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Apparently he’s talking about the backstory of “Attention” and it’s either about Selena Gomez or Bella Thorne.

“But I would never get what I wanted out of her.”

Gurl. That’s a gross thing to say about anyone. Regardless of the context.  :madge:

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Suspiria

But... it's not like he did anything bad. He wasn't getting what he wanted out of the relationship so he stopped seeing her. What's the problem?

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I didn't even know he ever had a relationship with selena... i'm so out of the loop

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Just now, Suspiria said:

But... it's not like he did anything bad. He wasn't getting what he wanted out of the relationship so he stopped seeing her. What's the problem?

Having expectations in a relationship is not inherently wrong, what's wrong is how he insinuated that they were doing this to make him never leave, especially after only five times meeting up in the hotel. His expectations are unrealistic and disrespectful. They just wanted to spend time with him and all he wanted was to have sex. 

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corvus albus

He wanted another kind of relationship than the woman wanted. It could've been better forrmulated and maybe talked over by both but in the end if you're not happy in any kind of relationship then you should leave. This is something we say to small kids but he of course isn't allowed the same. Maybe some of the people here should listen to what he said and in the video and don't trust the OP because it's not the full story :awkney:

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LateToCult
1 minute ago, Suspiria said:

But... it's not like he did anything bad. He wasn't getting what he wanted out of the relationship so he stopped seeing her. What's the problem?

It’s normal to want to pursue sex with someone and then leave when you’re not gonna get it. But to then make the other person a bad guy for not giving you sex is when it gets gross to me. She didn’t want to **** you and you still kept going like a horn dog for five nights. There is no bad guy in that situation so why is he victimizing himself. Ya know?

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2 minutes ago, corvus albus said:

He wanted another kind of relationship than the woman wanted. It could've been better forrmulated and maybe talked over by both but in the end if you're not happy in any kind of relationship then you should leave. This is something we say to small kids but he of course isn't allowed the same. Maybe some of the people here should listen to what he said and in the video and don't trust the OP because it's not the full story :awkney:

The thing is he made the other person out to be a an attention seeker when he was just dumb and horny for five nights in a row and couldn’t get the message that she wasn’t really interested in a sexual relationship with him.

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corvus albus
3 minutes ago, Matt Amor said:

Having expectations in a relationship is not inherently wrong, what's wrong is how he insinuated that they were doing this to make him never leave, especially after only five times meeting up in the hotel. His expectations are unrealistic and disrespectful. They just wanted to spend time with him and all he wanted was to have sex. 

Then both should talk about what they want from a relationship and it doesn't seem that either actually communicated that in this sitation. He's not free of guilt but certainly not the only party to blame.

 

2 minutes ago, LateToCult said:

It’s normal to want to pursue sex with someone and then leave when you’re not gonna get it. But to then make the other person a bad guy for not giving you sex is when it gets gross to me. She didn’t want to **** you and you still kept going like a horn dog for five nights. There is no bad guy in that situation so why is he victimizing himself. Ya know?

Did he or anyone ever say that they talked about what they wanted from the relationship? If not, which seems to be the case here, don't entirely blame him.

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corvus albus
Just now, LateToCult said:

The thing is he made the other person out to be a an attention seeker when he was just dumb and horny for five nights in a row and couldn’t get the message that she wasn’t really interested in a sexual relationship with him.

He felt like that woman was using him for fun and he had every right to call that bs.

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LateToCult
Just now, corvus albus said:

He felt like that woman was using him for fun and he had every right to call that bs.

It’s not like he’s a child. He kept going because he wanted sex. She didn’t force him. And after five nights that’s not even a mind game. Charlie is just dumb.

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