Emma talks about Gaga not visting GGD anymore! (Read inside)

[unfitted 0]

what should we do :cry:

[DMTT 160]

 

that's ridiculous. love ya, gaga, but grow a pair. if you can't handle criticism from an online forum, i worry for you.

 

what are you doing on a fan forum?! go finish the DWUW video!

Edited December 24, 2013 by RDMP

[NIKE 262]

I feel like the... "If you don't like that she is not no. 1, go stan for Katy Perry" comment is a negative comment slipped in there in itself...

 

why is important to say that I feel like that is similar to spreading the same negativity that she is saying that gaga didn't like seeing on here 

To the fans on here that are supporting the message of ARTPOP and the Stop The Drama Start The Music campaign, I am so happy. Gaga really feels like the behavior in this fanbase is getting to an unacceptable rate, she feels she is being bullied by her own fans, attacked. Saying she needs a thicker skin in response to hearing this is wrong, she shouldn't have to become stronger for this, she and NO ONE should have to expect hate. She does so much for everyone and when she doesn't give you what you want, you get upset because you feel entitles which is also wrong. Don't send hate to the RadioARTPOP members for tonight's episode either, we only spoke our opinions about the issue. 

 

 

THIS POST >>>

 

very well put

and honestly this forum has been predominately negativity and harsh criticism and it is a little disheartening 

Edited December 24, 2013 by NIKE

[HANZ 4,380]

 

that's ridiculous. love ya, gaga, but grow a pair. if you can't handle criticism from an online forum, i worry for you.

 

what are you doing on a fan forum?! go finish the DWUW video!

this

this situation is a damn mess

[NotherClub365 84]

Good for her, this site can be insufferable sometimes, and I unfortunately have stopped visiting as often.  I've just been enjoying the album, (patiently) waiting for the DWUW album and watching youtube videos of her performances, which is the way things were when I first fell in love with Gaga.

 

It really is so much better when you focus on what she's doing as opposed to all of the expectations that people have for her work.  

 

In case anyone hasn't noticed, this whole pitting female pop stars against each other thing only serves to make all of them a little less enjoyable since the fans are only concerned with the competition.  It's hurt Katy, Gaga and Britney.  The only reason Beyonce wasn't hurt by this was because everyone assumed she wouldn't be in direct competition with them.  

 

You don't see this kind of competition amongst male musicians, and even as a guy I find this incredibly frustrating.

[GagaStefi 1,231]

All I ask is that Gaga stops looking at me weird when I meet her. I genuinely love her and I want her to know that.

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[Daenerys 5,940]

I love Gaga, I love this forum. And I have mixed feelings about this because there are fans who don't see the real negativity and there are fans that see it, try to stop it but in the process of that it can be seen in a "attacking me" kinda way when in reality all we want is just for this to STOP.

Sometimes I do wish this forum were back to last year. We were all happy! Her fragrance just came out and we were CELEBRATING and anticipating this album SO MUCH. She was wearing flawless clothes, released a massive high budget commercial that had us DROOLING. It just breaks my heart that a PERFUME celebrated more than ARTPOP itself!

Let's take it back a notch and think to ourselves, we got a great album, a fun (well to me) app and some very awesome performances so far! What more could we ask for?? :hug:

[Shadow 6,425]

How is calling her a flop and tearing her apart criticism? Those are just insults. Insults aren't coming from a place of respect. People should have their right to their views. But no one should have to put up with verbal abuse. Y'all should know the difference.

How can you learn anything from someone calling you a b---h other than, "time to ignore this person" because it's a waste of time?

I don't blame her for getting away from this place. And it isn't an issue of freedom of speech, people are free to say what they want. The problem is when people dig at her just like haters do. What kind of support goes, "I love you, Gaga, but you're flopping, fat, and lazy?" Wow, how helpful would that be? Completely useless and unnecessary. :MANiCURE:

[Disregard 50]

Well that's part of the problem. She keeps listening to stans who go crazy over those same tired as heels that we've seen over and over again . Her problem is that she listens to the wrong people.

[autumnmycat 0]

I've always preferred GGD over little monsters.com because I felt like you guys have always been more real + didn't blindly stan. 

 

 

 

This bugs me a lot.

Me too, I really can't stand LM at all, but sometimes I become disillusioned with GGD as well because all everyone cares about are the sales and how well she's doing, ect. I'm here because I love Gaga. I don't blindly stan, but when she does something I don't like, I either suck it up or comment respectfully. 

[Marrythenight27 0]

My personal opinion is that Little monsters have just become so needy and selfish. She started her music because she loved it and wanted to change the world for the better. As her career went on she truly started to focus on spreading nothing but love.

Since ARTPOP was announced there has been a change in the community. So many fans have demanded so many things from her. Then when the injury happened instead of focusing on her health all some fans could do was focus on when we would get music. Then the ARTPOP "era" started with applause and the negativity started because Applause didn't beat Roar. She has made it pretty clear that it's about the music not the charts or sales. Every time she talks about music all most people can talk is. Will this do good as a single? Will this go number 1? Will she beat Katy in the charts? Will this break some meaningless record? Most people don't focus on the music. What does it matter if it goes #1? Gaga doesn't care about numbers and she has made it clear so why should we? She could care less if a song is #99 on itunes or some chart she's doing what she loves with creating music and that's what matters.

The bullying of Gaga has especially gotten bad now with the DWUW video. It's ok that she hasn't released it. The world isn't going to end. She is getting hate from her own FANS for what not releasing a video in time. That's absurd!! She will release when she pleases she doesn't need the own people that have helped her now start to destroy her.

