Emma talks about Gaga not visting GGD anymore! (Read inside)

[doveve 526]

That's exactly where the problem lies here.  I've said it before and I'll say it again; contrary to what this forum thinks I have given her constructive criticism on numerous occasions so no, I don't like everything she does and no, she doesn't surround herself with all "yes" people.  It may appear that way on the outside but I have seen it firsthand.  You don't know the whole story.

 

The key is respect.  It is one thing to give constructive criticism but it is quite another to flat-out disrespect her.  

There are all kinds of people. There will always be the ones who hate things and those who love things. There will always be 11 years old kids who rely on their emotions and write hateful posts, expressing their anger and there will always be the ones who are more mature and are able to express themselves in more respectful ways. However, I think you or Gaga herself are focusing more on the negative side, negative, hateful comments, rather than positive. About two weeks ago I replied to your comment saying that I'm so happy for you and I love Gaga and want her to be happy. You most probably just ignored my post and considered it as useless and focused more on negative comments. Isn't Gaga all about positivity and love? that's the key. She should focus on positivity and be happy that there are so many caring and loving fans. I've seen SO MANY people here who express their love towards Gaga and her work, they wish her all the best and although they may be negative sometimes it's because they want Gaga to succeed and be happy. Negativity and criticism is not a bad thing and it shouldn't overshadow all the positive fans here and Gaga shouldn't abandon her loving fans. When forums such as GGD will become empty that will be a real problem. 

Edited December 24, 2013 by doveve

[superman 32]

There are all kinds of people. There will always be the ones who hate things and those who love things. There will always be 11 years old kids who rely on their emotions and write hateful posts, expressing their anger and there will always be the ones who are more mature and are able to express themselves in more respectful ways. However, I think you or Gaga herself are focusing more on the negative side, negative, hateful comments, rather than positive. About two weeks ago I replied to your comment saying that I'm so happy for you and I love Gaga and want her to be happy. You most probably just ignored my post and considered it as useless and focused more on negative comments. Isn't Gaga all about positivity and love? that's the key. She should focus on positivity and be happy that there are so many caring and loving fans. I've seen SO MANY people here who express their love towards Gaga and her work, they wish her all the best and although they may be negative sometimes it's because they want Gaga to succeed and be happy. Negativity and criticism is not a bad thing and it shouldn't overshadow all the positive fans here. When forums such as GGD will become empty that will be a real problem. 

to add something to this.i ve been here for years even if i dont have thousands of posts and i got zero warning points which means i never was rude.But this constant critisism to the fans by gaga and her team is getting tiring.

I understand she maybe tired aswell by the constant critisism lately but my opinion is that she should try and just ignore it.With moves like the latest one by trying to alienate the troll fans( lets call it that way) she alienates some fans aswell.

[miss anthropy 0]

Well, if nothing else, this accomplished some of the most insane meltdowns on ATRL.

 

Omg... I was just reading some of them.... holy shizzzzzz.... 

[Miley 5,006]

Why is she visiting in the first place?

And wtf was she expecting?

"Gaga still hasnt released the video lets party and talk how awesome she is!!"

And the whole "Stop the drama, Start the music" idea is bull****.

Proof? Emma saying "Go stan for Katy Perry".

Tell 'em!

[latinteddybear 2]

That's terrible. The unnecessary negativity here has to stop. ESPECIALLY that it is coming from those who are supposed to support you and are called your fans.

[Jester 6,314]

You guys are still here

[wanderingslave 0]

That's terrible. The unnecessary negativity here has to stop. ESPECIALLY that it is coming from those who are supposed to support you and are called your fans.

[Mind Eye 1]

Couldn't care less tbh. "Fan" forum.

[Dann 354]

Sad....  :(

[GagaMyBlood95 9,915]

I am sad that she feels this way.... But I think there is A LOT love towards here for her, I mean, this website IS for her! We all follow what she does, and worry about her deeply, I hope she knows that...

[SomethingMore 1,701]

People need to grow up and stop worrying about stupid petty sh*t like charts. Who even cares if she rises or falls --- NO ONE can be Number 1 all the time --- and she has enough legendary numbers behind her to seriously make her a permanent legend like Michael Jackson and Elvis Presley.

Don't sweat the small stuff.

#GrowUpAndGetGagaBackToGGD

 

a) Nobody is saying she needs to be #1, but with decent promo such as VIDEO she can secure a decent position. 

 

b) Legendary status? Sorry but Madonna, Elvis, Michael had an amazing careers that lasted at least 25 years. Her records are being taken away as we speak.

 

c) Grow Up And Get Gaga Back to GGD? Why would I want her here? I love her and respect her but that doesnt mean I will be delusional like some members here who approve Gaga's every move. Plus, I see her every time on the tour. If she thinks reading internet forum about her is a good idea.....she is 100% wrong ! Yes she can join, we can have Q&A something like that. But for her to lurk all the time? NO .

[PEARL 1]

I feel her. Poor Stefani.

[theredkilt 0]

 

[wanderingslave 0]

This Is happening because people have big expectations and hype about things that might never happen.

[GagaMyBlood95 9,915]

This is not a bash thread just to clarify (the fact that I even have to clarify is silly but w.e)

 

There are two reasons I say she's being immature:

 

1) She focuses solely on the hateful comments directed towards her and ignores the rational ones. Gaga gets a lot of criticism. Yes, a lot of it is immature hate, like the comment about Emma that was circulating. But a lot of it is really well written, calm, constructive criticism. Yet she ignores these useful comments and focuses on the immature ones and acts like the internet is dooming humanity just cause a few immature kids write hate comments on twitter.

 

WAKE UP CALL: The world is filled with dumb, immature kids, this has always been true before the internet and it will always be true. The internet and social media are incredible tools and Gaga's taken an incredibly immature viewpoint of it. It's as though she's regressed mentally, because she used to be very smart and forward thinking but now she talks like a grandmother who doesn't understand the modern world.

 

2) She surrounds herself with immature people. I understand Emma is very kind, but if you watch Radio ARTPOP it's easy to see she's not very mature, because her along with the other fans on there have the same immature viewpoints that I just described above. They're the epitome of yes-men, and they're very misguided in their thinking, but Gaga chooses to surround herself with those types of fans.

 

As you can see, no hate in this thread, no immature bashing, this is all perfectly reasonable criticism.

ohh yes!