Scott Disick, 37, is dating Lisa Rinna’s 19 yo daughter Amelia Gray Hamlin

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1 hour ago, 777777777777777777 said:

Bernie Ecclestone wife was born when he was 46. They welcomed their first son when he was 89
I don't find Scott and Lisa creepy

one is 44 and the other is 19. not exactly the same sort of thing.

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56 minutes ago, Knife said:

Forget legality, the fact that he has a pattern of dating young girls after divorcing the mother of his children is extremely creepy.

And the fact that he acted really close with Kendall and Kylie is extremely sus. I always found him weird. 

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Weirdddd he's dating a teenager. 

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I don't know. I have had...relations with men much older than myself and think it's perfectly possible to have a healthy relationship with an age gap, but when one of them is in their teens it's a bit of a different story in my opinion. I personally enjoy the dynamic between myself and someone older than me, but 19 is verrrrry young, even if she is "legal"...even needing to roll that out as an excuse is creepy. I get that they're both adults and have agency and can consent to whatever they like, it just doesn't sit right though. 

I'm 27 and I now think differently of some of the older men I was with when I was younger - just noticing the changes in myself in the last couple of years has shifted my perspective a little and I realise how naive and easy to take advantage of I personally was when I was in my early 20s. Of course that's just my experience and everyone matures at different times, but I still think 19 is too young.

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16 minutes ago, StarstruckIllusion said:

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The way I kinda wanna date men in their late 30s bc they’re hot and mature but everyone would drag me and assume I’m being groomed (????)

but also don’t wanna get dragged 

but then also why is any response in this thread actually valid tbf... idk.

Yay for them as long as nothing horrendous is happening 

I don’t feel like the girls or someone like you should be dragged at all, I just think it reflects poorly on the character of the older partner. There’s nothing wrong with being attracted to someone older than you, and there are a lot of reasons they can be a more valuable partner (higher chance of having a stable career & owning property, maturity, life experience, potentially better finances).

It’s the power imbalance that is worrying, especially when it becomes a pattern. There are lots of couples out there like this and i’m sure some have good relationships, but there is also a higher chance of it being abusive/dysfunctional. Almost all of the women I know who had much older boyfriends when they were teenagers have either regretted it or come out to say the relationship was in fact abusive or even violent, they developed eating disorders and other psychological issues, etc etc

I used to want to become a social worker and did a lot of research about domestic abuse and gender based violence. I’m not just stereotyping, it is a genuine pattern and that is why it’s seen as a red flag or “gross” to some.

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Worrying behaviour in my opinion

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GagaDaily loves some pedophilia once in a while 

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I’m really not against age gaps, but anytime someone is under 25 I think there is room for manipulation. 

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2 hours ago, Mindblown said:

So she was just born when he legally became an adult. Love that, not creepy at all...

Tony Bennett "met" his current wife when her mother was pregnant with her, i.e. she was an unborn fetus 

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Why should i care? It's not like she needs my permission on who to ****. They're adults. 

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45 minutes ago, gypsy101 said:

one is 44 and the other is 19. not exactly the same sort of thing.

That girl is just doing it for fame. It might looks creepy but it makes them more 'interesting' couple. They just want people to talk about them. She is an adult, grown up in Hollywood, wants to be a model and this is a career path she chose. She will gain million followers and get some contracts. 

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43 minutes ago, GagaSine said:

I don’t feel like the girls or someone like you should be dragged at all, I just think it reflects poorly on the character of the older partner. There’s nothing wrong with being attracted to someone older than you, and there are a lot of reasons they can be a more valuable partner (higher chance of having a stable career & owning property, maturity, life experience, potentially better finances).

It’s the power imbalance that is worrying, especially when it becomes a pattern. There are lots of couples out there like this and i’m sure some have good relationships, but there is also a higher chance of it being abusive/dysfunctional. Almost all of the women I know who had much older boyfriends when they were teenagers have either regretted it or come out to say the relationship was in fact abusive or even violent, they developed eating disorders and other psychological issues, etc etc

I used to want to become a social worker and did a lot of research about domestic abuse and gender based violence. I’m not just stereotyping, it is a genuine pattern and that is why it’s seen as a red flag or “gross” to some.

Hmm. I guess you’ve served multiple good points. I mean I still hope they buck the trend, (as we probably all do, but cynicism isn’t completely unwarranted) and are actually happy. I also feel like I’d be annoyed if my partner was being slandered bc he’s dating me like 🧍‍♂️...

First of all thats my man so I gotta protecc, but it’s also kinda my fault? Altho not really bc I guess my age is [short word for easily replaceable]... but so is his 🧍‍♂️

Not even dating anyone older rn tbf so I’m gonna end my mental energy on this topic here and send best wishes as always 

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When I was 20, I dated a super hot 37 year old with rock hard abs and a rock hard....................................................................................................

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

....................................................Mercedes Benz. I enjoyed every minute of it. 

 

 

So I don't find this weird. I find it more weird that after season 56 of the Kardashians that anyone would think Scott can be in a serious relationship.

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Copy and pasting my Madonna thread response for anyone interested in the psychology/math behind appropriate age ranges.  This case also does not align with what some of the literature says

To those who have an issue with the age gap -- I'm not an ageist and think the age gap is pretty wide-- here's the recommendation from professionals on Psychology Today (and they clarify that it may not always work for everyone):

"What is the acceptable minimum age for a dating partner? When this question comes up in conversation, someone inevitably cites the half your age plus seven rule. This rule states that by dividing your own age by two and then adding seven you can find the socially acceptable minimum age of anyone you want to date. So if you’re a 24-year-old, you can feel free to be with anyone who is at least 19 (12 + 7) but not someone who is 18.1 The (lesser-applied) other side of the rule defines a maximum age boundary: Take your age, subtract 7, and double it. So for a 24-year-old, the upper age limit would be 34 (17 * 2). With some quick math, the rule provides a minimum and maximum partner age based on your actual age that, if you choose to follow it, you can use to guide your dating decisions."

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/meet-catch-and-keep/201405/who-is-too-young-or-too-old-you-date

Buunk, B. P., Dijkstra, P., Kenrick, D. T., & Warntjes, A. (2001). Age preferences for mates as related to gender, own age, and involvement level. Evolution and Human Behavior, 22, 241-250.