Gagi 2,750 Posted April 22, 2020 Share Posted April 22, 2020 2 minutes ago, alecks said: The reason people (particularly Americans) are so uncomfortable with big age gaps like that, especially when young, is that there is such a gap in life experiences that it makes it super easy to be taken advantage of. Do you think a 15 or 16 year old knows everything a 25-30 year old does? Not talking about math and sciences, but life experience. Most likely not, because your life is in a totally different place. I think it depends honestly, as I said it’s like I was 16 just yesterday and am speaking of experience in dating older guys. Personally, I had the feeling to fit in into the life’s of the people I dated, if not we stopped dating. Even when the person was like 10 years older. Maybe there’s a difference between the 15/16 years old that go to school and the ones that start working earlier. I graduated with 15 (my grades where good enough to do a year earlier) and started a training, so working full time, directly afterwards. I saved money and moved out with 16 in my own apartment. Now I’m living together with my 8 years older boyfriend. My life is and wasn’t too different than a 25 years old Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
xoxo Craig 55,649 Posted April 22, 2020 Share Posted April 22, 2020 16 in the UK is legal age for consent btw End Racism Now Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chromatican 4,046 Posted April 22, 2020 Share Posted April 22, 2020 I don't get this. How can consent ages vary so wildly? And wouldn't this be considered child pr0nography? How can it be legal to sleep with 16 year olds, but illegal to film it? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mugler 223 Posted April 22, 2020 Share Posted April 22, 2020 1 hour ago, Blue Lagoon said: Also not ppl trying to defend tom because the age of consent in the UK is 16 tyler is American so either way it’s disgusting No, not really. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted April 22, 2020 Share Posted April 22, 2020 1 hour ago, Guapo said: 16 and 25 is a big difference. Just because something is legal it doesn´t make right! The brain of a 25 year old married man who has a son is not the same as the one of one who is 16 years old. It might be legally consent but it´s definitely taking advantage. https://bigthink.com/mind-brain/adult-brain?rebelltitem=2#rebelltitem2 Someone with good morals and values in life, thank u Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
littlepotter 74,825 Posted April 22, 2020 Share Posted April 22, 2020 2 hours ago, alecks said: Whether it’s legal or not, dating someone twice your age 100% opens you up for manipulation. The other person has had twice as long on this earth to learn how to play the game. Dating, yeah. Kissing someone? Please 1 hour ago, KyaneWest said: And slavery was legal You did NOT just equate slavery to a makeout session you should be ashamed chaeri pls Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted April 22, 2020 Share Posted April 22, 2020 3 minutes ago, littlepotter said: ou did NOT just equate slavery to a makeout session you should be ashamed No honey I meant that just because it's legal doesn't mean it's right Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drin Lon 7,875 Posted April 22, 2020 Share Posted April 22, 2020 Isn’t 16 the age of consent in the US? You know that in some other countries it’s even 14... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jose P 23,341 Posted April 22, 2020 Share Posted April 22, 2020 Well I’ve been with guys even 8 to 10 years older than me, and while I know it’s something very prevalent in the gay community that doesn’t automatically mean it’s right. Even if I myself have done it, it’s perfectly understandable that it may come off as weird for outsiders. Especially if you’re 16 and with a 25 year old. Like damn, at 16 you’re still a high schooler. I know the age of consent over there is 16 but still. There’s no denying it’s kinda weird. Even moreso bc Tom is already a married adult. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
imnotyourbabe10 6,081 Posted April 22, 2020 Share Posted April 22, 2020 Regardless of the truth, why are people so freakin' obsessed with youth? Intelligence (and even gray hair and non-normative body types) is/are sexy. I respect all attraction(s) or fantasies but obviously not if underage. EDIT: Age of consent varies but, regardless, the obsession with attaining or dominating youth is especially cringey. Call Me By Your Name was a decent film and story about first love, for example, but it is problematic as hellllll. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jose P 23,341 Posted April 22, 2020 Share Posted April 22, 2020 1 hour ago, xoxo Craig said: Perez is disgusting pig lmao, I don't believe this at all also, Tom is married. I don’t really believe this much. But to be fair, Tom being married doesn’t matter. Gay couples tend to be very sexually open. Someone said a few posts back that Tom and his husband even organize sex parties and it’s not too hard to believe. It’s pretty common in the gay community. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
rodrigouuu 236 Posted April 22, 2020 Share Posted April 22, 2020 y'all still believing her?? He should have been left back in 2007 when he tried to get Britney to kill herself. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
AsleepOnTheCeiling 6,163 Posted April 22, 2020 Share Posted April 22, 2020 2 hours ago, mxnster said: lets not forget that perez was literally commenting "youre making mw hard or this makes me h0rneee" on a few girls tiktoks 2 hours ago, Doot said: Granted I was of age, but Perez Hilton also tweeted me several times talking about wanting to have sex with me so... I remain grossed out and skeptical of anything and everything. I have screenshots of Perez saying "You can post it on Twitter! We demand receipts!" to a 18 year old guy's Tik Tok about the guy having a huge d*ck. While that's technically legal, it's definitely more morally wrong as Perez is 24 years older than the guy, and the age difference for the boys is less than half that number. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
I LOVE GGD 1,247 Posted April 22, 2020 Share Posted April 22, 2020 2 hours ago, KyaneWest said: Someone with good morals and values in life, thank u It´s just that it bothers me the fact the most people are being double standard which of course is super normal on GGD but a 16 year old teen is definitely in disadvantage compared to a 25 year old man. I don´t know why but also this couple of Dustin and Tom give me weird vibes. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
StarstruckIllusion 52,278 Posted April 23, 2020 Share Posted April 23, 2020 Literally the only problem with a 16 and a 25yo is the mental gap... which would’nt exist in a hookup, bc it’s not a relationship... yeah it’s weird but like as long as it’s consensual and legal it’s not a big deal. Also can Perez just **** off in general? EDIT: WAIT TOM IS MARRIED??? Chile nvm suddenly he in the ****ing wrong if this is true. Imagine being cheated on someone who probably can’t calculate the pythagorean theorem I— EDIT 2: nvm it’s probably open but what’s even worse is that Perez outed a teen... yikes Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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