yASSsss 35,510 Posted August 10, 2016 Share Posted August 10, 2016 On his Father committing Suicide To call Haynes’s early years “chaotic” would be grossly understating the facts. He describes his hometown as a place where “you just couldn’t be gay,” and though he’d known he liked boys since he was in first grade, everything changed when he came out to classmates and family at age 14. The bullying escalated to the point that Haynes’s older brother Clinton would meet him outside of class to protect him. (Haynes is one of six, with brother Clinton and four half siblings.) At home, Haynes’s mom, Dana, was both blindsided and dismayed by her son’s announcement. His response was to rebel. A year of exploration—in which he lost his virginity to both sexes—also became one rife with drug experimentation. He ran away from home for three weeks and bunked in a friend’s closet. He was there when an estranged relative called to tell him that his father, William, had committed suicide by swallowing roughly 40 oxycodone pills. “I’m the last person in the world who would say, ‘Oh, my dad—pity me,’” says Haynes, whose father, seven times married, split from Dana and was never close with him. “But I was told that my dad killed himself because he found out I was gay. So, of course, I lost it and was like, ‘How could you say something like that?’ And no one will ever really know the truth. But my brother and my mom went to pick up my dad’s stuff, and the only picture on his fridge was my eighth-grade graduation picture. So I was just like, ****.” On Dating- “I haven’t had sex in—I couldn’t tell you how long,” says Haynes, noting that he’s been burned by love, that he’s been shy and reclusive, and that he’s been on two dates in two years. “I wish had more to tell you, but it just doesn’t happen.” When asked to describe his ideal man, Haynes says he’d want some combination of his three celebrity crushes: John Cena, Idris Elba, and Ryan Reynolds. “Someone who just descended from a mountain and said, ‘I don’t have any friends. Would you like to come live with me?’ I’d love that,” he says. But just as he doesn’t want to rush into trying to be a gay spokesman before properly educating himself, Haynes says that, next time, he wants to do the relationship thing right. He wants kids. Six of them. And maybe he won’t have to raise them alone. “I want to somehow have a happy ending,” he says. “Or a happy beginning.” Read More: http://www.out.com/popnography/2016/8/10/pretty-hurts-joy-and-heartache-colton-haynes#article-content Photos from the shoot- Spoiler Call me by your name and I'll call you by mine Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coop 15,354 Posted August 10, 2016 Share Posted August 10, 2016 I love him Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chromatislaps 34,851 Posted August 10, 2016 Share Posted August 10, 2016 he can date me Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loyalty 3,904 Posted August 10, 2016 Share Posted August 10, 2016 His story is so touching and for his dad though Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
yASSsss 35,510 Posted August 10, 2016 Author Share Posted August 10, 2016 “I want to somehow have a happy ending,” he says. “Or a happy beginning.” my eyes are a bit teary Call me by your name and I'll call you by mine Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nini mini boss 1,448 Posted August 10, 2016 Share Posted August 10, 2016 🐺🌒✨ Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Child 18,997 Posted August 10, 2016 Share Posted August 10, 2016 OMG the story about his dad made me cry. How could anyone commit suicide because his son is gay? That's ****ed up. ‘If religion be the cause of disunity, then irreligion is surely to be preferred.’ ‘Abdu’l-Bahá Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Child 18,997 Posted August 10, 2016 Share Posted August 10, 2016 This made me love him even more, oh gosh, Colton you're so strong. ‘If religion be the cause of disunity, then irreligion is surely to be preferred.’ ‘Abdu’l-Bahá Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thomas P 18,479 Posted August 10, 2016 Share Posted August 10, 2016 I actually do love him. I’m a simple guy to please, if you like Melodrama, we chill. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Child 18,997 Posted August 10, 2016 Share Posted August 10, 2016 1 minute ago, Thomas P said: I actually do love him. Me too. I sometimes find myself staring at his face while I watch his snapchat. ‘If religion be the cause of disunity, then irreligion is surely to be preferred.’ ‘Abdu’l-Bahá Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coop 15,354 Posted August 10, 2016 Share Posted August 10, 2016 10 minutes ago, Derpplause said: he can date me 3 minutes ago, Thomas P said: I actually do love him. 1 minute ago, CrazyMonster said: Me too. I sometimes find myself staring at his face while I watch his snapchat. Back off bitches! EDIT: I guess we can share him Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chromatislaps 34,851 Posted August 10, 2016 Share Posted August 10, 2016 1 minute ago, Coop said: Back off bitches! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lion Heart 15,041 Posted August 10, 2016 Share Posted August 10, 2016 John Cena Y'all twinks better start lifting... you all have a long way to go. On another note, I never knew that story about his father. Really sad to hear that. ▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀ Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Babylon98 4,830 Posted August 10, 2016 Share Posted August 10, 2016 Wow he really has a sad backstory, well at least now he's a sucessfull actor and he's gorgeous so he'll have no trouble finding someone (if he wants to). Also really considerate of him not rushing to be a "spokesperson" before feeling he's educated in the matter! Great decision. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
yASSsss 35,510 Posted August 10, 2016 Author Share Posted August 10, 2016 7 minutes ago, CrazyMonster said: Me too. I sometimes find myself staring at his face while I watch his snapchat. i'm guilty of this too Call me by your name and I'll call you by mine Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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