Debithius 5,863 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 Why would she say anything nice when she has the nastiest fanbase out there? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gypsygaga1 3,623 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 1 hour ago, Beatboom said: But it's not her fault that they didn't mature enough to understand the clear boundary. Like all of those stans are in their 20s now (at least).. If you're a 25 Yr old sitting at home sulking bc mother monster doesn't post every day or show us around her house then you're the problem, not Gaga 😅 Exactly my opinion. If your happiness really depends on Gaga be active all the time... well I don't know what to tell you Perfect Ilusion Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
March34th 1,973 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 2 hours ago, littlepotter said: Sorry people here are trying to gaslight you. You're allowed to feel sad about it. why are you using this word in a context that it doesn't apply to. please stop. gaslighting is verbal and emotional abuse to make a victim feel crazy or disconnected from reality when the abuser is trying to cover their own tracks of abuse or mistreatment. it doesn't apply to someone in a fandom posting their opinion on a forum and having opposing opinions come back to them. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
freebit 6,240 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 Honestly, some of you are serving Eminem Stan teas (would not be surprised if someone unironically has already posted a comment to her like "Dear Miss "I'm Too Good To Tweet Or Write My Fans" ). Seriously, read these lyrics: https://genius.com/Eminem-stan-lyrics Or better yet, watch the masterpiece that is Satoshi Kon's Perfect Blue. Like, I get being put off that she's not that active, but you have to put yourself in her shoes. Search her name on twitter and see all those tasteless and casually cruel comments that people write while badly trying to get likes and retweets. It's toxic. Would you all want to put yourself through that everyday if you didn't have to? I certainly wouldn't. She's a human being, and has her own inner life and personal relationships to keep up with, and I don't think her lack of tweeting and IG posting is anything personal against you guys. 1 hour ago, Noah said: To be honest, most Popstars don‘t use Social Media thaaat much. I just wish Gaga let her Team access her accounts more or have them open a TeamGaga Account, that actually promotes stuff, organizes Streaming Parties or Fan Contests (whatever) like Selena, Taylor, Ariana have. Aside from that - yes, having a bond with your fans is amazing (and I‘m sure when she tours again or something, she will be able to have that bond again) - but she‘s also allowed to have time off from Social Media even if its a year or two. I think that's a great idea. Like either that, I think it would be great for her if she got her social media manager to keep her twitter more up-to-date, like for example, answering and retweeting other celebs like Garth who @-ed her and praised on twitter last week, or when Jojo Siwa who came out to Born this Way. I feel like it's kind of like e-greeting cards, kind of prudent and nice. Though, I read where she talked extensively to Garth at the Captiol, but it never hurts to keep up with that sort of stuff IMO. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
March34th 1,973 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 gaga has ptsd and has expressed dozens of times that her fanbase and the media trigger her when they constantly need her attention, such as when people in public want to touch her and grab her as if she's not a human deserving of space. i get the feeling of now having an artist you like wish their fanbase a happy holidays or whatever, but its really not the end of the world. she doesn't ignore us by far, she's in her thirties and has a life and other aspirations and doesn't seem like the type of person to sit on her phone 24/7 and reply to fans on twitter like other younger artists do. plus we need to remember how she has been treated by self proclaimed little monsters since the ARTPOP era. a lot of you turned on her because you wanted "darkga" or "weirdga" or "dark pop" (not a genre of music by the way) and she wanted to explore art she enjoys. we all need to remember she's a human being who has her own life outside of being lady gaga, and she also has mental and physical health complications that complicate her life a little more. give her a break for once, there's threads like this on the monthly now and it's getting frustrating because it feels like none of you actually analyze what could be going on with her Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
March34th 1,973 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 1 hour ago, Meraki said: All I can say is that I'm happy she didn't kill herself because lord knows that she must've went through hell with how people treat her and how she worked her ass of to get her status. Let her enjoy her life. Yes, I know you want new content, but you can't control the situation. Venting is one thing but chasing after her team and harassing them will get you NOWHERE. Even other fanbases are messing with us. We need to take a step back and welcome Gaga with love because that's all she did to us. Let the woman live her life! She didn't even want to be a singer at first, she wanted to be an actress! I'm all for her, no matter what, because she was there for me during my lowest hours. She's the reason why I'm here. That's all I ever needed and wanted from her. this is such a good point. we very much could have lost her numerous times, she's been through hell and she's alluded to being suicidal in the past. we need to be more gentle with her and give her respect. she very much still enjoys being a pop star and i like to believe she is self aware about and appreciates the legacy and impact she's created. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bottom 1,842 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 Don't worry i'm sure she will be all "hey little monsters love you" when she has a single to promote in the future Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
