Schizophonic 7,015 Posted July 13, 2021 Share Posted July 13, 2021 when i was 16, i was in a relationship with a 30 yr old guy and no one saw a problem in it… Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ivy 11,800 Posted July 13, 2021 Share Posted July 13, 2021 He seems super immature in the videos. Yuck Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Versace 7,915 Posted July 13, 2021 Share Posted July 13, 2021 I get that this is controversial but when I was 15, I dated someone who was 19 and at 17 someone who was 21. Neither side was looking for a specific age, never felt predatory, everything was and always had to be consensual. If anything I was better treated, as I appreciated the maturity compared to the weirdos in school. Looking back, I never felt preyed on or taken advantage off. This might not be the case for everyone. What I’m trying to say is sometimes both sides are factors to this. If this guy was pushing himself on Millie, yes all hell needs to break loose towards that behavior but if Millie actually wanted to date this guy, do any of us have a say really? You can’t control the actions of minors, especially teens who are quite rebellious. Do I think that such relationships are healthy? In most cases they are not and probably illegal but there also needs to be accountability on both sides. An adult figure in Millie’s life should have provided guidance for Millie and made her aware that there are probably healthier relationships for her. The point of all of this, is let’s not jump to conclusions and call someone manipulative or predatory, especially when we haven’t heard as such from Millie. It could just boil down to poor or questionable choices. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teletubby 139,625 Posted July 13, 2021 Share Posted July 13, 2021 2 hours ago, BUtterfield 8 said: this is not him, it is Jon Bon Jovi's son Jake Bongiovi Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ALGAYDO 30,729 Posted July 13, 2021 Share Posted July 13, 2021 2 hours ago, BUtterfield 8 said: Did he really just admit to having a sexual relationship with a minor, live on IG? I- Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
AndiGaga 6,303 Posted July 13, 2021 Share Posted July 13, 2021 20 & 16 is ... okay? At least here in Germany, that is a common age gap Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cavadour 2,111 Posted July 13, 2021 Share Posted July 13, 2021 My first gf was 14 I was 16. After one year together we went to her parents asking for the pill. Her mom was scandalized. Her dad asked his wife to shut up, cause to his eyes we were responsable kids. He always supported us. Late to the party but I got a diamond heart Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
SchwineLove 1,374 Posted July 13, 2021 Share Posted July 13, 2021 God, where is her guardian? She might be not cognitively developed to do a relationship that serious. They lived together? Man, that thing's seriously messed up. I know age is just a number, but we need to believe in science (biology and maybe psychology). I hope she didn't and won't do something that she will regret later in life, at least until 18. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luna Lovegood 24,100 Posted July 13, 2021 Share Posted July 13, 2021 WHY IS HER PARENTS NOT DOING ANYTHING???? luna’s advocate Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Water Filter 32 Posted July 13, 2021 Share Posted July 13, 2021 59 minutes ago, AndiGaga said: 20 & 16 is ... okay? At least here in Germany, that is a common age gap no, it’s not. A 16 yo person is still a child and hasn’t fully matured and developed yet. A 16yo and a 20yo want very different things in life, and it’s very easy for the adult one in the relationship to take control over and manipulate the child and relationship. I was in the same position, when I was 16 and got manipulated into a toxic relationship with a 20yo, who would control me, forbid me of seeing my friends etc and then play it all on the "you’re still a child, you don’t know" excuse. A 16yo person is still a child, and it’s creepy that a grown ass man is interested in a child. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Fame Monster 4,002 Posted July 13, 2021 Share Posted July 13, 2021 I think this is more controversial in the USA compared to Europe (at least compared to my country). My parents started to date when my mother was 16 years old and my dad was 21 years old. That’s quite normal to me. However, there is a lot of variation in the maturity amongst 16 year-old youngsters, so I understand the concern. I started dating when I was 17 years old and if you ask me now, I wish I had been a bit older. Find your freedom in the music Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ItWasntLaauv 6,392 Posted July 13, 2021 Share Posted July 13, 2021 Ew a douche and a creep, 2 in 1, we hate to see it. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheMiddleGround 3,105 Posted July 13, 2021 Share Posted July 13, 2021 2 hours ago, AndiGaga said: 20 & 16 is ... okay? At least here in Germany, that is a common age gap In The Netherlands as well. People are getting to judgemental on here. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
GucciGa 3,729 Posted July 13, 2021 Share Posted July 13, 2021 God, that's so disgusting. He deserves to get dragged, and hard! 😇 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
phillipaf 681 Posted July 13, 2021 Share Posted July 13, 2021 2 hours ago, AndiGaga said: 20 & 16 is ... okay? At least here in Germany, that is a common age gap No it is not. It happens sure, but it‘s barely legal. Idk where in Germany you‘re from, but please don’t say all of us herr are preying and grooming younger girls. That‘s just not true Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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