Cameltoe Chariot 15,230 Posted September 13, 2022 Share Posted September 13, 2022 3 minutes ago, Ms Jenda said: Vitriol? Maybe you don't know what that word means, and "scary" is a an overreaction, but nevertheless... It's not that I'm worked up over what she said, but more so annoyed by the constant excuses people use to justify anything she says. People who've been through terrible situations can still be A-holes. How long will Britney's tumultuous past stop people from just acknowledging she's not always right? It's so exhausting at this point. Half of you Britney Warriors act like she's a grown, competent free woman who should say and do whatever she wants, while the other half acts like she's a mental patient with no understanding of the implications of her words/behavior who's in need of your constant shielding. I'm not a "Britney Warrior" - I'm just a person who thinks policing the opinions of others is a weird and futile mission Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cameltoe Chariot 15,230 Posted September 13, 2022 Share Posted September 13, 2022 "By no means was I being critical of Christina’s beautiful body, it is what it is !!! I flew to see her show once and the main thing I noticed was the difference of our people on stage !!! By no means did I even mention Christina, look at my post !!! I was inspired by her show and she is a beautiful woman of power … Thank you @xtina for inspiring me !!! To be honest, I’m not trying to be critical of anybody. What I posted is a projection of the insecurities I deal with all the time as a result of how my parents and the media have treated me … I would never intentionally body shame anybody because I know what it feels like … I struggle with this because of how I feel about myself, not because I hate how anybody looks … I feel like my family knew I was insecure and people were trying to purposefully feed into this insecurity by not letting me have a choice in the people who were on stage with me. I appreciate you all being understanding with me as I figure out this new life I’m living !!!" Thoughts, @Ms Jenda? Still think she's incapable of making mistakes and holding herself accountable? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ronk 14,762 Posted September 13, 2022 Share Posted September 13, 2022 Britney experienced trauma from years of being abused. She might benefit from seeing a therapist to help get over her trauma. Kids in schools where mass shooting have occurred are offered physiological help to help them get over the trauma of seeing their friends and classmates killed. Britney is no more "mentally ill" than all those kids. Britney is still under stress from years of abuse and she could probably benefit from help to get over it. Britney could use compassion, love, and well wishes, not people quick to bring her down because of some post. Give her time to heal, and hope people close to her will give her advice and help her get any help she needs. I live outside the space time continuum. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ms Jenda 25 Posted September 13, 2022 Share Posted September 13, 2022 49 minutes ago, Cameltoe Chariot said: I'm just a person who thinks policing the opinions of others is a weird and futile mission That's all fine and good. I didn't police or even criticize anyone's opinions in either of my posts, but thanks for the fun fact! 52 minutes ago, Cameltoe Chariot said: Thoughts, @Ms Jenda? Still think she's incapable of making mistakes and holding herself accountable? I never said I thought she was incapable of any of this. I said it was you Britney Warriors who jump to her defense as if she's incapable of doing so. You are the ones who never hold her accountable. Glad to see the backlash was enough to get her to clarify her statement! I do side-eye her claim that she never mentioned Christina when she very clearly did, though. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cameltoe Chariot 15,230 Posted September 13, 2022 Share Posted September 13, 2022 Just now, Ms Jenda said: That's all fine and good. I didn't police or even criticize anyone's opinions in either of my posts, but thanks for the fun fact! I never said I thought she was incapable of any of this. I said it was you Britney Warriors who jump to her defense as if she's incapable of doing so. You are the ones who never hold her accountable. Glad to see the backlash was enough to get her to clarify her statement! I do side-eye her claim that she never mentioned Christina when she very clearly did, though. I feel like Britney posting that heartfelt apology right after you dragged her must've really embarrassing for you, I'm sorry that you had to go through that! What we're NOT gonna do in 2022 is ride Britney's ass and blow everything out of proportion like we did a decade ago. If you wanna keep it up, go for it, but I promise you this weirdly negative view of her that you're holding onto isn't gonna age well. Have a good day! