Noah X 5,250 Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 9 minutes ago, gagzus said: if you're a bottom a transman without surgery can still use a strap on, the sex ISNT that complicated EMOTION is the complication. Sex is an easy fixable problem, and you're not attracted to them because it's ingrained in you that they aren't "men" that is why, pure and simple even if you yourself dont know it; transphobia is just as subconscious as racism is. it's impossible to understand your own subconscious until you start examining it in depth and most people wont dare do that, hence why racism, transphobia and homophobia hasnt died out yet because society still forces it's perception on everyone both consciously and subconsciously No I will not have sex with a strap on, it's just not what I'm into and not my sexual preference, that does not make me transphobic For example some people would want that both they and their partner are climaxing at the same time to get that organic mutual feeling. That is not possible with a strap on because there are no human nerves in that thing, hence preventing such a connection Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cuchulainn 3,040 Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 1 minute ago, gagzus said: well if you're attracted to the person's genitals and not the person then oh honey i have some news for you about love life and relationships... But genitals and sex are a huge part of a relationship. I can't lie and say I would be happy living the rest of my life with someone who doesn't have a penis. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 1 minute ago, gagzus said: well if you're attracted to the person's genitals and not the person then oh honey i have some news for you about love life and relationships... I mean it's not that f'cking crazy to care about your significant other genitalia. I mean, it's great for those people who doesn't care about whetever their significant other has down their pants, but a lot of people do and there's nothing wrong with that. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pearly 1,008 Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 3 minutes ago, gagzus said: well if you're attracted to the person's genitals and not the person then oh honey i have some news for you about love life and relationships... oh so if i don't date bio woman because i like d*ck does that make me shallow somehow ? unfortunately sexual attraction is a thing and genitalia is going to play a part in choosing a partner 𐦬✝▽𝚼𝙹〰∀ Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
yes 561 Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 The fact that some of you cis people are on here talking about what's transphobic and what's not... If trans people find those comments offensive, then the least you could do is LISTEN AND RESPECT THEM. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
053Timo 1,698 Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 She really is ignorant herself. Most of those men really responded respectfully... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fish 6,259 Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 4 minutes ago, ZeldaJ said: Being fat/obese/overweight is bad. The end. I'm not gonna date obese/fat people, just like I'm not gonna date trans people. I have no sexual attraction to either of those. There's nothing discriminatory about that lol, it's just preference. I just hope you are not telling everyone one you know, family and friends, who are overweight and such, that their way of living is "bad / the end". I hope you can find a little more empathy in you. Who knows, maybe one day you will struggle with that too. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Noah X 5,250 Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 8 minutes ago, gagzus said: well if you're attracted to the person's genitals and not the person then oh honey i have some news for you about love life and relationships... We're not saying we're only attracted to d*cks... YES the personally is a huge part, but everything has to be aligned I will date someone who has a great personality but if they are a neurosurgeon for example, they will not be the best fit for my lifestyle. If I am a bottom, I will not last with a micropenis person because that doesn't truly give me satisfaction, strap-on or not, and sex is a natural human desire to be fulfilled. That's just the T A lover needs to satisfy all the right fields for me, otherwise they can just be a friend. That doesn't make me whateverphobic because I chose not to date them. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
yes 561 Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 And to the people saying they wouldn't date a trans person just because of their genitals. Log out and go on with your day, hennies. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cuchulainn 3,040 Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 2 minutes ago, yes said: And to the people saying they wouldn't date a trans person just because of their genitals. Log out and go on with your day, hennies. No need to be rude. I applaud you for being able to look past genitals, but I prefer a penis. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Noah X 5,250 Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 8 minutes ago, yes said: And to the people saying they wouldn't date a trans person just because of their genitals. Log out and go on with your day, hennies. I do not want to be in a relationship with anybody with a vagina. They can be my best friend, sure, but not a relationship because that requires more, sex is naturally part of it. You can't force people to be okay f****ng any genitals That's why sexual orientations exist. and the thought that I can impregnate that person some day by accident is a whole nother factor I do NOT wanna sign up for. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
yes 561 Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 Just now, Kenzo said: I do not want to be in a relationship with anybody with a vagina. They can be my best friend, sure, but not a relationship because that requires more, sex is naturally part of it. You can't force people to be okay f****ng any genitals No one's forcing anyone to do anything. I'm just curious as to why you're here talking about this issue then? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
yes 561 Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 17 minutes ago, ZeldaJ said: Being fat/obese/overweight is bad. The end. I'm not gonna date obese/fat people, just like I'm not gonna date trans people. I have no sexual attraction to either of those. There's nothing discriminatory about that lol, it's just preference. Then why are you saying it's bad? Mind your own business. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Noah X 5,250 Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 1 minute ago, yes said: No one's forcing anyone to do anything. I'm just curious as to why you're here talking about this issue then? Because people like me who have a natural preference of not being attracted to something to date a person are being labeled as transphobic and that's just not cute or accurate. One of my best friends is trans and he has a great personality and I love him to death. Do I see myself dating and having a relationship and sex with him? No! Am I transphobic because of that? If you think the answer is yes, then please log out and reevaluate. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
yes 561 Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 1 minute ago, Kenzo said: Because people like me who have a natural preference of not being attracted to something to date a person are being labeled as transphobic and that's just not cute or accurate. One of my best friends is trans and he has a great personality and I love him to death. Do I see myself dating and having a relationship and sex with him? No! Am I transphobic because of that? If you think the answer is yes, then please log out and reevaluate. You literally just pulled a "I have a black friend, I'm not racist..." It sucks that you people think you can tell other minority groups how they should feel. People messaged this woman saying horrible things and y'all saying things like "oh that's just a preference, he's not transphobic." NO! The sh*t they're saying is offensive. Like, accept that and move on. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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