Gohan 16,447 Posted September 18, 2017 Share Posted September 18, 2017 1 hour ago, Dominic Marc said: It's not so black/white as this (no pun intended). Read this: http://www.theblackinstitute.org/can_we_ever_really_reclaim_the_n_word# It might help to understand that it's not so easy to reclaim/issolate the word and that the difference isn't also as clear cut. I feel like black people using the word is somehow bad, because most of the times it's being used to belittle someone. ''_____ trynna destroy me, but I'm unstoppable'' ''_____ don't mess with me'' and so on. Generally. Just like how some gay people use ''f*****''' in a derogatory way most of the time. It's a part of pop culture and people think it's cool to use it. tryna go ask Alice, tryna catch that rabbit Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
littlepotter 75,147 Posted September 18, 2017 Share Posted September 18, 2017 11 hours ago, Tadeo said: It's like saying that in the gay community is ok to call each other names such F-GGOT but expecting respect from the rest. That's just not how it works. Words have meanings attached to them regardless of your background. You can't expect to use such a negative word towards a community you belong to, knowing how derogatory the word is and expect the world to be respectful of how to use it, when you use it so freely and publicly. There's no logic in how that works. There won't ever be a positive change in how we use certain words such the N word or the F word or the W word if continue to cultivate their use in that manner. i can't believe i finally found someone who thinks like me. like, ugh let me not elaborate because someone's bound to come up with some smart response unrelated to what i say 11 hours ago, Morphine Prince said: This example Minorities are free to reclaim a derogatory word if they choose to. It's the least that can happen after years of being oppressed by it imo. oh lord gay people have reclaimed the word fgt. but do they use it on each other? no, because they have experienced the discrimination behind this word themselves, and it probably has been said to them at some point in their life in a derogatory way. we don't call each other that, and the word just started fading. i don't hear kids calling each other fags because the use of the word is declining and they don't hear it anywhere to use it. i do however hear kids calling each other the n-word, and that's because they still hear the word in the media (heck, i literally had no clue what the meaning of the word was until a few years ago, because i'd never have guessed that it's a forbidden word since it's used so frequently in music). i just have no clue how reclaiming a word means using it on each other. i don't call my friends terrorists to 'reclaim' this arab insult. i find it so disrespectful towards the millions of black people who were enslaved and suffered from being called that word, the fact that millionaires who have never been slaves use it so nonchalantly in their music. i can already hear the quote buttons being smashed and essays being written, i know i'll probably be told to mind my own business and not concern myself with a race i don't belong to, so spare yourselves. im just seeing it from a HUMAN point of view, any word that was used to describe a human who was discriminated against, enslaved, tortured, starved (i.e treated in a non-human way by disgusting savages) should rot and not be used by other humans who were none of those things. chaeri pls Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
PartySick 160,504 Posted September 18, 2017 Share Posted September 18, 2017 12 hours ago, LetsGetHigh said: ok but you don't fight name calling with name calling like mayo and vanilla. smh. Yeah, it always baffles me how people who want to make a positive change in the world can turn around and do exactly what they claim to be against, even if it is in a more tame and "socially acceptable" form Fighting fire with fire only leads to a bigger fire You're stinky Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bratney 82 Posted September 18, 2017 Share Posted September 18, 2017 yall ****ing sensitive, its just a word, ban me luuuuuuuuuuuuuuul ₊˚ ‿︵‿︵‿︵୨୧ · · ♡ · · ୨୧‿︵‿︵‿︵ ˚₊ Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
PI Floppedt 904 Posted September 18, 2017 Share Posted September 18, 2017 Are some of you seriously implying that the n-word carries just as much weight as terms like crackers, vanilla or mayonnaise? The difference between the n-word and some of the mocking terms hurled at white people is that the former has a historical significance to it, and it still lives on till present time. It was used to remind black people that for hundreds of years that they were inferior to whites, and they don't deserve to assert any bit of their rights as a human being. So if you're not black and you're using the n-word, you basically fail to understand that the word has a really negative connotation to it. It makes you extremely insensitive and ignorant, point blank. I don't actually hate PI Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
PeterPan 0 Posted September 18, 2017 Share Posted September 18, 2017 Tbh i dont think the dancer meant harm i mean even the dancers chat group had the n word in it. I mean where was this posted. Im just hearing about the story. And dont white rappers use the n word too? So is it ok if they do? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xoxo Adriana 15,040 Posted September 18, 2017 Share Posted September 18, 2017 14 hours ago, JustSaiyan said: Do you feel opressed, affected and triggered by it? I am so sorry but I'm a mayo too. you just ENDED fragility Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
christinahoney 383 Posted September 18, 2017 Share Posted September 18, 2017 This is reverse racism honestly. As a white man visiting NYC earlier this year, guess who are the only people that were rude to me... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Morphine Prince 106,127 Posted September 18, 2017 Share Posted September 18, 2017 Don't have the time to quote people but this is largely an American-centric issue and they way some of you who don't live in the US speak about this it is very evident you aren't as informed as people who do live here. Some of the **** I've read is actually hilarious but I'm not gonna blame you entirely cause there's stuff and insults in other countries I don't know about but I don't try to act like I do either. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
AmericanGUY 4,609 Posted September 18, 2017 Share Posted September 18, 2017 why not just not say any of the offense words? ꧁ 𝕛'𝕧𝕖𝕦𝕩 𝕡𝕒𝕤 𝕞𝕠𝕦𝕣𝕚𝕣 𝕥𝕠𝕦𝕥𝕖 𝕤𝕖𝕦𝕝𝕖 ꧂ Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
gagasgirl 395 Posted September 18, 2017 Share Posted September 18, 2017 19 hours ago, ARTnFAME said: oh I thought it was a boy me too!! 2/21/11 & 2/22/11 MSG Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Liza 618 Posted September 18, 2017 Share Posted September 18, 2017 19 hours ago, Muumisarvinen said: Yaass I respect Ariana so much It's been years and I'm still pissed at the way she's clapping lmao Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Liza 618 Posted September 18, 2017 Share Posted September 18, 2017 3 hours ago, christinahoney said: This is reverse racism honestly. As a white man visiting NYC earlier this year, guess who are the only people that were rude to me... Dude, please. Finish this sentence. In a thread about derogatory racist terms, what is the purpose of this sentence? What point were you trying to make in this context? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Henri Bardot 3,990 Posted September 18, 2017 Share Posted September 18, 2017 8 hours ago, christinahoney said: This is reverse racism honestly. As a white man visiting NYC earlier this year, guess who are the only people that were rude to me... White people still believe "reverse racism" is a thing? You poor little thing, that's... pooiota Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
babs 5,093 Posted September 18, 2017 Share Posted September 18, 2017 "Have you checked twitter??? where people are actually yk, educated" Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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