My (kinda sad) Enigma experience

[KURUSHITOVSKA 20,442]

1 minute ago, FfFfFfFF said:

I'm sorry for your loss and the way you feel (and hope you feel better) but this is the part where it went wrong:

 I understand how it maybe felt natural in the moment but you shouldn't have done that. 

She just went away and I didn't even feel in my own myself, i couldn't keep it

[FfFfFfFF 54,014]

2 minutes ago, KURUSHITOVSKA said:

She just went away and I didn't even feel in my own myself, i couldn't keep it

If her security said that if she wanted to say hi she would've said (meaning she didn't want to, meaning she didn't want to interact) there is no reason to follow her while leaving. Again, I understand how maybe it felt different in the moment but you shouldn't have done it. It would have been better for both of you.

[ChromeAngel 3,230]

It’s just impossible to expect her to notice or acknowledge you at all. It’s one in a million. She could’ve never really known your story, especially because she sees thousands of screaming fans daily. You still got to travel to Vegas and see the greatest performer of the century. I haven’t gotten that chance and I’m in the states! You’re very lucky in that regard. You could probably smell her sweating bu$$y with how close you two were 

I bought a giant purple dildo to throw in stage way back at TMB tour but security confiscated it. I was devastated.

 

[RudraCNG 14,285]

That's why I would run away if I casually bumped into her. It would break my heart if she just ignored me, though I would understand her.

I hope you enjoyed the show at least.

[Daylight Jokers 14,958]

Inb4 someone screenshots this and post it on Twitter.

[Madling 1,981]

Like... My initial reaction is "get over it".. She obviously wanted to have peace. Its so unusual to even see her in a public place like that. You already used up your luck getting to sit next to her. She was probably already aware that you were a fan who came especially to look at her (just try to think about how irritating that is) . And you might not have meant to but staring at her like a zoo animal won't endear you to her, especially if she's  focused on having a good night uninterrupted. 

And she has security for a reason. They saw you taking pictures of her. And she has a sixth sense for this too. Again, not endearing to her. 

And as for your letter not getting picked... Seriously? Did you really expect it to? That's literally like winning the lottery. 

I get that you wanted the whole "I love you, thank you for coming" experience but you also need to read the room and if she's giving off signals that she wants to be left alone (not turning around when you were talking to Lacee) and even the fact that we all know she just wants to be as normal as possible, then you really shouldn't have walked after her.. That can come off as a bit obnoxious, you know? 

I think we all need to remember what the security guy said "she will say hi if she wants to". Don't push it. Sorry if you wanted me to console you but I have to be honest. We know she is so nice to fans, we've seen it for a decade, but she has her own sh!t going on too. She's broke up with her boyfriend. We can't expect her to be in top form. 

Hope you enjoyed the show! 

[KURUSHITOVSKA 20,442]

2 minutes ago, Madling said:

Like... My initial reaction is "get over it".. She obviously wanted to have peace. Its so unusual to even see her in a public place like that. You already used up your luck getting to sit next to her. She was probably already aware that you were a fan who came especially to look at her (just try to think about how irritating that is) . And you might not have meant to but staring at her like a zoo animal won't endear you to her, especially if she's  focused on having a good night uninterrupted. 

And she has security for a reason. They saw you taking pictures of her. And she has a sixth sense for this too. Again, not endearing to her. 

And as for your letter not getting picked... Seriously? Did you really expect it to? That's literally like winning the lottery. 

I get that you wanted the whole "I love you, thank you for coming" experience but you also need to read the room and if she's giving off signals that she wants to be left alone (not turning around when you were talking to Lacee) and even the fact that we all know she just wants to be as normal as possible, then you really shouldn't have walked after her.. That can come off as a bit obnoxious, you know? 

I think we all need to remember what the security guy said "she will say hi if she wants to". Don't push it. Sorry if you wanted me to console you but I have to be honest. We know she is so nice to fans, we've seen it for a decade, but she has her own sh!t going on too. She just broke up with her boyfriend too. 

Hope you enjoyed the show! 