rasclautmangos 2,746 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 Gaga gives me vibes (I could be wrong) that she does a good bit of masking if that makes sense. Being happy and positive on the outside while feeling tortured on the inside. No way her personality would be the same, she could very well be hanging on by a thread a lot of the time. Many thought she was on cloud 9 happy during then ASIB time period. Hit movie, song, critical acclaim, awards. Then it comes out that she's been suffering from depression and has to be coaxed to do much of anything. Then a lot of "fans" pretend to feel sorry for her, saying they didn't know. You just didn't care. All you wanted was to be entertained. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
SHALLOW 16,417 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 I have to agree Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarah H 3,679 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 7 minutes ago, rasclautmangos said: Gaga gives me vibes (I could be wrong) that she does a good bit of masking if that makes sense. Being happy and positive on the outside while feeling tortured on the inside. No way her personality would be the same, she could very well be hanging on by a thread a lot of the time. Many thought she was on cloud 9 happy during then ASIB time period. Hit movie, song, critical acclaim, awards. Then it comes out that she's been suffering from depression and has to be coaxed to do much of anything. Then a lot of "fans" pretend to feel sorry for her, saying they didn't know. You just didn't care. All you wanted was to be entertained. Spot on IMO Some fans act like she doesn't care about them but do they *really* care about her? They certainly don't act like they do with all their moaning. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
HermioneT 1,998 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 Most of you and me got used to celebs and influencers being active on social media 24/7 and sharing a lot with their followers. That's the new normal now. Gaga obviously lives a more offline life and mainly uses social media for "job related" stuff. And honestly, I'm glad she's doing it that way. It is not healthy at all to get updates of a celebs', influencers' or even you idols' life more than once a week. I think, she has also outgrown the phase when she had and most likely also wanted to cater to her fans nonstop. It's her life, her decision and you should stop forcing your expectations on her. I can understand it's sad for some of you, but in the end our reception of her and how she actually is, is nothing we can know in the slightest. She / hers Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beatboom 948 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 2 hours ago, ModernEcstasy said: I wouldn’t mind if she chose to be this way if we had content. Being silent constantly and then releasing an album every few years, is not it! Her last 3 eras have been very short anyway, so what difference would it make. "is not it"... What is "it"? She isn't silent constantly. She tweeted about the aussies back in the club. She liked several tweets from fans who got oreos. She posted about the inauguration. She posted a pic of her and Michael.. Which was her way of saying she's very happy with him. When she does post selfies she is usually wearing make up and if she dares tag what haus labs products she's using y'all are not interested. Like fk off, how dare you tag your make up business!!!!!!!!! She does post. Yet a lot of you are not interested bc your gut instinct is always to complain. Again, that's your problem. Not hers. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
PawsUpJago 1,956 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 I don't blame her, we honestly didn't deserve what Chromatica could have been anyway 😂 We have to remember it's not like she's our actual friend, and when she was aiming to take more of that approach back in the day she saw the true ugliness of the fan base and she must be disappointed to a degree. I don't need her to stay in touch at all, all I can hope is that she's happy in some way. You all know the second she even announces anything music related down the line you will forget all about these things 😂 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ModernEcstasy 9,031 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 I do believe that Gaga is suffering mentally. In which case, it is fine to not want to release content/ promote etc. However, I do feel that having millions of fans worldwide (some of whom look up to her like a hero), waiting on her every move should push her to want to acknowledge the end of Chromatica. It literally takes seconds to put out a few sentences and end people’s misery. It’s being stuck in Limbo that frustrates me. I understand that she has her Demons. Many people do. She’s only human after all! Edit: Thinking about it, if she did tell us that the era had ended, many fans would kick off over that too. I guess the poor woman can’t win. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beatboom 948 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 32 minutes ago, Bottom said: Don't worry i'm sure she will be all "hey little monsters love you" when she has a single to promote in the future If you feel that way then you don't have to be a fan... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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