Self-Described ‘Straight, White, Male, Republican Politician’ Gives Tribute

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You must read this.  It brought tears to my eyes, and from a straight, white male Republican, who is a Mormon.  Who would have thought he could have such an open heart, really trying to evolve.

 

Self-Described ‘Straight, White, Male, Republican Politician’ Gives Touching Orlando Tribute

 

As numerous politicians have done since Sunday’s tragic shooting at a gay club in Orlando, Florida, Lt. Gov. Spencer Cox of Utah took the stage at a vigil Monday night in Salt Lake City.

Unlike so many other politicians who offered up vague and ultimately meaningless platitudes, Cox gave an address that was heartfelt, honest and ultimately quite moving.

“I’m white, I’m Mormon, I’m straight and I love the people that died,” he said in summing his thoughts up for local station Fox 13.

More than 1,000 people gathered for Monday’s vigil, according to Fox 13. Utah’s capital city elected its first openly gay mayor last November.

Watch a video of Cox’s speech above or read the text below, as transcribed by KSL.com:

Ladies and Gentlemen,

Thank you for being here tonight on this very solemn and somber occasion. I begin with an admission and an apology. First, I recognize fully that I am a balding, youngish middle-aged, straight, white, male, Republican politician ... with all of the expectations and privileges that come with those labels. I am probably not who you expected to hear from today.

I’m here because yesterday morning, 49 Americans were brutally murdered. And it made me sad. And it made me angry. And it made me confused. I’m here because those 49 people were gay. I’m here because it shouldn’t matter. But I’m here because it does. I am not here to tell you that I know exactly what you are going through. I am not here to tell you that I feel your pain. I don’t pretend to know the depths of what you are feeling right now. But I do know what it feels like to be scared. And I do know what it feels like to be sad. And I do know what it feels like to be rejected. And, more importantly, I know what it feels like to be loved.

I grew up in a small town and went to a small rural high school. There were some kids in my class that were different. Sometimes I wasn’t kind to them. I didn’t know it at the time, but I know now that they were gay. I will forever regret not treating them with the kindness, dignity and respect — the love — that they deserved. For that, I sincerely and humbly apologize.

Over the intervening years, my heart has changed. It has changed because of you. It has changed because I have gotten to know many of you. You have been patient with me. You helped me learn the right letters of the alphabet in the right order even though you keep adding new ones. You have been kind to me. Jim Dabakis even told me I dressed nice once, even though I know he was lying. You have treated me with the kindness, dignity and respect — the love — that I very often did not deserve. And it has made me love you.

But now we are here. We are here because 49 beautiful, amazing people are gone. These are not just statistics. These were individuals. These are human beings. They each have a story. They each had dreams, goals, talents, friends, family. They are you and they are me. And one night they went out to relax, to laugh, to connect, to forget, to remember. And in a few minutes of chaos and terror, they were gone.

I believe that we can all agree we have come a long way as a society when it comes to our acceptance and understanding of the LGBTQ community (did I get that right?). However, there has been something about this tragedy that has very much troubled me. I believe that there is a question, two questions actually, that each of us needs to ask ourselves in our heart of hearts. And I am speaking now to the straight community. How did you feel when you heard that 49 people had been gunned down by a self-proclaimed terrorist? That’s the easy question. Here is the hard one: Did that feeling change when you found out the shooting was at a gay bar at 2 a.m. in the morning? If that feeling changed, then we are doing something wrong.

So now we find ourselves at a crossroads. A crossroads of hate and terror. How do we respond? How do you respond? Do we lash out with anger, hate and mistrust? Or do we, as Lincoln begged, appeal to the “better angels of our nature”?

Usually when tragedy occurs, we see our nation come together. I was saddened yesterday to see far too many retreating to their over-worn policy corners and demagoguery. Let me be clear — there are no simple policy answers to this tragedy. Beware of anyone who tells you that they have the easy solution. It doesn’t exist. And I can assure you this — that calling people idiots, communists, fascists or bigots on Facebook is not going to change any hearts or minds. Today we need fewer Republicans and fewer Democrats. Today we need more Americans.

But just because an easy solution doesn’t exist doesn’t mean we shouldn’t try. The greatest generations in the history of the world were never innately great. They became great because of how they responded in the face of evil. Their humanity is measured by their response to hate and terror.

I truly believe that this is the defining issue of our generation. Can we be brave? Can we be strong? Can we be kind and, perhaps, even happy in the face of atrocious acts of hate and terrorism? Do we find a way to unite? Or do these atrocities further corrode and divide our torn nation? Can we, the citizens of the great state of Utah, lead the nation with love in the face of adversity? Can we become a greatest generation?

I promise we can. But I also promise it will never happen if we leave it to the politicians. Ultimately, there is only one way for us to come together. It must happen at a personal level. We must learn to truly love one another.

The Prophet Muhammad is reported to have said, “You will not enter paradise until you believe, and you will not believe until you love one another.”

Jesus said, “Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you and persecute you.”

Now, you know a little something about hate. And you know a little something about persecution. But you also know something about loving, blessing and doing good. What our country needs more than ever is less politics and more kindness. If nothing else, as we can see here tonight, this tragedy has the potential to bring us closer than ever before.

And so may we leave today with a resolve to be a little kinder. May we try to listen more and talk less. May we forgive someone that has wronged us. And perhaps, most importantly, try to love someone that is different than us. For my straight friends, might I suggest starting with someone who is gay?

I leave you with the words of Lyndon B. Johnson. They were spoken at another very sad time in our history, the death of President John F. Kennedy. He said this:

“Our enemies have always made the same mistake. In my lifetime — in depression and in war — they have awaited our defeat. Each time, from the secret places of the American heart, came forth the faith they could not see or that they could not even imagine. It brought us victory. And it will again. For this is what America is all about.”

On behalf of the 3 million people of the state of Utah, we are Orlando. We love you. And I love you.

Cox’s mention of Jim Dabakis, the kindly commenter on his attire, presumably refers to the Utah state senator and co-founder of the Utah Pride Center and Equality Utah.

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This was beautiful  Props to him for checking his privilege and not proclaiming to fully understand what people are going through; it can come off insensitive when people say "I know EXACTLY what you are going through!"  

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Now that is a wonderful turn around of opinion and a wonderful statement to make.

He made an acknowledgment of wrongdoing, regret and made an apology for those past wrongdoings. He then made a commitment to moving forward as an ally while promoting inclusiveness and paying respect to all those who lost their lives.

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Can you bold the most important parts? Cause holy **** that's a long ass post lmao 

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5 minutes ago, HOMODRAKE said:

Can you bold the most important parts? Cause holy **** that's a long ass post lmao 

every word is worth it, trust me you wont regret reading it

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Just now, Adakam said:

every word is worth it, trust me you wont regret reading it

Exactly.

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7 minutes ago, HOMODRAKE said:

Can you bold the most important parts? Cause holy **** that's a long ass post lmao 

It's worth reading in full. It's an important text. 

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this is true love 

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This is the most beautiful thing I have read this days 

Finally someone who really has a great mentality. 

How can someone drag him? He's one of the religious people that really deserve heaven. 

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wow, that's a beautiful speech/text