RAMROD 117,097 Posted March 10, 2015 Share Posted March 10, 2015 By tranny did they mean body building woman like Chyna or actual trans?? (ノ◕ヮ◕)ノ✧*:・゚ ᶠʳᵒⁿᵗ ᵗᵒʷᵃʳᵈ ᵉⁿᵉᵐʸ (*´艸`*) ♡♡♡ Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bebe 17,289 Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 theres always the possibility of a psycho showing up with a gym membership and a wig and saying he identifies as a female when he is only looking for victims. agreed initially with the Gym but thinking of it more i could see how it might be a problem for some If there is some creep, transgendered or cisgendered, who is perving on people and/or acting inappropriately than report them. That's easy to do. The vast majority of people are using changing rooms for the exact same purpose, to shower and get changed. Everyone is in the same boat. You could have a creep lurking around the changing rooms waiting for a lone 'victim' to enter the changerooms. There isn't anything stopping them. People just need to be civil in toilets/changing areas. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luiz 4,253 Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 If there is some creep, transgendered or cisgendered, who is perving on people and/or acting inappropriately than report them. That's easy to do.The vast majority of people are using changing rooms for the exact same purpose, to shower and get changed. Everyone is in the same boat.You could have a creep lurking around the changing rooms waiting for a lone 'victim' to enter the changerooms. There isn't anything stopping them.People just need to be civil in toilets/changing areas. not if they hide it well :.around the changing rooms is a very different thing than inside the changing rooms seems like a weak argument but ok. i'm not saying they made the wrong decision but you have to admit there w=could be problems in the future but that doesnt mean you make transgendered ppl feel like **** by kicking them out. another thing i didnt even think about but do they allow iphones in changing rooms? that could be a problem if someone is sneaking in the womens changing room dressed up as a woman and taking pics or something. I disapprove of what you say, but will defend to the death your right to say it. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bebe 17,289 Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 not if they hide it well :.around the changing rooms is a very different thing than inside the changing rooms seems like a weak argument but ok. i'm not saying they made the wrong decision but you have to admit there w=could be problems in the future but that doesnt mean you make transgendered ppl feel like **** by kicking them out. another thing i didnt even think about but do they allow iphones in changing rooms? that could be a problem if someone is sneaking in the womens changing room dressed up as a woman and taking pics or something.But I mean... I'm gay. If I was so inclined I could be a creep and perve on people in changing rooms but I don't. I just get changed and mind my business.It's not that different. Correct me if I'm wrong, but you seem to be insinuating people could dress up as a woman to enter a female changing room to pick out "victims" to potentially assault? They would not do such a thing if there were multiple people in the changing room. The victim would need to be isolated. Somebody could lurk around the changing rooms and wait until they are confident there is only one person in there and assault them.I mean again, although phones and cameras are explicitly banned in changing rooms (at least where I live), I'm sure I could covertly set up my iphone so it recorded other guys getting changed in the bathroom. Again, that's not something I would ever do, but it's possible.I'm not saying there isn't a potential for people to exploit this and falsely claim their gender identity in order to creep on people of the opposite s-x, but that would be an extreme minority who are likely to be caught if the are just hanging around inside a changing room or acting inappropriately. I've read articles about creeps who have a hidden camera in their shoe so they can look up girls skirts. There are creeps everywhere and people who are willing to break the laws, harass people and act inappropriately in these sorts of circumstances.I think you would find that there would be more cases of transgendered people being harassed in toilets and changing rooms than people dressing up as the opposite gender to harass people in toilets and changing rooms. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Haroon 49,685 Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 I think they did the right thing Also, I think if you are transgendered then maybe you should have some proof from a doctor or something to prevent the issue of cisgendered people trying to abuse loop holes and such Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luiz 4,253 Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 But I mean... I'm gay. If I was so inclined I could be a creep and perve on people in changing rooms but I don't. I just get changed and mind my business.It's not that different. Correct me if I'm wrong, but you seem to be insinuating people could dress up as a woman to enter a female changing room to pick out "victims" to potentially assault? They would not do such a thing if there were multiple people in the changing room. The victim would need to be isolated. Somebody could lurk around the changing rooms and wait until they are confident