Taylor Swift calls out Trump - 'He is WELL AWARE that we do not want him'

[Taylucifer 5,154]

1 hour ago, Bonkers said:

That's not shaming because there's nothing to be ashamed of for not having a big butt.  

I like my popstars on the juicy side.  Some people don't.  There's nothing "wrong with" or unattractive about Taylor's butt.  It's just not big.  That's ok.  Just because *I* would like it bigger doesn't mean that it's a judgement.  Also, it was an off-the-cuff comment, I assure you I spend exceptionally little time thinking about Taylor's Swift's ass.

It truly is exhausting the way people learn a term like body shaming and then over time expand more and more things to attach to this label to the point that a simple comment becomes "shaming". 

But above all else, it was a *joke*. 

And for those of you don't don't get the joke, let me explain it for you.  

It's a form of comedy where you state something random and odd at the beginning of a sentence. Because the word butt is almost always a funny word, I went with what I went with.  

Getting offended is not it.  
 

but saying that you wish she had a bigger butt is body shamming, if you have to try and justify it and defend yourself to everyone, maybe it isn't a joke. I have the right to be offended especially as I perceive it as body shamming, you cannot tell me what I have to view as a joke, this seems to run in the same vein as people who are racist and then say that it was just a joke. Of course you can have whatever ideals you like about pop stars but projecting your ideals on to others is not  funny especially considering all Taylor has gone through with accepting her body. Please just apologise, thanks. 

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2 hours ago, Bonkers said:

I wish she had a bigger butt, but more and more I stan miss Taylor.  

 

OP: she's such a queen! 

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1 hour ago, Bonkers said:

Who wouldn't want a bigger brain. 

Also, can you please explain to me what's wrong with having small butt?  Can you please tell me what's wrong with Taylor Swift's butt?  Because I didn't realize I was shaming anyone because I didn't know what was wrong with having an ass like Taylors.

So please, @gagi use your big brain to explain to me what the problem is because it sounds to me like you're the one who thinks having a small butt is shameful.

The reason the comment reads as body shaming is because the size of her ass has no relevance to the topic. 

I get you were making a joke, I honestly do get that, but it was poorly placed. 

Das all. 

[Bonkers 29,588]

47 minutes ago, Taylucifer said:

but saying that you wish she had a bigger butt is body shamming, if you have to try and justify it and defend yourself to everyone, maybe it isn't a joke. I have the right to be offended especially as I perceive it as body shamming, you cannot tell me what I have to view as a joke, this seems to run in the same vein as people who are racist and then say that it was just a joke. Of course you can have whatever ideals you like about pop stars but projecting your ideals on to others is not  funny especially considering all Taylor has gone through with accepting her body. Please just apologise, thanks. 

People thinking that there's something wrong with having a small butt & people who feel bad because they have a small butt...

neither of those things equal "small butts are bad".  

You guys think I'm sitting on some glorious bubble butt?  I'm tall and thin (except this quarantine 15) with a small butt and I don't feel shamed when someone tells me they like big butts.  It doesn't even make me think they don't like my butt.  Because why would it?  I love big butts but can't think of a time it was ever a deal breaker. 

Regardless of personal opinions, regardless of popular opinions, regardless of societal pressure, a small butt is not a disability.  Many have succeeded with small butts, lol, without even realizing the size of their butt was anything more than a trivial detail about them.

Imagine this guy suddenly having his worst problem be the size of his butt:
 

 

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.......not this thread going right to body-shaming immediately with the first reply. If only it was funny.

 

OT: I’m so glad Taylor is being so public with this and taking a huge stand this way. She has so much influence, especially because of her large fanbase. 

[Taylucifer 5,154]

19 minutes ago, Bonkers said:

People thinking that there's something wrong with having a small butt & people who feel bad because they have a small butt...

neither of those things equal "small butts are bad".  

You guys think I'm sitting on some glorious bubble butt?  I'm tall and thin (except this quarantine 15) with a small butt and I don't feel shamed when someone tells me they like big butts.  It doesn't even make me think they don't like my butt.  Because why would it?  I love big butts but can't think of a time it was ever a deal breaker. 

Regardless of personal opinions, regardless of popular opinions, regardless of societal pressure, a small butt is not a disability.  Many have succeeded with small butts, lol, without even realizing the size of their butt was anything more than a trivial detail about them.

