More Tea On Kristi Noem's Husband Fetish Has Been Leaked

[RAMROD 117,053]

The Kristi Noem story keeps getting more incredible The Daily Mail has obtained audio and messages of Bryon insulting his wife and worshipping a 5 foot tall, buxom dominatrix named Shy Sotomayor, while discussing his desire to transition into a woman.

He told the dominatrix he wanted to be called "Crystal."

Bryon Noem: "I need to be your trans bimbo slvt."

Sotomayor was shocked he wanted a name so close to "Kristi."

 

From the Daily Mail article:

'F*** your family,' Sotomayor texted Bryon in November, later calling the whole Noem clan 'gross.'

'Love that,' he responded. 'Besides the fact of who your wife is, no one is prettier than me. No one is as powerful,' she continued. 'F***ing true. Do you want me to be a woman?' he wrote. 'Do you want to be a woman for me,' she asked. 'I think I do,' he replied.

In a recording of a phone conversation they had weeks later, Bryon can be heard telling Sotomayor that he loved her. 'So much better than your wife, aren't I?' she asked. 'You're so much better,' he said. The Mail reports that this relationship with the dominatrix started in 2016 and first ended in 2020. Then, Bryon Noem reached back out in October 2025, and was more needy. Sotomayor found out who he was, and then started to shame him over what was happening with ICE in Minnesota.

Daily Mail: "she ultimately felt she could no longer remain silent, even while role-playing." Now, she would tell him that his wife was a horrible person, and Bryon would change the subject or say not to believe everything she saw in the news. Two weeks later, on January 31, he was back chatting again, this time defending his marriage. 'I do like my wife and I know you don't,' he wrote. 'To be honest. She's not [very] likable,' Sotomayor responded. 'There's no female compared to me. Especially your wife,' she later added. 'True!!!' he texted. 'And f*** your wife. Don't you think, after everything she's done, she deserves this?' she wrote in another thread that same day. 'Deserves what?' he asked. 'You actually worshipping a woman who deserves it, instead of staying loyal to her,' Sotomayor wrote in reference to the thousands of dollars he was paying her. 'I don't know what to say to that. She's a good person. You are amazing though,' he wrote.

 

 

[spookytanooki 1,902]

Yeesh, at this point I'm kinda feeling bad for him. Get a divorce and be your true self, diva.

[zevthepaparazzo 2,429]

this makes my skin crawl in ways I didn't know were possible

[Pigatha 1,336]

19 minutes ago, spookytanooki said:

Yeesh, at this point I'm kinda feeling bad for him. Get a divorce and be your true self, diva.

This made me feel even less sympathetic to him, using trans people/identity as a kink, which is what most cis men "crossdressers" do, coming from experience of interacting with them infiltrating trans centered groups online. absolutely gross.

Edited April 10 by Pigatha

[AndieDarko 68]

22 minutes ago, spookytanooki said:

Yeesh, at this point I'm kinda feeling bad for him. Get a divorce and be your true self, diva.

lol dont. he could have gotten a divorce whenever. I doubt he is trapped by her. No comment on Kristi Noem, but remember misery loves company. He can't say she is a bad person, but loves to degrade her to another person. Trash all around.

 

As for him being trans, or into cross dressing thats good for him whatever he chooses, and hope he can choose something that is true to him/herself... but again. trash. 

[Laxy 391]

This entire mess is a microcosm of the USA. It's ****ing pathetic and scary and dirty humorous. 

[spookytanooki 1,902]

8 minutes ago, Pigatha said:

This made me feel even less sympathetic to him, using trans people/identity as a kink, which is what most cis men "crossdressers" do, coming from experience of interacting with them infiltrating trans centered groups online. absolutely gross.

So I've just come across this whole situation recently, but thank you for slapping some perspective on it. I've always been staunchly against men describing themselves as "sissy", because the whole idea just feels so misogynistic. 

I didn't realize I was looking at this situation with my 'poor little rich girl' glasses

[uo111 5,282]

He better watch his back, we know what kristi does if she can’t tame an animal 

[Pigatha 1,336]

Just now, spookytanooki said:

So I've just come across this whole situation recently, but thank you for slapping some perspective on it. I've always been staunchly against men describing themselves as "sissy", because the whole idea just feels so misogynistic. 

I didn't realize I was looking at this situation with my 'poor little rich girl' glasses

I guess what is frustrating to me is people want to lump them in with trans women that it has become a stereotype and a joke used by transphobes.

As if trans women aren't sexualized and demoralized enough, and there's definitely a big misogonistic aspect to the reason they do this because they see women as submissive and that adds to that whole kink. 

[SharkmanthaC 115,045]

Just another republican man. 

[PartySick 172,543]

I am...shaking

[spookytanooki 1,902]

1 hour ago, Pigatha said:

I guess what is frustrating to me is people want to lump them in with trans women that it has become a stereotype and a joke used by transphobes.

As if trans women aren't sexualized and demoralized enough, and there's definitely a big misogonistic aspect to the reason they do this because they see women as submissive and that adds to that whole kink. 

I could not agree more. It's like, these men are presenting themselves as their f***ed up version of a "woman" because they cannot accept their submissive side without presenting themselves as someone they see as lesser

[FATCAT 60,888]

As soon as this all leaked, it was immediately clear what drew him to Kristi

[Hadrian 2,632]

Imagine taking a group of peoples' pains, struggles, adversities, etc and turning it into a fetish with those stupid fake bazonkas under his t-shirt, are you ****ing kidding me right now.

Like, people are getting kicked out of their families for trying to live as who they are.

[Ilia Malinin 2,879]

as a trans man, i'm not exactly sure how to feel.

part of me is the smallest bit sympathetic reading the "desire to transition to a woman," but the overwhelming majority is pissed off he's treating it like a fetish.  i could literally be hate crimed stepping outside and it would be legal.  this isn't a f*cking fetish, this is my life on the line.