Chappell Roan confronts a photog who was rude to her at Grammys party in February

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7 minutes ago, Bronco said:

Yeah people working in an industry shouldnt speak up about the negative aspects of their work or talk about improving conditions.

The problem is she seems to be mad at every little thing. People can be rude but you don't always have to make a scene. That's all she's known for at this point, Complaining. 

I don't doubt the photographer may have been rude but she should handle this stuff differently cause it's throwing people off and you can't deny a lot of people feel like this about her

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This clip is so very american 

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2 minutes ago, SHALLOW said:

She's honestly insufferable. Even if you like her music, you need to recognize she's always mad about stupid stuff/ stuff that is expected when you're a celebrity. If she doesn't want to be famous, she can stay home. 

That’s like saying: if you don’t want to be disrespected and abused in a relationship, then just stay single… versus confronting abusive behavior and confronting the abuser.

Leave Chappell alone fgs, people just like jumping on the hate train. It’s gross 

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There isn’t anything wrong with her standing up for herself, but she needs to pick her battles. She doesn’t understand PR at all. People have soured on her already, so everything she does publicly with be scrutinized. Even if she’s winning these small battles, she’s losing the war. 

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59 minutes ago, tigerteeth said:

That’s like saying: if you don’t want to be disrespected and abused in a relationship, then just stay single… versus confronting abusive behavior and confronting the abuser.

Leave Chappell alone fgs, people just like jumping on the hate train. It’s gross 

The thing is the abuser (the industry) is likely going to stay abusive, so she better find another partner (career) if she doesn't want to be abused like that.

Edit: I'm just responding to his bad analogy here.

I believe the industry should improve but i don't think it's likely that it will 

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Very bad timing.

Also if you need validation from someone whom you don't know and who is either a bad professional or just a douche, you need to re-evaluate the power others have on your mental health.

This isn't setting boundaries at all.

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i don't see a problem of her standing up against someone rude to her. are you guys ok lmao

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She ate him up

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Saw this on Reddit and feel the same: I’m so torn between “you tell them!” and “good god get a grip girl”

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I love her for this

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14 minutes ago, Lucas said:

She can speak about it all she wants but the truth is she doesn't have the power to change things and probably no one in the music industry has it... She has to learn to deal with it or find a good time and place to talk about it.

And the stuff she complains about is quite embarassing... taking pictures with fans? signing autographs? being stalked by paparazzi? It's always been part of the game for famous people, it's not a huge price to pay for the millions of dollars they make sometimes for a single performance.

That rant about taking pictures & signing autographs was about the fans who have literally stalked her and her family and found them in private spaces to get these photos & autographs.

And is it really embarrassing to complain about stalking. 

Would you say this about a non-famous woman complaining about men stalking them through work?

I love how in the last few years we've had Britney's situation hit the headlines & multiple artists kill themselves. And people like you are still telling to shut up and accept it. 

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13 minutes ago, SHALLOW said:

The thing is the abuser (the industry) is likely going to stay abusive, so she better find another partner (career) if she doesn't want to be abused like that

Attitudes like this are why the rape culture in work environments are allowed to exist. 

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17 minutes ago, SHALLOW said:

The thing is the abuser (the industry) is likely going to stay abusive

well, yes, if no one confronts them?! lol, are you even hearing yourselves 

if you guys are too ashamed to stand up for yourselves it doesn’t mean that others shouldn’t do it. 

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3 minutes ago, Bronco said:

Attitudes like this are why the rape culture in work environments are allowed to exist. 

I’m genuinely shocked to read opinions like that on a Lady Gaga forum. The one you quoted obvi. 

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I don't have any problems with holding a grudge.  I encourage holding people accountable. 

But demanding an apology is low-end way to go about it.  It just makes her look bad.

She consistently makes her own problems worse. She really does need a media coach or something.