Vergil 2,296 Posted October 12, 2018 Share Posted October 12, 2018 6 hours ago, THEORACLE64 said: You're not going to get anything, let alone HIV from having protected sex. You also cannot contract HIV through performing oral sex either - but you can catch other nasties I believe. I think you kinda need to educate yourself a little, but I 100% understand the fear. You can catch HIV through oral sex if the one giving head has bleeding gums. edit: I believe Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
B2theRich33 2,239 Posted October 12, 2018 Share Posted October 12, 2018 Did you actually read the article his partner stopped taking his hiv medicine which in turn raised his viral load! That why prep became ineffective. I’m sorry but it’s really ashame that y’all are so unwilling to educate yourself about HIV, PrEP, and the whole stigma with this. The CDC has come out and even stated that if a person who is HIV positive has an undetectable viral load they are unable to transfer the virus to someone who is negative. PrEP and HIV medicine work in tandem with one another, and if one stops taking their meds the chances of infection increase..... If you are educated and trusting with your partners there is no reason why going bare is an issue. Even for hookups. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
derpmonster 22,412 Posted October 12, 2018 Share Posted October 12, 2018 6 hours ago, ltlmnstr said: I think everyone knows it's not hard to put a condom on. I personally believe it's because good condoms that do feel great are highly expensive. I doubt there's people out there that have tried every condom brand on the market to see what works for them. And then you have to add a partner into the mix. I'm glad though that condoms are distributed by many people for free now. They're not the highest quality but they can be a gateway. Also thanks for mentioning serophobia. I knew the term but many people don't. Check out iTunes data & graphs at CHARTPOP.live Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Toph 375 Posted October 12, 2018 Share Posted October 12, 2018 56 minutes ago, Vergil said: You can catch HIV through oral sex if the one giving head has bleeding gums. edit: I believe very, very rare, but theoretically it could happen Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
LordEnigma 11,313 Posted October 12, 2018 Share Posted October 12, 2018 2 hours ago, B2theRich33 said: Did you actually read the article his partner stopped taking his hiv medicine which in turn raised his viral load! That why prep became ineffective. I’m sorry but it’s really ashame that y’all are so unwilling to educate yourself about HIV, PrEP, and the whole stigma with this. The CDC has come out and even stated that if a person who is HIV positive has an undetectable viral load they are unable to transfer the virus to someone who is negative. PrEP and HIV medicine work in tandem with one another, and if one stops taking their meds the chances of infection increase..... If you are educated and trusting with your partners there is no reason why going bare is an issue. Even for hookups. But also what’s the need with going bare? There are other STDs and the only real reason I’d go bare is with a partner - not because I’m shaming someone but to keep myself protected from an array of things. Its like any other activity, honestly. It’s best to be safe than sorry. And yes, I understand HIV/AIDS stigmas and how they deal with homophobia but I don’t understand this incessant NEED for barebacking especially barebacking that is forced or someone is peer pressured into. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
JusKeepBreathin 19,311 Posted October 12, 2018 Share Posted October 12, 2018 People don't die of HIV anymore. Its not a death sentence. I'm kinda not sure what everyone is all weirded out about. There are resistant strands of Syphilis out there too and no one seems to be overreacting. Just use a condom and get tested at least twice a year. "Nothing in the world is more dangerous than sincere ignorance and conscientious stupidity." -Martin Luther King Jr. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
That J 12,166 Posted October 12, 2018 Share Posted October 12, 2018 12 hours ago, JFK said: Put a condom on. It's not that hard. Risking HIV over 20 min bare sex is dumb. Sorry, not sorry. We are all educated. Ya know the longer life goes the more I agree with this. We ALL know the risks and ya cant play games with things that could potentially truly KILL you! And pulling out doesnt work because there is such a thing as pre....ya know. It sounds rude but dont come crying to me when u get infected because u couldnt put a rubber on. Sorry. The Idler Wheel Is Wiser Than The Driver Of The Screw Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
That J 12,166 Posted October 12, 2018 Share Posted October 12, 2018 12 minutes ago, JusKeepBreathin said: People don't die of HIV anymore. Its not a death sentence. I'm kinda not sure what everyone is all weirded out about. There are resistant strands of Syphilis out there too and no one seems to be overreacting. Just use a condom and get tested at least twice a year. I have a very close friend who has HIV and he got it from having a 6 month breakdown, using drugs and made some bad unfortunate decisions. However, this ain't 1982 anymore so I do agree. Medicine has changed ALOT and he is now clean and sober and rather vibrant. He will own his mistake for the rest of his life which is sad but hes doing fine. The Idler Wheel Is Wiser Than The Driver Of The Screw Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Didymus 34,380 Posted October 12, 2018 Share Posted October 12, 2018 Misleading title lol. Not the case at all. This is just a case of a rare strain of HIV that resists PrEP, as there have always been strains like that. Still ridiculous this subject gets more attention than much more urgent matters. Everyone who's so "just don't do bareback omg" is an idiot. Then just don't eat cheeseburgers, don't drink Coke, don't smoke, etc. Then we'll get your excuses of "yeah, but that's not that bad". Except it is. People just don't care that much about health or well-being. The end. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
geopang 4,831 Posted October 12, 2018 Share Posted October 12, 2018 No shade, but I would not sleep with a man on prep. Those are the ones that have sex with multiple people on a weekly basis, majority of the time with no condom. Very reckless. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
MJHolland 12,725 Posted October 12, 2018 Share Posted October 12, 2018 11 hours ago, Supersonic said: The problem really is, that due to the decreased awareness and people not taking HIV seriously as anymore, people get sloppy and a lot more reckless. Truvada isn't just PrEP, it's also a medication that is used for HIV positive people to surpress the virus. This increasingly sloppy attitude has caused us to deal with a new strain of HIV that is IMMUNE against medication. Sure, we there are multiple HIV medications and alternatives that work, if the virus is able to immunize itself against one medication, it is able to immunize itself against other medications too. That's a serious setback and people should be rightfully concerned. It's really not that concerning. Since people on PrEP are regularly tested, this safeguards against the possibility of genetically selecting a PrEP-resistant stain of HIV. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vicixs 3,559 Posted October 12, 2018 Share Posted October 12, 2018 1 hour ago, JusKeepBreathin said: People don't die of HIV anymore. Its not a death sentence. I'm kinda not sure what everyone is all weirded out about. There are resistant strands of Syphilis out there too and no one seems to be overreacting. Just use a condom and get tested at least twice a year. Isn’t the rule of thumb at least 4 times a year (every three months)? Also, at least in my case, it’s just an issue with catching anything, really. I have a mediocre immune system as it is (I’m prone to sinus and throat infections), adding onto the problem but just cause more of a strain on my body. Religion is a product to sell. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vicixs 3,559 Posted October 12, 2018 Share Posted October 12, 2018 I, also, don’t understand all the hate around people who are “ignorant”. Aren’t we all about positivity? Instead of bringing people down and simply stating that they need to “read up”, why not share the knowledge you have? This site is too much sometimes Religion is a product to sell. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
raragaga 8,119 Posted October 12, 2018 Share Posted October 12, 2018 just wear a fking condom damn xoxo Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
TEMPLE 1,358 Posted October 12, 2018 Share Posted October 12, 2018 5 hours ago, Vergil said: You can catch HIV through oral sex if the one giving head has bleeding gums. edit: I believe It’s thought you can, but no study done so far (including ones which have observed hundreds of men) hasn’t seen one case of HIV being contracted from oral sex. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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