Coop 15,354 Posted August 15, 2017 Share Posted August 15, 2017 3 hours ago, yASSsss said: @Coop you stan for this? I do? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
yASSsss 35,510 Posted August 15, 2017 Author Share Posted August 15, 2017 4 minutes ago, Coop said: I do? your twitter bio-" If you don't know what to say, just be like: That's hot." Call me by your name and I'll call you by mine Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coop 15,354 Posted August 15, 2017 Share Posted August 15, 2017 1 hour ago, yASSsss said: your twitter bio-" If you don't know what to say, just be like: That's hot." hoe, that doesn't mean I stan for ha (i did own her album back in the days ) Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
StrawberryBlond 14,900 Posted August 15, 2017 Share Posted August 15, 2017 I can't believe I thought Paris was ok back in the day. I initially disliked her, liked her (plus bought her perfume and liked a few of her songs a guilty pleasure) and then disliked her again when I found out what a s****y person she was. I knew a girl who still stanned for her all these years later and thought she was a goddess. Like, why? What would make you want to be a fan of this woman seriously? I suppose it's admirable that she didn't just live off her parents inheritance but the fact she wanted to stay famous and do stuff out of her talent zone irked me. At least Kim K had the business sense to find something that worked and knew how to maintain her fame. Paris should be ashamed of herself for supporting Trump because he basically stroked her ego by calling her beautiful. I wonder if she even realises that he likely said that because she looks a lot like Ivanka, so basically he's just stroking his own ego by complimenting someone in his own daughter's image. Her reasoning that she thinks what he said is no big deal because she's heard a lot of guys say crazy stuff like that is just so eye-rolling. It is that precise attitude that causes women to continue to get sexually assaulted, raped and generally be degraded. By saying all guys do it, you're normalising it, accepting it, saying it's ok. Some women who have reported sexual harassment have actually been told things like: "Every woman goes through this at some point, so you should just get used to it," "This is what passes as banter in an male dominated environment" and "You're a pretty girl and they're men, what do you expect?" And this is sometimes said by the HR department. By the female leader. All thanks to attitudes like this. Look at this video for a real eye opener. It's about a woman who goes round the male changing rooms in US colleges (that sounds really dirty, it's not) and teaches them about the importance of respecting woman to ensure that this "locker room talk" ends. She brings up Trump briefly and some of the stories she tells are shocking and heart-rending: 6 hours ago, Born To Slay said: Am I the only guy who finds it insulting that people really think we all talk this way? I never said anything even resembling such a disgusting line as "grab her by the ***". How the **** says that? I was in a debate in my local super market before the election and I said to the women (trump supporter) he said "grab her by the ***" and asked her if she thought it was sexist and she said "all guys talk that way" and I was like " I don't" and she said "sure you don't" sarcastically. That's ****ing offensive. I'm trying to make myself a victim or anything like that, I just find it kinda uncomfortable to think that a large chunk of people I meet assume I say things like "I'd grab her by the ***" or worse. That's a very commendable response. From talking to you before, I gather that you're a young man with natural urges like others your age but I admire the fact that you know a thing or two about respecting women. You can be attracted to, drool over, flirt with, compliment, date and sleep with women while still respecting them. Even dirty talk and dirty sex is fine as long as there's consent, boundaries, respect. I think I speak on behalf of most women when I say that when a guy respects me, it makes it him far more attractive and likeable. When a man supports my feminist stance, is complimentary and polite, I'm like, take me now. Not literally, though. I've never met a man like that who came onto me, so I've never had the opportunity to say that. But if such a man ever comes into my life, I'm ready. There are lots of good men out there and dismissing them makes them less likely to think being a good man is worth it. "Treat em mean to keep em keen" needs to die. It disappoints me so much when people don't expect more of men either. If you train them to be vulgar, that's all they're ever going to want to be. If you teach them to be respectful, isn't that not a better course of action? That woman who you spoke to displays the apathy among so many women now that appalls me. How can you be so dismissive about your own gender like that? Even if all guys did it...yeah? And? So? What does that imply? If everyone does something, that makes it right? If everyone jumped off a bridge, would that make it a good idea? I feel like the election of Trump has made people really unfair towards men, particularly young, white, straight, cisgendered men. The worst is now assumed of all of them despite not all of them voting for Trump. I really disapprove of judging someone without knowing their character. I believe in individualism and getting to know someone before making up your mind about them. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
HausOfMark 4,279 Posted August 16, 2017 Share Posted August 16, 2017 i think since hes a family friend so she prob feels she has to defend him. though.. i wouldnt lol -Mark Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
LordEnigma 11,313 Posted August 16, 2017 Share Posted August 16, 2017 Ok but like the grab them by the *** argument pisses me off... it doesn't matter if other men say it... it's wrong either way Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
FFXSoul91 1,098 Posted August 16, 2017 Share Posted August 16, 2017 **** Paris. Not just for this, she's long been a known racist and homophobe. All she is is a meme now anyway. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle 2,056 Posted August 16, 2017 Share Posted August 16, 2017 She makes me sick and always has. My husband has been so offended like @Born To Slay and I've actually got into it with women who said "but all men speak this way" I always tell them GET BETTER MEN IN YOUR LIFE THEN! This shouldnt excuse anyone and to put him as president? Like @StrawberryBlond said "By saying all guys do it, you're normalising it, accepting it, saying it's ok" THIS is absolutely true! It infuriates me people think all men (or women) are this way!! This should NOT BE NORMALIZED in the slightest bit and people who joke about it make me face palm so ****ing much! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chuckles 2,549 Posted August 16, 2017 Share Posted August 16, 2017 wat= Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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