there is only one person in there and assault them.I mean again, although phones and cameras are explicitly banned in changing rooms (at least where I live), I'm sure I could covertly set up my iphone so it recorded other guys getting changed in the bathroom. Again, that's not something I would ever do, but it's possible.I'm not saying there isn't a potential for people to exploit this and falsely claim their gender identity in order to creep on people of the opposite s-x, but that would be an extreme minority who are likely to be caught if the are just hanging around inside a changing room or acting inappropriately. I've read articles about creeps who have a hidden camera in their shoe so they can look up girls skirts. There are creeps everywhere and people who are willing to break the laws, harass people and act inappropriately in these sorts of circumstances.I think you would find that there would be more cases of transgendered people being harassed in toilets and changing rooms than people dressing up as the opposite gender to harass people in toilets and changing rooms. the gay thing is a good argument but i think its different when its man crerepoing on woman than man on man. men dont feel as threatened by another man the way a woman would. and i'm not talking about an assault in the room i mean scouting and then assaulting/raping them when they're alone. nobody will be dumb enough to attack someone in such a public place like the gym. maybe the guy just wants to creep on chicks but the access to women changing rooms and seeing them getting undressed could intensify the desire to get aggressive. hidden camera cant compare to being side by side naked with other women in a locker room. all i'm doing is admitting while i agree with the decision you just cant deny thatt there is a danger that comes with this. and i'm sure if someone does dress up claiming trans and ends up using it to creep on people and does get caught the women will blame the gym for allowing trans people in the locker rooms. then a whole ****storm will begin.. i'm just admitting that with he acceptance of trans people in locker rooms there is now a bit of an added danger to be aware of for women. I disapprove of what you say, but will defend to the death your right to say it. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supersonic 49,376 Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 the gay thing is a good argument but i think its different when its man crerepoing on woman than man on man. men dont feel as threatened by another man the way a woman would. and i'm not talking about an assault in the room i mean scouting and then assaulting/raping them when they're alone. nobody will be dumb enough to attack someone in such a public place like the gym. maybe the guy just wants to creep on chicks but the access to women changing rooms and seeing them getting undressed could intensify the desire to get aggressive. hidden camera cant compare to being side by side naked with other women in a locker room. all i'm doing is admitting while i agree with the decision you just cant deny thatt there is a danger that comes with this. and i'm sure if someone does dress up claiming trans and ends up using it to creep on people and does get caught the women will blame the gym for allowing trans people in the locker rooms. then a whole ****storm will begin.. i'm just admitting that with he acceptance of trans people in locker rooms there is now a bit of an added danger to be aware of for women.1 out 4 transgender women in america don't even make it past age 30 because people deny them their rights because other people might take advantage of a new situation being around Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sugarfall 3,723 Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 the gay thing is a good argument but i think its different when its man crerepoing on woman than man on man. men dont feel as threatened by another man the way a woman would. and i'm not talking about an assault in the room i mean scouting and then assaulting/raping them when they're alone. nobody will be dumb enough to attack someone in such a public place like the gym. maybe the guy just wants to creep on chicks but the access to women changing rooms and seeing them getting undressed could intensify the desire to get aggressive. hidden camera cant compare to being side by side naked with other women in a locker room. all i'm doing is admitting while i agree with the decision you just cant deny thatt there is a danger that comes with this. and i'm sure if someone does dress up claiming trans and ends up using it to creep on people and does get caught the women will blame the gym for allowing trans people in the locker rooms. then a whole ****storm will begin.. i'm just admitting that with he acceptance of trans people in locker rooms there is now a bit of an added danger to be aware of for women. How common do you think that would actually be? 99 % of straight men wouldn't dress up as women JUST to creep on women Im not gonna lie tho. If i was a woman and a man came into the washroom id feel creaped out... Especially since women are more vulnerable to predators its difficult to take sides in a case like this tbh. Not really. If a woman is creeped out by a transwomans appearance that is not the transwomans issue. I don't think a trans gendered woman would go creep on other women. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Computer 10,980 Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 Ban ha.I'm uncomfortable with everyone at gyms, it's a gym, get over it, I don't go around complaining that people are the wrong gender. 