Im in an unhappy relationship,what do I do?

[Ladey Gaygay 9,321]

I need some honest opinions because I am in an unhappy relationship with my boyfriend because I think he expects too much of me and always ignores the issue.

I thought that getting a boyfriend before the first year of high school is over whether I was ready or not would be a dream come true but it's a total nightmare

My friends say to stay with him but IDK, I really don't know what to do because I don't want to make him sad but I want to be more independent

OMG being gay in highschool effing sucks

 

[Tom Nook 37,806]

2 minutes ago, GlitterandTeeth said:

OMG being gay in highschool effing sucks

Wait til post high school

Anyways, I feel like if you two aren’t able to be on the same page then there has to be an effort to work it out or else there wouldn’t be a point to be in a relationship if you are not happy 

[LibraOctober98 3,495]

sis sis sis. Relationships are built on communication. If you don't have the will or means to tell him how you feel then the relationship ain't right. Would you rather be with him, unhappy, for a long time? Or follow your feelings and feel happier? You're the only person in your life that you'll have to deal with forever, and that's too long to be unhappy.

[Seeka 12,372]

Basically either talk to him or break up.

Also, high school relationships are overrated. 

[Maleficent 6]

Ur what, 16/17? Move on. If its not fun, if its not liberating, if it doesn't give you butterflies it isn't worth your time at this point in ur life. 

Don't waste your time looking for a love or a deeper meaning in a kiss. Find something that is right there, right now that work--and don't question it until ur at least mid-20s. 

[Anderson123 37,815]

Talk to him about it so you both get to an agreement and things change or just break up with him, whatever makes you happy. You're in high school and should be exploring your sexuality so if I were you I'd just sleep around with guys and enjoy the single life but that's just me. 

[Bonkers 29,245]

If he's in high school, he's probably broke anyway.  

 

 

[Guest Adarsh]

32 minutes ago, Bonkers said:

If he's in high school, he's probably broke anyway.  

[joannesrats 26]

If you're unhappy in a relationship, talk to your partner about it. If nothing changes, break up. 

[derpmonster 22,412]

I don't agree with @Maleficent fully. 

I'm 20 now and my first relationship was in college and it's been going on for 2+ years and stronger than ever. It's deeper than just a kiss yeah. 

High school may be too early because you two are also trying to figure yourselves out individually. High school is a time of many insecurities. 

Try not to go too far with this relationship. If it helps you, stay. If it doesn't, you don't have to. Communication is key. You must tell your boy what your expectations are and hear his out and you two must be reasonable and mutually considerate. If you care for each other, you would want the other person to be comfortable or happy too. Try talking to him about it gently. If it doesn't work, then it may not be worth it. Your own sanity is sometimes more important than that of people you care about.