Woolfsmck 2,763 Posted December 7, 2016 Share Posted December 7, 2016 Folks that ain't horny usually have medical problems like a cat in a sil, I observe life, moving and still. My words give a clue,look inside to see whats true Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
nativenewyorker 1,190 Posted December 8, 2016 Author Share Posted December 8, 2016 Okay so since people wanted to be cry babies and not discuss this because they were hung up about me saying 70% , I went ahead and actually calculated it. The real figure is 40% of her official discography is about sex. So now can we talk about why so many of her songs are about sex? That's 27 songs. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
NickiMinajStan 6,893 Posted December 8, 2016 Share Posted December 8, 2016 She is not "obsessed" with sex tho, she just enjoys it, as everyone else in the world should And it's a good thing to make art about, and it's obviously an important part of her life, so let ha be! HEART OF EVER-FROST Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
nativenewyorker 1,190 Posted December 8, 2016 Author Share Posted December 8, 2016 Just now, QueenMedusa said: She is not "obsessed" with sex tho, she just enjoys it, as everyone else in the world should And it's a good thing to make art about, and it's obviously an important part of her life, so let ha be! What's with the defensive attitude? Lol did I say it's a bad thing? I'm asking why people think she writes so much about sex compared to other singer songwriters? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
PaperIz 7,346 Posted December 8, 2016 Share Posted December 8, 2016 It's pop music. A big part of pop is about sex. Human generated art Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
NickiMinajStan 6,893 Posted December 8, 2016 Share Posted December 8, 2016 2 minutes ago, nativenewyorker said: What's with the defensive attitude? Lol did I say it's a bad thing? I'm asking why people think she writes so much about sex compared to other singer songwriters? The OP kinda sounds like you're questioning/judging her for it, and you should know by now we're all hoes in here, and we defend our sex very dearly, so you had it coming sis Now REPENT! lol HEART OF EVER-FROST Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
nativenewyorker 1,190 Posted December 8, 2016 Author Share Posted December 8, 2016 1 minute ago, QueenMedusa said: The OP kinda sounds like you're questioning/judging her for it, and you should know by now we're all hoes in here, and we defend our sex very dearly, so you had it coming sis Now REPENT! lol Nope just legitimately questioning! I think it's interesting considering the way she speaks about sex in interviews, mainly the ARTPOP era BBC Culture Show one. She seems to have a really complex perception of sex stemming from having older boyfriends when she was young, her sexual abuse, her time as a go go dancer..etc. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Woolfsmck 2,763 Posted December 8, 2016 Share Posted December 8, 2016 15 minutes ago, nativenewyorker said: Nope just legitimately questioning! I think it's interesting considering the way she speaks about sex in interviews, mainly the ARTPOP era BBC Culture Show one. She seems to have a really complex perception of sex stemming from having older boyfriends when she was young, her sexual abuse, her time as a go go dancer..etc. Its a basic part of a normal human. The age difference throws a lot of people off when they are the younger and the object of an older person's advances. Kinda takes the 'shine' off the polish so to speak ... I think her view of relationships has been complicated tho. Since her (and anyone else for that matter) view of sex and love is based on their parents and what she observed of them while growing up. Then, an older man changed all that and she had to deal with it. Kinda shattered some of her illusions about men in general it seems. like a cat in a sil, I observe life, moving and still. My words give a clue,look inside to see whats true Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elizabeth 450 Posted December 8, 2016 Share Posted December 8, 2016 sex sells Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
hELXIG 43,198 Posted December 8, 2016 Share Posted December 8, 2016 I feel like it's a combination of everything you've mentioned. Sex is power (especially as a strong woman), sex sells, it's common in pop music, it's a quick way to get people's attention, she seems to have a strong libido, sexuality was a big part of her younger life (go-go dancing, dealing with men, learning that she is sexy and that she can use it), it's an important part of life as a human because almost all of us experience sexual desire, she's a rebel and sex is a controversial topic, I think she probably wants sex discussion to be more normalised and less tabboo, maybe it's even connected to her sexual abuse because that can open a lot of doors and change people's mentality towards sex... e.g. they can feel like sex is no longer something of importance and has no meaning, they can feel like sex is extremely important and has a lot of meaning, they can be led to constantly avoid sex, or constantly seek out sex, or all of the above. It's a complicated thing really... I think given alllll of this, and probably more, it's just become a very big part of her life, career, and work. By now talking about it would just be habit! I'll be myself until they fūcking close the coffin. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
nativenewyorker 1,190 Posted December 8, 2016 Author Share Posted December 8, 2016 1 hour ago, Woolfsmck said: Its a basic part of a normal human. The age difference throws a lot of people off when they are the younger and the object of an older person's advances. Kinda takes the 'shine' off the polish so to speak ... I think her view of relationships has been complicated tho. Since her (and anyone else for that matter) view of sex and love is based on their parents and what she observed of them while growing up. Then, an older man changed all that and she had to deal with it. Kinda shattered some of her illusions about men in general it seems. Yeah I just meant her perspective seems more intense/layered than most people. I think you hit the nail on the head though, with the older boyfriends shattering the healthy perspective her parents created for her. Plus, being bullied in school probably made her continuously doubt and question whether she was actually unattractive or if it was girls' jealousy. I'm sure Cynthia reminded her it was just jealous girls and immature boys, she seems really level headed. Then Gaga grew more confident and the older boyfriends were sort of validation for her, only to have that validation ruined by her abuser when she was 19. It probably made her even more confused about how adults use sex. Thats when her relationship with sex and sexuality really became complex in my eyes. This is around the time she "stripped" on stage to get the crowds attention and then forayed into go go dancing. I wonder now if this was some unhealthy viewpoint embedded in her by the sexual abuse, that sex was a card to be played. She did say she didn't even recognize it as abuse until years later. I'm guessing sometime after she got famous and had been using sex as a "weapon" as she used to say. Plus after studying Madonna and other bold females in pop culture breaking the stigma around female sexuality that led her to use sex so often. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
He8MyHeart 9,768 Posted December 8, 2016 Share Posted December 8, 2016 I've always wondered if she found it difficult writing/singing about sex after being raped. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
nativenewyorker 1,190 Posted December 8, 2016 Author Share Posted December 8, 2016 30 minutes ago, He8MyHeart said: I've always wondered if she found it difficult writing/singing about sex after being raped. Remember that she didn't even register the abuse as rape until many years later. I wonder which point it actually hit her that what happened wasn't normal? Somewhere around The Fame Monster era or Born This Way era maybe. I don't remember the first time she talked about it.. if it was Howard Stern 2014 then maybe in between Born This Way and ARTPOP. If so, then it's interesting that ARTPOP is her most sexual album and it was written after/during the realization of her abuse. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
GGDisbetter 2,187 Posted December 8, 2016 Share Posted December 8, 2016 21 hours ago, viniferrett said: lol she's not obsessed with sex she's just human what about Asexuals... they're human... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katie14 4,828 Posted December 12, 2016 Share Posted December 12, 2016 On 12/8/2016 at 2:51 AM, nativenewyorker said: Remember that she didn't even register the abuse as rape until many years later. I wonder which point it actually hit her that what happened wasn't normal? Somewhere around The Fame Monster era or Born This Way era maybe. I don't remember the first time she talked about it.. if it was Howard Stern 2014 then maybe in between Born This Way and ARTPOP. If so, then it's interesting that ARTPOP is her most sexual album and it was written after/during the realization of her abuse. Before singing Swine at Swinefest she heavily implied what happened to her but didn't say what is was directly until Howard Stern. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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