I understand and i agree with all.you said

[Chromaticunt 5,529]

This is honestly the first time EVER I've read about a negative encounter with Gaga.  Literally, ever. So I'm afraid that you must have just caught her on a very bad day, especially as she posted the "fame is prison" tweet not long after. I'm sorry you didn't get the experience you wanted. I would have been devastated too. But to be honest, knowing what she's like, I would have tried to approach her in a more natural way. 

I hope you get the opportunity to meet her properly one day and that she is her normal, lovely self. At least you will know for future to approach it differently. 

EDIT: As for your letter and tie not getting picked, that's just bad luck, sorry. It wasn't personal against you. You just weren't picked. 

[Infinity Wave 7,633]

Replied in the wrong thread, sorry 

[Venus Rose 5,638]

Maybe you should've just listened to security maybe. They did say she'd say hi if she really wanted to. Still sending love and positive energy, though.

[Regina George 59,387]

First of all LET’S NOT PRETEND all of you would give her privacy and ignore her if you saw her at the same Casino you were in. All of those replies like “you invaded her privacy and stalked her” (as if you wouldn’t do the same) are making me cringe and the fact that y’all lost your objectiveness is beyond crazy. 

I totally understand you and I would be SO disappointed if I payed all that money to go from Europe and to see her perform just to be rejected like that by your idol after you spent thousands of dollars on her. She could have just waved and I’m sure that would make your day but she decided not to and YES I blame her for it. Simple wave for someone who ****ing flew the ocean just to see you is more than simple. 

[Diamond Heart 4,400]

Yeah thought this was gonna be a sad meet and greet story, not a random Gaga encounter. Shes not entitled to do anything for you, regardless of how far youve traveled and stuff. Harsh but true, she was having a night with her friends, and didnt want to talk to you. Thats called human interaction and it doesnt matter whether shes famous or not. 
Now if she was a **** in a meet and greet thats a whole different story. 
Sound like you were disappointed by your own expectations versus anything bad happening.

Edit - Honestly reading through this thread, Gaga fans are so entitled 

[xoxo Craig 55,649]

Y'know... when Gaga said "fight for your dreams" she meant that you go for that number one thing in life that you've always wanted to do. Meeting Gaga is great, but do you not have any other ambitions in life? For me, I really want to become a pilot... but its so expensive, so I am becoming a personal trainer to make income. I would love to meet Gaga, but when the time comes, the time comes. 

I think she just wanted to spend some time by herself, and no offense, not be bothered by random strangers when she was supposed to be chilling out. That was not the time to 'chase' after her, you know she gets bad anxiety. She isn't some object in a museum that you can just go over and touch/see... she is a human being and its obvious she was in her feels. Your time will come with Gaga, but this was not it.

[NewYorkCity 10,515]

1 hour ago, ReginaGeorge said:

First of all LET’S NOT PRETEND all of you would give her privacy and ignore her if you saw her at the same Casino you were in. All of those replies like “you invaded her privacy and stalked her” (as if you wouldn’t do the same) are making me cringe and the fact that y’all lost your objectiveness is beyond crazy. 

I totally understand you and I would be SO disappointed if I payed all that money to go from Europe and to see her perform just to be rejected like that by your idol after you spent thousands of dollars on her. She could have just waved and I’m sure that would make your day but she decided not to and YES I blame her for it. Simple wave for someone who ****ing flew the ocean just to see you is more than simple. 

This... sorry but to all the people saying: sometimes I just want to be left alone etc etc... Me too. And when I want that I stay in my room and watch Netflix with a friend, I don’t go to the center of my town where there’s a 90% of possibilities of coming across someone I know from school/Uni that sees me and wants to say hi. Not to talk about the fact that those casinos have reservation and VIP areas where you can be alone. 
It would have mean the world to these people to just get her looking and them and saying: hi guys! Thank you so much for coming, I am having a little time off with my friends now so please if you want just wait till we leave and I’ll take a pic with all of you before leaving but now I want to spend time with them, thanks. 
leaves, takes the pic (30 seconds) and says “I love you guys, see you at enigma”.

Thats it. 

[Esteban 2,295]

I'm so sorry for you, all my love and support