Does anyone else feel sad on NYE?

[Siena 6,196]

I don’t know why but for some reason the past several years I always feel kinda down on New Year’s Eve. I’m not sure what it is, maybe it’s because I reminisce a lot on good times in the past, and it makes me sad that the memories are getting older  Its strange because I’m happy with my life right now, so I don’t know why New Years always makes me miss the past.  Can anyone else relate?

[dit 46,328]

I can totally relate but i sometimes feel that way even without New Years. Sometimes I just have a heavy heart because I reminisce on the past and think of time flying by etc...however milestone events and holidays like Xmas and New Years can bring those feelings out a lot easier because they mark the end of a chapter. However I have decided to try and actively think of these things as a start of a new chapter and not the end of one. Glass half full type of thing :p  

Wishing you a happy new years by the way   

[YCHofficial 5,293]

''Gaga Thoughts''

[Siena 6,196]

22 minutes ago, dit said:

I can totally relate but i sometimes feel that way even without New Years. Sometimes I just have a heavy heart because I reminisce on the past and think of time flying by etc...however milestone events and holidays like Xmas and New Years can bring those feelings out a lot easier because they mark the end of a chapter. However I have decided to try and actively think of these things as a start of a new chapter and not the end of one. Glass half full type of thing :p  

Wishing you a happy new years by the way   

Glad someone else can relate! That’s a really good way to look at it and I’ll need to work on being more positive  looks like I found my New Years resolution! Happy New Year to you too 

[JGD 11,981]

Yeah sometimes, because it’s like a reminder that I’m getting older and that time is flying by so fast

But I’m totally ready for 2019 because 2018 has been so bittersweet, especially the last few weeks

[Shipper 12,990]

Well there is a disorder called SAD or seasonal affective disorder. This is fairly common and starts from Fall to Winter.  

Holidays is also during these months and it is fairly typical for some people to feel mild depression,  lack of energy , and moodiness during these times. 

Google it for more info.  

But basically they try to explain it and said it's caused by lack of sunlight and hormones. Just make sure to go out and get lots of sun and fresh air and relaxation! 

I also feel depressed randomly throughout the year and I downladed this app called Daylio to keep track of my moods.  I try to do it every-day and I set up a time on my phone,  it pops out and I just rate the day using a series of smileys.  It helps me keep track why I am feeling depressed for no reason. So far,  I pinned it down to hormones.  

[Spartacus 4,485]

I feel sad on every day... but that could be cuz I've literally been clinically depressed since age 8.

[Eggsy 8,280]

i havnt had someone to kiss on NYE for 6 years.. Yeah its not somthing i look forward too

[crybrowz 3,241]

I only feel sad on NYE because I'm drinking alone in my room watching everyone else have fun on social media

[mariomania1234 11,368]

I can relate. It's a reminder that time is passing and it makes me aware of my own mortality, and that maybe I haven't accomplished as much as I should have by now. How I haven't formed any meaningful relationships, etc. Like I'm wasting and running out of time.

On the bright side of things, it's a chance at a new start. Basically wiping the slate clean.

[Pacify Him 9,073]

Yes because I’m still thinking about Detroit:Become Human 

[2School4Cool 6,397]

10 minutes ago, Ratu said:

im sad today some member are rude to me

im just wishing positive thing about madge and gaga on celine thread

and some response try to fry my comment into feud thing

and someone blame me 

im new here but im so disapointed now

I’m sorry you’ve had such a negative experience. I can assure you there is positivity to be found here. Hopefully you will begin to see it soon. Wishing you the best 

To anyone else feeling sad, I’m sorry to hear, but I’m wishing you all a beautiful 2019!!

[Didymus 34,379]

It's scientifically known that the most people commit suicide around the holidays It's not just winter, which automatically stimulates darker moods in a lot of people, it's also a stressed period due to the amount of festivities and family obligations and/or loneliness for the people who don't have anything to do.

You're so not alone. Millions of people feel this way.

[Siena 6,196]

29 minutes ago, Ratu said:

im sad today some member are rude to me

im just wishing positive thing about madge and gaga on celine thread

and some response try to fry my comment into feud thing

and someone blame me 

im new here but im so disapointed now

I’m sorry to hear that!! People here can definitely be toxic at times, but please know that there are so many more amazing people 

[Shipper 12,990]

44 minutes ago, Amphetamine said:

I only feel sad on NYE because I'm drinking alone in my room watching everyone else have fun on social media

Sis,  I left social media cause it was one of the causes of my depression. 

I see my friends who have more fun and have more success in life and start comparing in my head. It's like a pit in a walkway that I constantly fall in even though I know it's there.

Now I don't know anything about them and I avoided so many depressed days. Now I just have those inexplicable I wake up moody days with no triggering causes except me being awake another day.