Luiz 4,253 Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 If a pregnant woman wants to belly (or bump) up and enjoy a drink that is her decision to make and no bar owner should take it upon themselves to try stop her, a new advisory issued by New York City is making clear. The admonition to bar tenders, bouncers and club managers in all five boroughs to not even think about turning with-child customers away was contained in a wider set of guidelines that mostly deal with protections and rights for pregnant women in the workplace. At the moment, bars in New York are required nonetheless to display signs that warn of the risks of harm to a fetus from alcohol consumption. But armed with that information pregnant women should be left alone to make up their own minds whether to drink, the guidelines insist. “Judgments and stereotypes about how pregnant individuals should behave, their physical capabilities and what is or is not healthy for a fetus are pervasive in our society and cannot be used as pretext for unlawful discriminatory decisions“ in public venues, they say. While being denied entry to bars may not be the first concern of most pregnant women, city officials confirmed they had at least once case pending of a woman who has formally complained precisely of such an incident, although they declined to give details. http://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/bar-owners-in-new-york-told-they-cannot-deny-service-to-pregnant-women-a7017306.html I disapprove of what you say, but will defend to the death your right to say it. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Morphine Prince 109,655 Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 So stupid. And then we have the mayor of this city telling people not to eat at Chic-Fil-A Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
OBEY 57,109 Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 Well, drinking while being pregnant is legal so... (even though it's dumb af) Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
SychosSoChic 9,995 Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 1 minute ago, Morphine Prince said: So stupid. And then we have the mayor of this city telling people not to eat at Chic-Fil-A Good Life ain't Hollywood for any one of us. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
bionic 50,111 Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 The article seems to talk about two issues without really explaining which one they answer: 1) Should bar owners be allowed to ban pregnant women from entering the bar? 2) Should bar owners be allowed to ban pregnant women from ordering alcoholic drinks? IMO, the first one should be 'no' (because you could just order a coke or a water), but the second should be 'yes'. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
notamember 667 Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 6 minutes ago, bionic said: The article seems to talk about two issues without really explaining which one they answer: 1) Should bar owners be allowed to ban pregnant women from entering the bar? 2) Should bar owners be allowed to ban pregnant women from ordering alcoholic drinks? IMO, the first one should be 'no' (because you could just order a coke or a water), but the second should be 'yes'. Completely agree. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sizzily 14,571 Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 RIP future children of NY Inside my head I have the best time Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
LUO YI 6,089 Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 But after all, it's the woman's decision if they want to drink, they will have to confront the consequences The night sky tells all Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
PaperIz 7,354 Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 26 minutes ago, Prince Bananas said: But after all, it's the woman's decision if they want to drink, they will have to confront the consequences But it's not just like she's affecting her own life though. She's directly endangering her child. Human generated art Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pablo 8,582 Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 I guess that makes sense, can't to still buy cigarettes if you are pregnant. But in bars you order for there and cigarettes could be bought for someone else. Don't visit my profile Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
pink sushi 4,351 Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 It's not like the only place someone can get alcohol is a bar though. If a pregnant woman wants to drink she can easily go to the store and buy some alcohol. Plus I don't see how they would be able to enforce this rule accurately. Not all pregnant women have obvious baby bumps. And obviously early in a pregnancy you wouldn't be able tell easily. Also, lots of overweight women have belly fat that looks like a baby bump, so I can easily see how this could offend some people. Imagine going to a bar and being denied service because the bartender thinks you are pregnant when you aren't.... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Redstreak 6,653 Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 How messed up Take a moment to think of just flexibility, love, and trust~ Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Redstreak 6,653 Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 49 minutes ago, Prince Bananas said: But after all, it's the woman's decision if they want to drink, they will have to confront the consequences It's certainly not them that'll be facing those consequences. Take a moment to think of just flexibility, love, and trust~ Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ALGAYDO 35,103 Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 I think that there should be more regulations regarding a person's ability to purchase alcohol and smoking products (cigarettes, vapes, medical weed, etc.) while pregnant. But then again, this kinda seems hypocritical of me cause I'm strongly in favor of allowing women to do what they want with their bodies () like abortions and such. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lord Temptation 11,209 Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 But if the woman can buy a bottle of wine from a liquor store and drink it at home or wherever she should also be allowed to drink alcohol in a bar (even though it would be dangerously unwise of her to do so). It's just keeping rules consistent. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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