Robo Ga 15,508 Posted May 11, 2021 Share Posted May 11, 2021 A few things of note: 1) he JUST left rehab in Feb 2) his wife clearly was blindsided, and reportedly had been previously happy about his decision to check into rehab, just for him to leave rehab and tell her he’s leaving her: “I am heartbroken that John has decided to end our marriage,” Tendler, 35, said in her own statement. “I wish him support and success as he continues his recovery.” 3) he has 5 sold out shows in NYC, with the first being tonight... does anyone know if he said anything about it? Are these shows still on? https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/john-mulaney-anna-marie-tendler-split-after-6-years-rehab-stint/ It seems so rash to me to leave your wife just after leaving rehab?! also though maybe it’s part of his process of healing from his relapse... thoughts? 🤖⚡️ Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
dit 46,679 Posted May 11, 2021 Share Posted May 11, 2021 I feel horrible for her but at the same time I heard that this is common with recovery. Apparently a lot of people are advised in rehab to leave toxic situations which sometimes even includes family members and partners. Now I'm not saying she is toxic but perhaps he associates a dark time with her and that could be a trigger for him. It may seem like a selfish move but people in recovery got to look out for themselves 1st and foremost so that they can hopefully be good for others they love as well. Perhaps this is a temporary separation and they may reuinite some day...perhaps not. Either way I wish them both the best of luck. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alannah 2,987 Posted May 11, 2021 Share Posted May 11, 2021 I hope she wasn't an enabler; enabling can take so many forms, she may have not realized she was doing it. Before he checked in, there were some weird changes to her social media, so I'm not really sure nor do I have the right to know. It does seem odd, but I hope it's what's healthiest for him and he has professionals encouraging him every step of the way. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alannah 2,987 Posted May 11, 2021 Share Posted May 11, 2021 1 minute ago, dit said: I feel horrible for her but at the same time I heard that this is common with recovery. Apparently a lot of people are advised in rehab to leave toxic situations which sometimes even includes family members and partners. Now I'm not saying she is toxic but perhaps he associates a dark time with her and that could be a trigger for him. It may seem like a selfish move but people in recovery got to look out for themselves 1st and foremost so that they can hopefully be good for others they love as well. Perhaps this is a temporary separation and they may reuinite some day...perhaps not. Either way I wish them both the best of luck. That was exactly my thought but I wasn't sure how to describe it. They both deserve happy lives and the happiest life doesn't necessarily mean the life prior to recovery. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chromatography 10,186 Posted May 11, 2021 Share Posted May 11, 2021 20 minutes ago, dit said: I feel horrible for her but at the same time I heard that this is common with recovery. Apparently a lot of people are advised in rehab to leave toxic situations which sometimes even includes family members and partners. Now I'm not saying she is toxic but perhaps he associates a dark time with her and that could be a trigger for him. It may seem like a selfish move but people in recovery got to look out for themselves 1st and foremost so that they can hopefully be good for others they love as well. Perhaps this is a temporary separation and they may reuinite some day...perhaps not. Either way I wish them both the best of luck. 100% this is true. i know someone very close to myself who had to “kill” his past self once he got clean. and that meant leaving basically everyone else behind. people themselves can be quite triggering, even if she wasn’t an enabler. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
GagaSine 7,464 Posted May 11, 2021 Share Posted May 11, 2021 I'm sad for her but to be completely honest they always seemed like a strange match to me, but I feel that way about a lot of hetero relationships. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pretty Please 634 Posted May 11, 2021 Share Posted May 11, 2021 I actually dont have “thoughts” cos im not a fly on the wall I don’t know their relationship Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
calpky 353 Posted May 11, 2021 Share Posted May 11, 2021 Wonder if he'll come out? Or start banging models in their early 20's? Either way, wish them both happiness. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
GucciGa 3,729 Posted May 11, 2021 Share Posted May 11, 2021 According to DeuxMoi tea he was cheating on her constantly... 😇 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
PEZ 6,397 Posted May 14, 2021 Share Posted May 14, 2021 Uhh sounds like he's moving on rather quickly?? I know it's none of my business but... I'm feeling some ouchies for his ex-wife rn, this is rather soon: ⚡🐲 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Robo Ga 15,508 Posted May 14, 2021 Author Share Posted May 14, 2021 11 minutes ago, PEZ said: Uhh sounds like he's moving on rather quickly?? I know it's none of my business but... I'm feeling some ouchies for his ex-wife rn, this is rather soon: Omg I just saw this too. To me this is like... extremely chaotic behaviour. (saying this full well recognizing I don't know the full story of their personal lives). As someone who also just went through a break up personally I just cannot believe how his soon-to-be-ex wife is feeling about this right now. Can you imagine?? 🤖⚡️ Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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