it's OK to need it. I'm the bitch that's fragile Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Diamond heart99 5,262 Posted June 28, 2019 Share Posted June 28, 2019 By putting half of GGD on ignore so I don’t go off. I’m blonde, I’m skinny, I’m rich and I’m a little bit of a bitch Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Savage 1,783 Posted June 28, 2019 Author Share Posted June 28, 2019 1 minute ago, Mirages said: Look ain't nobody can be kind all the time. You have days when you are just down and depressed or angry and it's hard to be kind then but you are thinking about it and questioning it so that alone makes me think you are a nice and kind person. Nobody's perfect sometimes you need kindness from other people too you know and it's OK to need it. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyler1992 2,264 Posted June 28, 2019 Share Posted June 28, 2019 You sound like a very nice person! Show kindness by making people feel good when you’re around, and work on being even kinder while behind the scenes . You’re on the right track Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bradley 59,023 Posted June 28, 2019 Share Posted June 28, 2019 I take it out Spoiler of my heart and show it. Yes, kindness. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Didymus 34,379 Posted June 28, 2019 Share Posted June 28, 2019 Snapping at people 50% less than I actually want to Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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