uo111 5,282 Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 I'm not saying that opening the door for anybody of any gender is s-xist. Men specifically holding the door open for women only and just for the sake of them being women is s-xist on a microagressive level. Not a big leap.It's a giant leap. Men do it because they think they have to. Not because they want to or think women are weak. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
RAMROD 117,110 Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 LOL I don't the damn door for anyone except the person after me are disabled or elderly or too young or my BF with his two hands busy holding shopping bags or something. If you are young and healthy and have able body, open the damn door yourself. Who cares if you're mad cos I am not 'gentlean'enough for women. (ﾉ◕ヮ◕)ﾉ✧*:･ﾟ ᶠʳᵒⁿᵗ ᵗᵒʷᵃʳᵈ ᵉⁿᵉᵐʸ (*´艸｀*) ♡♡♡ Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lion Heart 15,041 Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 Ridiculous. I can see how calling a woman 'dear' or 'love' -especially if you don't know her -will be uncomfortable but holding a door open for them? Absurd. ▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀ Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jed 7,716 Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 It's not s-xist if you hold the door for women but it's s-xist if you don't hold the door for men. It reinforces women as fragile and in need of coddling. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hot Space 14 Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 if this is the best western women can find to prove they're oppressed than we're doing pretty darn good imo Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goosey 3,017 Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 I guess I'm a benevolent s-xist then, nothing wrong with that. I also refer to women as "Toots". "I am the world's greatest person that does not want to let people into the country."—US President Donald J. Trump Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ambrosia 3,775 Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 ok so i'm just going to slam it in their ****ing faces next time and keep opening it for the bros. dont want to be s-xist and all and sorry about your face Bros before hoes. Couldn't resist, forgive me? Seriously, it IS just good manners and a nice thing to do. I'm usually the one that gets stuck holding the door open indefinitely for everyone because there's no good time to let it go. Do not do to others what angers you if done to you by others. -Socrates Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luiz 4,253 Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 Bros before hoes. Couldn't resist, forgive me? Seriously, it IS just good manners and a nice thing to do. I'm usually the one that gets stuck holding the door open indefinitely for everyone because there's no good time to let it go. i've done that a few times. it gets awkward sometimes I disapprove of what you say, but will defend to the death your right to say it. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
wiltedbliss 915 Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 I also hold the door for people if I happen to reach it first.Same Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Computer 10,980 Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 I hold it open for both men and women 💚💛💕❣⭕💢💢 | ⓜⓔⓡⓡⓨ ©ⓗⓡⓘⓢⓣⓜⓐⓢ Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
bionic 50,111 Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 I hold the door for everyone. It's just polite. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miker 5,683 Posted March 12, 2015 Share Posted March 12, 2015 Utterly ridiculous! I hold doors for anybody and everybody. I hope I am not accused of having good manners? Mars..........or bust! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ryhanna 3,507 Posted March 12, 2015 Share Posted March 12, 2015 Okay next time I'll just slam the door in the face of whoever is walking behind me Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vernier 3,786 Posted March 12, 2015 Share Posted March 12, 2015 I get what they're saying for people who hold the door only for women, but if you do it for everyone, then it's just being polite Frankly my dear, I don't give a damn Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
MahoganySnitch 67 Posted March 12, 2015 Share Posted March 12, 2015 I get what they're saying for people who hold the door only for women, but if you do it for everyone, then it's just being polite MTE. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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