Does Loving Gaga Makes You Feel Gay or Less of a Man?

[barcodemonster 3,525]

I wish there wasn't labels like gay or straight. In my opinion no one is 100% gay or straight and we should all accept that some people like the opposite s-x more and they can Stan for pop artists and support gay rights on social media as well as people that prefer the same s-x can live in the middle of the country, have kids, live a rugged lifestyle, go to church, etc 

[AnglerfishbraBENUS 5,734]

Gaga definitely just made me ok with being myself 

[Sebs 1,809]

You know what makes you gay? Craving dick.

[Creyk 17,822]

No it doesnt, but if you like her enough to join here, you probably are

 

 

Is that Anne Hathaway?  

[craig 680]

You know, as a straight person, I find it doesn't make me less secure. I really don't think most of the straight guys I know on here feel less secure, they probably just don't tell many people in their real day to day lives.

Same way, I bet if you're gay but love football and hockey you don't go flaunting your love of sports to all your gay friends. They'd either be bored or alienated.

I could imagine and straight boy and a gay boy who love pro sports and pop music equally. But the straight one knows sports is a better way to bond with his buddies, while the other flaunts his love of Gaga with his gay friends.

[ItsTommyBitch 12,640]

I find it offensive that every GGD member needs to defend their straightness, its as if their almost ashamed to be apart of a predominantly gay community, in fear that they will be seen as gay themselves.

I don't think this applies to the fanbase on this website per say... but in general they are and that's the problem  Plenty of people have said the  obvious that music taste =/= s-xual orientation, but not enough people are pointing out the problematic nature of the problem in the first place   

Like yeah, liking an artist who has predominantly LGBT fans may make people THINK you are gay, but like what even?  What does that say about our progress  when we still think being equated with being gay is a social death sentence  I'd rather have someone be thought of gay and not find that a personal insult on their "manlihood" or "masculinity" tbh. 

It says a lot about the attitude some straight men seem to have about homos-xuality (and to a minor extent on femininity and womenn)   

[Florian 19,982]

I don't think this applies to the fanbase on this website per say... but in general they are and that's the problem  Plenty of people have said the  obvious that music taste =/= s-xual orientation, but not enough people are pointing out the problematic nature of the problem in the first place   

Like yeah, liking an artist who has predominantly LGBT fans may make people THINK you are gay, but like what even?  What does that say about our progress  when we still think being equated with being gay is a social death sentence  I'd rather have someone be thought of gay and not find that a personal insult on their "manlihood" or "masculinity" tbh. 

It says a lot about the attitude some straight men seem to have about homos-xuality (and to a minor extent on femininity and womenn)   

I don't think the problem is about homos-xuality and gay people but about who you are.

I mean if you're straight then you're straight, it can be annoying to be called gay. It's like if you say to a Canadian : "Oh you're an American" ... no he's a Canadian, that's all. It's exactly like a trans who want to be called a female : if you call her a male then she's pissed off.

Thus, the issue is not to be called a gay but is to not be considered for who you truly are regardless of how you act or the music you listen.

It can even be considered as bullying when @Ladey Gagz calls you gay  

  

[Ladey Gagz 2,512]

I don't think the problem is about homos-xuality and gay people but about who you are.

I mean if you're straight then you're straight, it can be annoying to be called gay. It's like if you say to a Canadian : "Oh you're an American" ... no he's a Canadian, that's all. It's exactly like a trans who want to be called a female : if you call her a male then she's pissed off.

Thus, the issue is not to be called a gay but is to not be considered for who you truly are regardless of how you act or the music you listen.

It can even be considered as bullying when @Ladey Gagz calls you gay  

  

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[Quasi 10,935]

Can you please change the name of this thread to,  "Does Loving Gaga Make You Gay or Less of a Man? "

I keep seeing the original title in Hot Gaga Topics and it's really bugging me. 

[Florian 19,982]

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Deal with it  

[Pharamon 6,839]

I used to be gay but now after getting to know Gaga im...even GAYER!   

[DirtyRichHooker 352]

Straight people are afraid to openly like Gaga because they don't want to be ridiculed or labelled "gay" or "f*ggy". I only know a handful of straight guys that like Gaga openly.

[ChicaSkas 23,307]

It makes you join a cult and give away your life

Right. All my life is given away daily to the cult of internet.

[Sunny 12,736]

Right. All my life is given away daily to the cult of internet.

I know mine has (if you were serious)

 

[brizoda 3,859]

Does loving Rap make you a thug or less of a white person? Does loving Country make you a redneck?

Seems all music carries stereotypes. Most of what is considered "gay music" is also popular with girls, and I think some macho boys have a problem identifying with a women as their hero or idol. Because s-xism.

the same could be said about gay men only identifying with a woman as their idol