💚💛💕❣⭕💢💢 | ⓜⓔⓡⓡⓨ ©ⓗⓡⓘⓢⓣⓜⓐⓢ Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luiz 4,253 Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 How common do you think that would actually be? 99 % of straight men wouldn't dress up as women JUST to creep on women Not really. If a woman is creeped out by a transwomans appearance that is not the transwomans issue. I don't think a trans gendered woman would go creep on other women. i'm not talking about the average straight guy. i'm talking about the crazy people and there are plenty of those in the world. and btw even if its only one percent thats enough to make women undressing in a locker room very uncomfortable. I disapprove of what you say, but will defend to the death your right to say it. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sugarfall 3,723 Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 i'm not talking about the average straight guy. i'm talking about the crazy people and there are plenty of those in the world. and btw even if its only one percent thats enough to make women undressing in a locker room very uncomfortable. Well, no matter who is being a creep, most likely it will be reported. The article implies that the transgender woman was just doing what anyone else does in a locker room, and the woman started ranting about it. Making a separate locker room would just make transgender people feel bad about their gender, which is something they struggle with daily anyways. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luiz 4,253 Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 Well, no matter who is being a creep, most likely it will be reported. The article implies that the transgender woman was just doing what anyone else does in a locker room, and the woman started ranting about it. Making a separate locker room would just make transgender people feel bad about their gender, which is something they struggle with daily anyways. and thats why i agree with what planet fitness is doing as i've said before. but i'm just acknowledging the bit of added danger some women might feel from this. and btw its not like its hard for a crazy person to just blend in and not get caught. and even if you eventually report the person and they get kicked out or banned its not like they cant attack a woman outside of the gym. there could be someone who does it at first only to peep on women while naked but being that close could build up the obsession which can lead to harm outside of the gym. I disapprove of what you say, but will defend to the death your right to say it. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
field 98 Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 i'm not talking about the average straight guy. i'm talking about the crazy people and there are plenty of those in the world. and btw even if its only one percent thats enough to make women undressing in a locker room very uncomfortable.I agree with you. Also, I don't think it matters how many people do this, it's about the safeguards in place to prevent it happening, and the structures in operation which enable people to (or dissuade them from) reporting problems. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Palutena 3,147 Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 This was brought to my attention on Facebook about a few days ago. And as a Transgender female, I can say that I applaud Planet Fitness for sticking to their policy. Banning the woman after her "a man" comments seems best. But how even did she know the other woman was Trans? A lot of Transgender females won't disclose something like that to just anyone.But at the same time I understand the thought of a man going into the changing room to perve on women. Yet it seems super far-fetched for a man to go through the trouble of dressing like a woman just to get his fix.Conflicted TBH Adoremus in caelum, Palutena. Dea luminis. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
field 98 Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 This was brought to my attention on Facebook about a few days ago. And as a Transgender female, I can say that I applaud Planet Fitness for sticking to their policy. Banning the woman after her "a man" comments seems best. But how even did she know the other woman was Trans? A lot of Transgender females won't disclose something like that to just anyone.But at the same time I understand the thought of a man going into the changing room to perve on women. Yet it seems super far-fetched for a man to go through the trouble of dressing like a woman just to get his fix.Conflicted TBHIt's not far-fetched at all. And whether it is or not, it's something which needs to be safeguarded against.You ask "how even did she know the other woman was trans". She didn't know or even think the other person was a transwoman, she thought that person was a man.The person in question, Carlotta Sklodowska, has said themselves that they understand why the woman thought that:According to Sklodowska, she wore leggings and a baggy t-shirt during both trips to the gym. She said many people tell her she looks like a man, and she could see why Cormier would see her body structure as masculine."It's obvious, even from the back," Sklodowska said.http://www.mlive.com/news/saginaw/index.ssf/2015/03/transgender_woman_says_she_onl.html Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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