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ms Jenda 25 Posted September 13, 2022 Share Posted September 13, 2022 11 minutes ago, Cameltoe Chariot said: I feel like Britney posting that heartfelt apology right after you dragged her must've really embarrassing for you, I'm sorry that you had to go through that! I feel like reading comprehension is not your forte. My posts were about how Britney's fans desperately seek to dismiss her controversial posts/behavior, not a drag on Britney herself. Many of you act like she has nothing to apologize for. Obviously she felt differently, as she should lol! 16 minutes ago, Cameltoe Chariot said: What we're NOT gonna do in 2022 is ride Britney's ass and blow everything out of proportion like we did a decade ago. If you wanna keep it up, go for it, but I promise you this weirdly negative view of her that you're holding onto isn't gonna age well. I have a suspicion that as long as Britney keeps posting her incoherent and seemingly disrespectful diatribes, especially in 2022 and onwards, the internet will continue to respond accordingly. I don't have a weirdly negative view of Britney. I have the valid opinion that Britney Warriors are doing her no favors with their constant Infantilization and attempts to absolve her of any accountability when she makes out of line comments. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bok 267 Posted September 13, 2022 Share Posted September 13, 2022 I haven't thought that Britney was body shaming Christina, after having a listen to her audio recordings. That post definitely meant that her team was pressuring her after Xtina came to the scene to me. I'm glad that she pointed out what she meant. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Squidward T 2,234 Posted September 14, 2022 Share Posted September 14, 2022 I’m honestly getting tired of this entire saga. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roughhouse Dandy 11,594 Posted September 14, 2022 Share Posted September 14, 2022 Last time she was able to really speak publicly, Perez Hilton was popular and blackface was popular entertainment on YouTube. Of course after everything she endured, there are going to be plenty of comments like this when she's bothered. Idk what anyone else expected from her. She didn't explicitly fat shame anyone; microaggressions got thrown around in a rant. Which is commonplace even on here, so idk why anyone is acting high and mighty. 👀 I'm glad she acknowledged it though. She sees that she's growing and I love to see it. This is my Hannah Montana™️ lipgloss. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Child 18,997 Posted September 14, 2022 Share Posted September 14, 2022 Gaga would be ashamed of you guys. All that mental health talk and not one person is able to show compassion. ‘If religion be the cause of disunity, then irreligion is surely to be preferred.’ ‘Abdu’l-Bahá Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
MonsterJay 1,539 Posted September 14, 2022 Share Posted September 14, 2022 My Opinion: I feel like Britney is doing alot of reflection to let go/cope with the BS that she endured during the conservatorship. Some people just perceive these posts as shade bc its hard to perceive tone thru a IG Post. If anything Brits using her IG as some sort of online diary. Brit KNOWS how to grill/shade someone (we’ve seen her grill her family everywhere). I think people need to stop feeding into/spreading this “Britney’s Crazy” narrative that her POS father spun all those years… Enough Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluemonkey 639 Posted September 15, 2022 Share Posted September 15, 2022 She’s just venting out her frustrations, just like when she said her childhood friends enjoyed a spa day while she has to sit in the car and she’s frustrated why other people can do things she can’t do so I’m sure she’s pissed she didn’t get to pick her dancers. Jlo doesnt hire virgos so she has every right to pick people she will work with. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ziggy 11,877 Posted September 16, 2022 Share Posted September 16, 2022 I feel like she just didn't communicate it as she meant it is all lol reading the follow-up and all Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
SarahYuko 1,002 Posted September 16, 2022 Share Posted September 16, 2022 This always reminds me of my friend currently studying MSc Clinical Psych who mentioned the ambiguity with mental health issues. Because on the one hand, of course we want people to take in criticism well and do better, and to be held accountable. On the other hand, we also truly are unable to reckon with the actual ugly sides of the mentally ill. Some conversations are just different with context, and the context of debilitating mental health issues can't be ignored. There's no canceling Britney (or Kanye, etc.) for saying something wild in the same way a healthy person might be; they need help, before anything else. And it's truly annoying, more than any offensive post they make, how often these people are enabled by yes men who can't put their foot down and intervene without malice. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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