I'm sure most of us have been bullied or had similar issues where we question our own self worth and that's why we turned to Gaga because she taught us to love ourselves no matter what and to live our life's to the fullest. Now that she has helped us all so much we thank her by bullying her and sending her hate. Thinking she doesn't see all the hate towards her is just crazy.

She doesn't like to see hate especially from her fans. She has made it clear she is about sharing love. Spreading kindness especially online. She doesn't need to see her fans say things that are hurtful to eachtother and other artist. If you don't like something she does there's a way to express your opinion without being unkind. Instead of saying "wow that sucked it looked so messy". Or saying thinks like "well GaGa is better because she has grammys and Katy doesn't so she's obviously better" what do awards matter? Some monsters have become such bullies spreading hate everywhere they can and bullying GaGa who has done so much for us. We should think we do anything. Tweeting/posting anything negative helps absolutely nothing. We should be happy she's healthy now and she's back to doing what she loves. And never forget she is still human just because she's famous doesn't mean she doesn't have a heart.

[RitaOral 1,322]

This situation is a damn mess. Gaga needs to grow a pair. If she wants fans who blindly follow her then maybe she should recruit some of katy perrys stans. It's called constructive criticism, no one cares about her chart numbers, if we did we would have jumped off this ship after marry the night. How can she release a song saying "say what you want about me" and act like she is above criticism yet let small things like this get to her, i don't understand. Just because we don't blindly follow everything she says or believe every little thing she is doing is art, doesn't make us ungrateful. It seems like she just wants to surround herself with yes people who will blindly like anything she does now. 

[GypsyPrince 237]

Goodbye @ those once again using the excuse of "if she can't handle criticism" blah blah blah. If she can't handle criticism, she'd have broken down a long long time ago. There's a difference between not being able to cope, and not wanting to be surrounded by it. In this case, she can't really ignore the tabloids because they're literally everywhere, but what she can do is to stop reading this messy place because of all the negativity.

 

Some of y'all are hiding under the pretence of constructive criticism just to vent your frustrations against her.

 

I hope you're happy now tho. 

[Dean Winchester 196]

My personal opinion is that Little monsters have just become so needy and selfish. She started her music because she loved it and wanted to change the world for the better. As her career went on she truly started to focus on spreading nothing but love.

Since ARTPOP was announced there has been a change in the community. So many fans have demanded so many things from her. Then when the injury happened instead of focusing on her health all some fans could do was focus on when we would get music. Then the ARTPOP "era" started with applause and the negativity started because Applause didn't beat Roar. She has made it pretty clear that it's about the music not the charts or sales. Every time she talks about music all most people can talk is. Will this do good as a single? Will this go number 1? Will she beat Katy in the charts? Will this break some meaningless record? Most people don't focus on the music. What does it matter if it goes #1? Gaga doesn't care about numbers and she has made it clear so why should we? She could care less if a song is #99 on itunes or some chart she's doing what she loves with creating music and that's what matters.

The bullying of Gaga has especially gotten bad now with the DWUW video. It's ok that she hasn't released it. The world isn't going to end. She is getting hate from her own FANS for what not releasing a video in time. That's absurd!! She will release when she pleases she doesn't need the own people that have helped her now start to destroy her.

I'm sure most of us have been bullied or had similar issues where we question our own self worth and that's why we turned to Gaga because she taught us to love ourselves no matter what and to live our life's to the fullest. Now that she has helped us all so much we thank her by bullying her and sending her hate. Thinking she doesn't see all the hate towards her is just crazy.

She doesn't like to see hate especially from her fans. She has made it clear she is about sharing love. Spreading kindness especially online. She doesn't need to see her fans say things that are hurtful to eachtother and other artist. If you don't like something she does there's a way to express your opinion without being unkind. Instead of saying "wow that sucked it looked so messy". Or saying thinks like "well GaGa is better because she has grammys and Katy doesn't so she's obviously better" what do awards matter? Some monsters have become such bullies spreading hate everywhere they can and bullying GaGa who has done so much for us. We should think we do anything. Tweeting/posting anything negative helps absolutely nothing. We should be happy she's healthy now and she's back to doing what she loves. And never forget she is still human just because she's famous doesn't mean she doesn't have a heart.

Agree with you 100%  i think where most fans are upset about this is that the people that have been respectful and spreading kindness are not getting any sort of recognition but rather being piled with the ones that are negative  i think many fans find it unfair that the whole fanbase is always put in a bad light, when most of the fans here try their best to be nice, and respectful.  Hence, why they keep saying "Maybe gags can't take constructive criticism" (which is obviously not true) since she thinks all of us are being negative.  I think many are starting to feel like gaga is just assuming all of us are bad, negative creatures but we're really not   idk its just a mess tbh  oh gags, the mess that u've created is unbearable 

Edited December 24, 2013 by Dean Winchester

[lazygaga 60]

I feel bad that she sees the negativity, but I don't think she should take it so seriously. I mean some of us criticize her, but at the end of the day we would still buy her albums, listen to her music, watch her videos, etc. I mean we literally come to a fan site everyday to check her every move!

 

Also the quote: "There is no negativity in her life"

 

um...I hope this isn't for real because it sounds seriously delusional. I hope she isn't surrounded by fake "positivity", because I fear it can lead her down an egotistic, narcissistic, path a la justin bieber.