Mother is Mothering: Gaga Welcomes First Child With Michael Polansky

[popkulture 717]

6 minutes ago, elegidadedios said:

I hope not cause I would unstan. Yikes.

Weird thing to say.

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5 minutes ago, elegidadedios said:

I hope not cause I would unstan. Yikes.

1 minute ago, elegidadedios said:

Being a parent is not a right; having a proper family is.

Everyone draws the line somewhere

(for example, I have installed a self-destruct function which will terminate my GGD account once she goes back to dark/brown eyebrows)

...but I hope you make good on your word now & leave ASAP

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4 minutes ago, Nagini said:

Y'all she's entitled to her privacy. She's a human being - she doesn't owe anyone anything and is not a product for anyone to consume. We are not her parents. She'll share more when she's ready, I'm sure she's adjusting to being a mom! Her priority isn't to post on Instagram and have paparazzi hound her baby. 

From what she’s said on this topic I doubt we’ll know much at all. Maybe a name at some point, but she’s made it pretty clear her children will not be in the spotlight and won’t be until they’re adults and can make that decision. 

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3 minutes ago, elegidadedios said:

What about adoption? Like the option is literally there. Being a parent is not a right; having a proper family is.

You don't have to agree with her choices but claiming one thing is "right" vs another is icky.

Her choices, whatever they were, are valid and need to be respected. Period.

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Just now, popkulture said:

You don't have to agree with her choices but claiming one thing is "right" vs another is icky.

Her choices, whatever they were, are valid and need to be respected. Period.

& what is a "proper" family?? Lmao

[popkulture 717]

Just now, elegidadedios said:

I'm sorry but as a person who's truly against surrogate I'll have a hard time accepting my idol did it that way. God. I won't say what I really think for the sale of that precios child but. Disappointing to say the least. This is the first time I find myself being against her. Wow.

Truly what is the point of this post - you have the option to log off this site and live your life outside of this fanbase if you're so offended. LOL

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Just now, elegidadedios said:

I'm sorry but as a person who's truly against surrogate I'll have a hard time accepting my idol did it that way. God. I won't say what I really think for the sale of that precios child but. Disappointing to say the least. This is the first time I find myself being against her. Wow.

Honestly, leave then. You have no idea anyone else’s circumstances or what has happened here, all I can see is you judging what women (or AFAB people) choose to do with their bodies with no actual information. 

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Just now, elegidadedios said:

I don't support the view of women as bodies to trade other human bodies, it's mysoginist. Rich people are benefiting from the fact that many women need the money. It's humilliating.

I don't support the views of men commenting on a woman's choice to have a child in the way she wanted and chose, it's misogynistic. It's humiliating.

[SavetheEarthNow 280]

She had a surrogate carry the baby. 

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Just now, SavetheEarthNow said:

She had a surrogate carry the baby. 

@dynamite since you're not here, I'll do it

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4 minutes ago, elegidadedios said:

I'm sorry but as a person who's truly against surrogate I'll have a hard time accepting my idol did it that way. God. I won't say what I really think for the sale of that precios child but. Disappointing to say the least. This is the first time I find myself being against her. Wow.

Hum... what exactly do you find so hard to accept, respectfully? We don't know Gaga's situation. She could have fertility issues or simply not be able to carry a pregnancy for health reasons.

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1 minute ago, elegidadedios said:

Again adoption exists. Period.

She actually may have adopted lmao, none of us know. What I do know is you’re trying to comment on things you have no ****ing clue about.

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14 minutes ago, Nagini said:

Y'all she's entitled to her privacy. She's a human being - she doesn't owe anyone anything and is not a product for anyone to consume. We are not her parents. She'll share more when she's ready, I'm sure she's adjusting to being a mom! Her priority isn't to post on Instagram and have paparazzi hound her baby. 

whatever, that's why i dont come here often

[SavetheEarthNow 280]

14 minutes ago, elegidadedios said:

I'm sorry but as a person who's truly against surrogate I'll have a hard time accepting my idol did it that way. God. I won't say what I really think for the sale of that precios child but. Disappointing to say the least. This is the first time I find myself being against her. Wow.

Oh be quiet. The baby is still formed by the fertilization of the woman's egg by the man's sperm, it's only carried by someone else. There is NOTHING wrong with that. Not all women can carry their own babies for health reasons, since Gaga was assaulted at a young age and has had various health problems, she may not actually be able to carry a baby. Just like with men who can naturally be impotent and have sperm that have no motility and can't fertilize eggs. 

Edited Saturday at 03:33 AM by SavetheEarthNow

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2 minutes ago, elegidadedios said:

I hardly disagree because this is a serious topic, next to other sensitive topics regarding women. We ain't talking about music choices here. And I'm entitled to be disappointed, huh?

Every single thing on this planet can be viewed as problematic or exploitative. Sure, there are unethical viewpoints on surrogacy in some cases but not all cases are like that.

It's not fair or right for you to assume Gaga's choice was exploitative when you, or anyone else, doesn't know the facts or details on this highly personal choice. 

Anyways - enjoy the weekend you deserve and stay well. Blessing to you and your opinions. xx