Imagine this guy suddenly having his worst problem be the size of his butt:
 

 

The problem is when you said that you 'wish she had a bigger butt' you were saying that there was something you didn't like about her body and that you wanted to change her body. When addressing a larger audience and saying you like bigger butts, whatever (still low-key problematic but I'm not dealing with that right now), but when you address the individual, like you did with Taylor, and actively point out what you see 'wrong' with their body that is body shaming. You can continue to defend your opinions but I'm not going to respond anymore because I've had enough. I, along with many others, have told you that we don't view it as a joke and why we think that so I'm not going to waste my time trying to explain when you clearly don't want to understand. Thank you and I am again asking for you to apologise, if you don't that is your decision. 

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10 hours ago, Taylucifer said:

The problem is when you said that you 'wish she had a bigger butt' you were saying that there was something you didn't like about her body and that you wanted to change her body. When addressing a larger audience and saying you like bigger butts, whatever (still low-key problematic but I'm not dealing with that right now), but when you address the individual, like you did with Taylor, and actively point out what you see 'wrong' with their body that is body shaming. You can continue to defend your opinions but I'm not going to respond anymore because I've had enough. I, along with many others, have told you that we don't view it as a joke and why we think that so I'm not going to waste my time trying to explain when you clearly don't want to understand. Thank you and I am again asking for you to apologise, if you don't that is your decision. 

Taylor Swift clearly hasn't been held back in life - professionally or romantically by her butt.  

If YOU didn't find the joke funny, I do not have the words to express how much I do not care. Not every joke is for everyone. 

But to take my words and to twist it into shaming - because I said I wished her small butt was bigger (as a joke) is ridiculous.  And no, by saying I wish it was big, that does not mean I am saying or implying there is something "wrong with" small butts.  That is YOUR interpretation.  "but some people might feel bad when they read it."  That's LIFE.

You cannot bubble-wrap the world from your little feelings.  And you shouldn't have to.  Hearing a joke about a small butt is one of those things that a mentally healthy individual should have no problem with.   They shouldn't make this leap to pointing out a small butt (in a world that loves big ones?!?) is shaming.  

YOU are the one who reads shaming into my joke.  I consider it one of those things that is just a fact of life - we're all different - and it's ok.  It's not a disability. It's not an eating disorder.  It's a perfectly healthy SMALL BUTT and there is not a damn thing wrong with it.

I  am so tired of people on this site talking about their anxiety...  a lot of the time it's  because you're trying to bubble-wrap the world and then have mental breakdowns when one of these little rules appears to be violated in anyway.  You're offended by something of which you will NEVER find a shortage of people to be mad at.  You love the outrage and being the poor little victim.  If you're this easy to offend, YOU WILL ALWAYS be offended. And honestly, that is YOUR PROBLEM  not mine.  The solution to your anxiety is working on yourself, not trying to force others to act in a way that will not trigger you. 

So as far as your request for an apology - I am specifically NOT sorry and I think anyone offended about a small butt joke to someone with a healthy small butt, should get themselves into therapy so that they can stop lashing out at the world over their unprocessed psychological issues.  Having a small butt is not a disability and I'm not willing to play this little game where hyperbolic control freaks twist jokes so they can be little victims with a reason to be outraged.  

People like you want to force the whole world to just walk around and pretend that there are no differences, everyone is the same.  Tall, short, skinny, thick.....whatever... you want everyone to act like everything is the same and equal. 

But the problem with that is that as much as it would be nice, it isn't true.  Having fun with differences may not be your cup of tea, but who the hell are you to tell everyone else how they should be acting and what jokes they can and cannot make?  

I'd rather live in a world where I actually know what other people think, and where people feel comfortable to laugh at our differences. But people like you are ruining that for the rest of us, and honestly, I am so sick of it.  Just because YOU want to take life SO SERIOUSLY truly shouldn't have to affect the rest of us.

YOUR OPINION:  Having a small butt is so bad and so triggering that we MUST NEVER make a joke a butt being small.  That would shame people WE MUST PRETEND THE SMALL BUTT  DOES NOT EXIST.

MY OPINION:  Taylor Swift has a small butt.  That's ok.

Teasing and shaming are not the same thing, and f*ck all of you trying to force  your politically correct, over sensitive nonsense down my throat.