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"How Bad Do U Want Me" Is For Pretty Girls Only


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“Plastic Doll” is a bop! I also love “Free Woman” studio but demo version is the best. I’m one of the few on here that doesn’t care for “Fun Tonight.”

 

”How Bad Do You Want Me” is like an unbuttered biscuit to me. I have to listen to the far superior “LoveDrug” first so the taste and seasonings carries over. 
 

 

“The Beast” is for the heaux’s like me

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MountainMonster

Uh… arguably it’s the opposite. It’s about a conventionally attractive man who wants a conventionally attractive woman who is cheating on “the ideal woman metaphorical woman” with the alternative woman. It’s actually kind of a sad song about a man who is unwilling to actually be with the person he wants to be with because she’s not conventionally hot…. So gonna give you a hard disagree. 
 

“The good girl in your dreams
Is mad you're lovin' me
I know you wish that she was me
How bad, bad do you want me?
You're not the guy that cheats (The guy that cheats)
And you're afraid that she might leave (That she might leave)
'Cause if I get too close, she might scream
"How bad, bad do you want me?"”

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TheMontebello

I'm shocked people don't like Fashion of His Love. I feel that song in my SOUL when it plays.

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OliviaRodrigoStan
Just now, MountainMonster said:

Uh… arguably it’s the opposite. It’s about a conventionally attractive man with a conventionally attractive woman who is cheating on her with the alternative woman. It’s actually kind of a sad song about a man who is unwilling to actually be with the person he wants to be with because she’s not conventionally hot…. So gonna give you a hard disagree. 

I think both "girls" in the song are herself. Men often have a hard time understanding that girls can be both sweet and "wife-like", while simultaneously have a wilder, sex-positive aspect to themselves. 

I see the song as her being frustrated that her man seems to be fixated on her "bad girl" persona, rather than also embracing her softer side, since at the end of the day, she's both of those things. At least that's how I see it. 

It seems contrived, but I met a lot of guys like that. 

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MountainMonster
1 minute ago, OliviaRodrigoStan said:

I think both "girls" in the song are herself. Men often have a hard time understanding that girls can be both sweet and "wife-like", while simultaneously have a wilder, sex-positive aspect to themselves. 

I see the song as her being frustrated that her man seems to be fixated on her "bad girl" persona, rather than also embracing her softer side, since at the end of the day, she's both of those things. At least that's how I see it. 

It seems contrived, but I met a lot of guys like that. 

Interesting, I had the opposite take, that he’s sexually into her and she’s a bad girl, but that the woman of his dreams is sort of this conventional good girl - and he’s at odds with that reality. 

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LateToCult
11 minutes ago, MountainMonster said:

Uh…HBDUWM is for the dolls, chile!

Yes, chile. Clock the gag 💅 

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Divine
56 minutes ago, Steerpike said:

That would be cool I think. I deserve a medal for having exquisite taste. :kiss:

I mean sure, I think you need it. I hope it heals you inside. :ohwell:

"And I still love you even if I can't see you anymore."
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TheMontebello
40 minutes ago, OliviaRodrigoStan said:

I think both "girls" in the song are herself. Men often have a hard time understanding that girls can be both sweet and "wife-like", while simultaneously have a wilder, sex-positive aspect to themselves. 

I see the song as her being frustrated that her man seems to be fixated on her "bad girl" persona, rather than also embracing her softer side, since at the end of the day, she's both of those things. At least that's how I see it. 

It seems contrived, but I met a lot of guys like that. 

I also interpreted it this way. I thought it was about how she might be insecure that the man is in love with "Gaga", the crazy big personality, and not herself as a person

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Steerpike
2 minutes ago, Divine said:

I mean sure, I think you need it. I hope it heals you inside. :ohwell:

Omg I love medals. Thanks, honey. 

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Divine
Just now, Steerpike said:

Omg I love medals. Thanks, honey. 

You're welcome, loveydovey best in exquisite taste from the 3rd grade. :reductive:

"And I still love you even if I can't see you anymore."
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Ladle Ghoulash
50 minutes ago, MountainMonster said:

Uh… arguably it’s the opposite. It’s about a conventionally attractive man who wants a conventionally attractive woman who is cheating on “the ideal woman metaphorical woman” with the alternative woman. It’s actually kind of a sad song about a man who is unwilling to actually be with the person he wants to be with because she’s not conventionally hot…. So gonna give you a hard disagree. 
 

“The good girl in your dreams
Is mad you're lovin' me
I know you wish that she was me
How bad, bad do you want me?
You're not the guy that cheats (The guy that cheats)
And you're afraid that she might leave (That she might leave)
'Cause if I get too close, she might scream
"How bad, bad do you want me?"

 

46 minutes ago, MountainMonster said:

Interesting, I had the opposite take, that he’s sexually into her and she’s a bad girl, but that the woman of his dreams is sort of this conventional good girl - and he’s at odds with that reality. 

It’s kind of both. Given that I also think she’s both girls in the song, it’s that he can’t embrace reality in the sense that he can’t accept that she can be both the “bad girl” and the “good girl.” 

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Ladle Ghoulash
54 minutes ago, OliviaRodrigoStan said:

I think both "girls" in the song are herself. Men often have a hard time understanding that girls can be both sweet and "wife-like", while simultaneously have a wilder, sex-positive aspect to themselves. 

I see the song as her being frustrated that her man seems to be fixated on her "bad girl" persona, rather than also embracing her softer side, since at the end of the day, she's both of those things. At least that's how I see it. 

It seems contrived, but I met a lot of guys like that. 

Honestly so real lol. I dated a guy in an “open relationship” where he felt the need to basically look at both me and his girlfriend (primary partner) as one thing or another (“I’m attracted to her physically, but you intellectually”). Well, except we’re both hot and intelligent 💅. Like, diva, you know that people can be more than one thing, right? (“how bad do u want me for REAL”). 
 

(Not me coming around to this song…)

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Anderson123

I love Fashion of His Love so much but can't get into Plastic Doll or How Bad Do U Want Me. :fan:

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Still better than Why Did You Do That and Summerboy though.

 

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Ladle Ghoulash
2 minutes ago, Anderson123 said:

I love Fashion of His Love so much but can't get into Plastic Doll or How Bad Do U Want Me. :fan:

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Still better than Why Did You Do That and Summerboy though.

 

Summerboy, the eternal banger? I think not. 

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TheMontebello

The one song I can't stand is Heal Me :saladga:

It really does a god job in portraying Ally as a generic popstar at that point lol

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