REALITY 76,691 Posted June 19, 2020 Share Posted June 19, 2020 3 minutes ago, TimisaMonster said: More like she is trying to cry victim...she doesnt say she was under any drug or alcohol influence....just she had a painful first sex experience with a guy who didn't care about her needs... This doesn't sound like sexual assault...everything leading up to it tells me she wanted to be with him and went so far as to meet up...she liked him...let's be honest here Then let's be honest: we weren't there and we're not her, so we don't know exactly what she went through. This is precisely why more people don't come out with accusations. It's not because they didn't feel what they felt, it's because they're afraid of being judged. Could she be lying about this? Sure, technically it's possible. But you do realize that 2-10% of sexual assault reports are false, right? The likelihood of her lying is much lower than her telling the truth. She has PTSD and has had to go to therapy. Awfully convenient that y'all just overlooked that part. A bad first-time sex experience doesn't result in someone getting PTSD or having to go to therapy. 𝔊𝔬𝔬𝔡𝔟𝔶𝔢, ℑ'𝔩𝔩 𝔰𝔢𝔢 𝔶𝔬𝔲 𝔦𝔫 𝔪𝔶 𝔡𝔯𝔢𝔞𝔪𝔰 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Candy Gaga 5,374 Posted June 19, 2020 Share Posted June 19, 2020 Sketchy story. Everyone in her comments are pulling proof she's lying. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
GagaSine 7,464 Posted June 19, 2020 Share Posted June 19, 2020 Really impressed by all the people here who have no understanding of power structures and imbalances. Just tattoo ‘I love rape culture’ on ur forehead already. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
BleepBloop 10,316 Posted June 19, 2020 Share Posted June 19, 2020 1 hour ago, justhislife said: He wasn't in his 20s, he was 18 or 19. That doesn't excuse what happened because that's definitely not how to go about sex, but the way she is trying to frame this makes things a bit questionable... It was in december 2014 though??? He was 20 years and 9 months old, just because we're trying to be correct Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 19, 2020 Share Posted June 19, 2020 1 hour ago, FRANZGA said: Also, i dont think that's a rape.. just a horrible first sex experience. Only the individual gets to say if it's rape or not. By the way, if sex was horrible because of pain or because you didn't wanna do it that's rape, bcause if its painful ull ask to stop and if the person doesn't stop that's rape. If all of a sudden u dont wanna do it anymore and the person continues that's rape. She also said she had PTSD, because that was rape. If it was just "bad sex" there would be no PTSD no trauma and no anxiety years later. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Borislshere 53,080 Posted June 19, 2020 Share Posted June 19, 2020 And to those who say it’s for attention, honestly what would she gain from all this? if she “just wanted attention” then she could’ve posted pics and been like “Ansel and I had sex” and kept it moving. Why would she post her entire story, knowing she’d probably get attacked for it by people all around the world, just for “attention”? we’ve got to do better. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 19, 2020 Share Posted June 19, 2020 1 hour ago, Glamourpuss said: This is why it's so important for every girl and woman to know the power of the word NO. You don't have to be a people pleaser and you're allowed to stand up for yourself. Exactly. I feel like a lot of girls/women are too scared to say no. I'm personally the type to always put boundaries on everything and have certain things I accept others I will not and i'm very stubborn so it's impossible to seduce/use charisma or any tactics to get me to do something I inherently do not want to do. Sometimes it's hard for me to understand how some allow that to happen, and then it causes just pain and damage to them but honestly it's pretty simple and might take practice if you're not confident or naive but SAY NO. Just say NO I do not want to do this or be this, or wear this, or go there. Point blank, no excuse, no apologies, you are your own person you're not an object, you're not made to please men, you're not here as a 'pretty' object. By the way, you are allowed to be UGLY, just like men are. So do not apologize for being ugly either, be who you wanna be. And don't stay alone with a man in a car or dark alley, seriously it'll save you a lot of time and drama. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suuus 5,632 Posted June 19, 2020 Share Posted June 19, 2020 1 minute ago, Borislshere said: And to those who say it’s for attention, honestly what would she gain from all this? if she “just wanted attention” then she could’ve posted pics and been like “Ansel and I had sex” and kept it moving. Why would she post her entire story, knowing she’d probably get attacked for it by people all around the world, just for “attention”? we’ve got to do better. I cant believe people lmao reacting this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Borislshere 53,080 Posted June 19, 2020 Share Posted June 19, 2020 1 minute ago, Suuus said: I cant believe people lmao reacting this post I can at this point. It’s always the same ignorant users reacting lmao to topics like this. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
nodandsmile 10,633 Posted June 19, 2020 Share Posted June 19, 2020 ummmm it was consensual... sounds to me the problem is that it wasn't enjoyable and his *sshole self didn't care! this kinda sounds like that Aziz Ansari story sounds cold but I hope she heals! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 19, 2020 Share Posted June 19, 2020 55 minutes ago, M Monstre said: I don't know how y'all are trying to make it sound like she's being manipulative. Cus it's always the girl's fault Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
VOLANTIS 16,406 Posted June 19, 2020 Share Posted June 19, 2020 The age of consent for sex in US is 18 years. She was 17 and he was 20. And yet some GGD users (who can't count apparently), are debating whether it was consensual or not. I'll lift you 3 inches off the ground and drag you to a meter and a half Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
REALITY 76,691 Posted June 19, 2020 Share Posted June 19, 2020 12 minutes ago, KanyeWest said: Cus it's always the girl's fault The amount of completely idiotic posts in this thread is concerning We're on a site dedicated to someone who's always been about helping victims and survivors of sexual assault, who is herself also a sexual assault survivor. It's a ****ing shame. 𝔊𝔬𝔬𝔡𝔟𝔶𝔢, ℑ'𝔩𝔩 𝔰𝔢𝔢 𝔶𝔬𝔲 𝔦𝔫 𝔪𝔶 𝔡𝔯𝔢𝔞𝔪𝔰 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
theahsfan 13,822 Posted June 19, 2020 Share Posted June 19, 2020 2 hours ago, justhislife said: He wasn't in his 20s, he was 18 or 19. That doesn't excuse what happened because that's definitely not how to go about sex, but the way she is trying to frame this makes things a bit questionable... He was 20 at the time, but I agree, a 3 year gap is hardly anything major. I guess it's because the age of consent is 18 in America. Here in the UK it's 16 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
053Timo 1,682 Posted June 19, 2020 Share Posted June 19, 2020 Oh come on -.- leave the boy alone. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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