Ryan Fischer on Trip to Heal & Needs Financial Help

[GucciGa 3,729]

5 minutes ago, GagaSine said:

I'm so confused by what you are trying to say here. I have been acknowledging that the media spin on this situation is unfair to both Ryan and Gaga. The difference is Gaga gets lies printed about her regularly, it sucks and I'm sure is hard for her. I feel deeply for the trauma and pain fame has caused her. But she has a much bigger safety net than the average person, including Ryan, who is being slandered and attacked for being a traumatized & injured person on a journey who needs extra help to achieve what he perceives he needs.

It's not fair or right that people are attacking Gaga and assuming the worst about her.

It's also not fair or right to do that to Ryan.

I'm basing my criticism on very leading post he made that resulted in all this mess and I stand by that. I just can't get around the idea that he didn't know exactly who people would think of when he said he was abandoned and unsupported. It's not aimed at his efforts to heal or even to fundraise. He just didn't have to throw Gaga under the bus to get some coin. 

 

But look, agree to disagree. I wish him the best in spite of my opinion. 

[Mother of Puppies 35,722]

12 minutes ago, GagaSine said:

I'm so confused by what you are trying to say here. I have been acknowledging that the media spin on this situation is unfair to both Ryan and Gaga. The difference is Gaga gets lies printed about her regularly, it sucks and I'm sure is hard for her. I feel deeply for the trauma and pain fame has caused her. But she has a much bigger safety net than the average person, including Ryan, who is being slandered and attacked for being a traumatized & injured person on a journey who needs extra help to achieve what he perceives he needs.

It's not fair or right that people are attacking Gaga and assuming the worst about her.

It's also not fair or right to do that to Ryan.

 

I think, in a way, we all mean the same here. Nobody here is trying to accuse Ryan of anything and we all wish him the best and speediest recovery.

We are not judging or critizing him, but rather the way he has posted his statement (and not deleting rude comments or defending Gaga) because it makes her look like a bad person in front of the whole world, which is very unfair, because we all know that she's not. Gaga is the one who is being attacked by everyone, not Ryan.

And maybe he isn't even aware of this because of trauma, but as he has written a 2nd statement, I assume he did read all of the comments, as he posted, so he must've read the mean ones about Gaga too. I think he could've made clearer in his 2nd post that Gaga is not a bad person, because they're friends.

If she was my friend, at least that's what I would do.

 

[Teletubby 138,697]

13 minutes ago, MotherOfPuppies said:

Were there paparazzi pics of him visiting her house or did u see it in somebody's insta story?

https://www.tmz.com/2021/05/17/lady-gaga-dog-walker-back-work-dognapping-incident-french-bulldogs/

[Mother of Puppies 35,722]

Just now, Teletubby said:

https://www.tmz.com/2021/05/17/lady-gaga-dog-walker-back-work-dognapping-incident-french-bulldogs/

 

Ahhhh even with Chromatica sweats

[GucciGa 3,729]

14 minutes ago, MotherOfPuppies said:

 

Were there paparazzi pics of him visiting her house or did u see it in somebody's insta story?

 

And yes he has those squishies of her dogs (I even had a lil conversation about it with him on insta)

Since Gaga has posted her squishies on instagram cuz she seems to love these (actually I saw on her insta that she already had squishies back in 2017 lol) I strongly believe she had those made for him because she knows that Ryan loves her dogs to the max!

 

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-9588923/amp/Lady-Gagas-dog-walker-Ryan-Fischer-gets-work-gunned-down.html

It was 3 months after the incident which doesn't really tie in with Gaga abandoning him. 

[tyler k 5,021]

i feel awful for him and the trauma he's experienced but it's not Gaga's job to fund his 6-month healing journey 

[GagaSine 7,464]

4 minutes ago, tmo13 said:

i feel awful for him and the trauma he's experienced but it's not Gaga's job to fund his 6-month healing journey 

Hence he is fundraising 

[Plastic Flower 4,091]

Asking people to fund your trips? Really? 

[Ivy 11,749]

1 hour ago, GagaSine said:

I mean since people are wildly speculating and making sh*t up, I would say this is pretty strong evidence in comparison that the Haus/Gaga is not angry or has conflict with Ryan, and he may even have their support.

My point was actually, that the second post is the one where he's clarifying, so maybe Kim & Marta were liking it because of that

But again, it could mean nothing and could also be, like you said, a sign that they're supportive

[Jill 27,684]

2 hours ago, MotherOfPuppies said:

DL? What does that stand for?

This is what I found. Interesting

[Rebel 5,221]

37 minutes ago, Plastic Flower said:

Asking people to fund your trips? Really? 

You don’t get it, he NEEDS queer healers! It’s totally reasonable to make a gofundme for that! 

[Jill 27,684]

49 minutes ago, GagaSine said:

Hence he is fundraising 

He's fundraising, got the money, spent it all in less than half the time, then publicly implied Gaga wasn't helping him  There's a difference

[GagaSine 7,464]

3 minutes ago, Jill said:

He's fundraising, got the money, spent it all in less than half the time, then publicly implied Gaga wasn't helping him  There's a difference

He got shot in the chest. Maybe he needed physiotherapy and maybe it was expebsive, maybe his insurance was unwilling to cover other aspects of recovery that were costly. And as someone pointed out, he raised $8000 the first time around. Medical stuff can be expensive, especially when you are unable to work. For example, I recently calculated the cost of various medical procedures I need (dentist for wisdom teeth removal & check up, diagnosis from a psychiatrist for my executive dysfunction, seeing an endocrinologist, and a therapist) and the cost was over $6000. And I live in Canada where the government partially covers certain things. I have not experienced something physically and mentally traumatic and I am capable of working, and this is still an overwhelming cost.

Not to mention his car (a van from 91, so hardly a luxury vehicle) broke down.

And once again, the implication that he blames or is bitter towards Gaga is all in your heads.

I greatly hope that none of you will ever have to struggle like this and be so cruelly picked apart. 

[Der Meister 3,000]

8 minutes ago, Jill said:

He's fundraising, got the money, spent it all in less than half the time, then publicly implied Gaga wasn't helping him  There's a difference

I agree, I think he's not being honest and is definitely using his situation to extort money from Gaga. She did her duty, he is alive and he needs to take care of his own life and move on. 

[GagaSine 7,464]

11 minutes ago, Rebel said:

You don’t get it, he NEEDS queer healers! It’s totally reasonable to make a gofundme for that! 

What is wrong with that? I would love to hear your thoughts... spirituality can be healing. Yeah, a lot of those people are grifters but there is genuine research and evidence about the psychological aspects of homeopathy and spirituality and how it can aid in physical healing.