JaggedMonster 2 Posted October 17, 2014 Share Posted October 17, 2014 When I go clubbing, I do it for the sake of wanting to dance my ass off... shame on people who only go out for hook-ups! sometimes you just end up hooking up, ive done it many time Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Solar 604 Posted October 17, 2014 Share Posted October 17, 2014 It all depends on your judgement and how you use this tool (just like with everything else in the world). Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
SlayedForTheGod 665 Posted October 17, 2014 Share Posted October 17, 2014 This is just stupid tbh. Most people know Grindr is a hook up app as soon as they download it. Why go looking for love and conversation in an app not made for that? Straight people use Tinder to hook up too so it really is no difference. The author of this just sounds bitter. It all comes back to slut shaming. There is NOTHING wrong with being s-xual. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Retep 0 Posted October 17, 2014 Share Posted October 17, 2014 I agree with a lot of this, however that being said it can help when you're in an area where you may be looking for singles but don't want to do the bar scene (if one even exists). There's even this cute guy in my class who I saw on an app, had I not I wouldn't have even had the thought to possibly ask him out due to not knowing others orientations + being an introverted mess. You can actually edit down your preferences and only bring up guys searching for guys if you want to. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
juicyjuicy 2,005 Posted October 17, 2014 Share Posted October 17, 2014 I met the guy I've been dating for a few months now on Tinder, but yes, I absolutely agree. 100%. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pop 4,541 Posted October 17, 2014 Share Posted October 17, 2014 If people wanna f*ck, let them f*ck. There is no rule that a person should be in a monogamous relationship. The Taylor Brigade: KNOCKOUT Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
RAMROD 116,994 Posted October 17, 2014 Share Posted October 17, 2014 Whats interesting for me is the angle they chose. Why exclusively shower the lime light on gays? Straights don't use hooking up apps? It won't ruin straight youth minds as oppose to gay youth who uses dating apps? What kind of propaganda? (ﾉ◕ヮ◕)ﾉ✧*:･ﾟ ᶠʳᵒⁿᵗ ᵗᵒʷᵃʳᵈ ᵉⁿᵉᵐʸ (*´艸｀*) ♡♡♡ Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Psychedelic 1,098 Posted October 17, 2014 Share Posted October 17, 2014 sometimes you just end up hooking up, ive done it many time me too I actually met my boyfriend that way, but wasn't originally looking for that kinda thing, just a casual good dancing time! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
uo111 5,282 Posted October 17, 2014 Share Posted October 17, 2014 They always use the word "gay" but what they mean is "male" culture. Only men are obsessed with s-x. If straight men didn't have to deal with women, they would be "impersonal" too. And more importantly, the "hook-up culture" is just a lack of maturity, but it has nothing to do with gay culture. I can't stand "gay youth culture", I hate it so much, it's one of the most annoying things ever. Grindr has nothing to do with gay culture though, just hook-up culture targeted towards gay men. Straight people are involved in it too. This guys problem is that he thought Grindr was supposed to be a culture hub No, it's a s-x app. Imagine someone going on Tindr and then writing that Tindr is destroying "straight youth culture" Just, no. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
JaggedMonster 2 Posted October 17, 2014 Share Posted October 17, 2014 me too I actually met my boyfriend that way, but wasn't originally looking for that kinda thing, just a casual good dancing time! Slay ,same here Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
JaggedMonster 2 Posted October 17, 2014 Share Posted October 17, 2014 They always use the word "gay" but what they mean is "male" culture. Only men are obsessed with s-x. If straight men didn't have to deal with women, they would be "impersonal" too. And more importantly, the "hook-up culture" is just a lack of maturity, but it has nothing to do with gay culture. I can't stand "gay youth culture", I hate it so much, it's one of the most annoying things ever. Grindr has nothing to do with gay culture though, just hook-up culture targeted towards gay men. Straight people are involved in it too. This guys problem is that he thought Grindr was supposed to be a culture hub No, it's a s-x app. Imagine someone going on Tindr and then writing that Tindr is destroying "straight youth culture" Just, no. Whats interesting for me is the angle they chose. Why exclusively shower the lime light on gays? Straights don't use hooking up apps? It won't ruin straight youth minds as oppose to gay youth who uses dating apps? What kind of propaganda? :trootea: I bet you that if this person got some good old hung 9+**** they would not be writing this article Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Psychedelic 1,098 Posted October 17, 2014 Share Posted October 17, 2014 If people wanna f*ck, let them f*ck. There is no rule that a person should be in a monogamous relationship. Whats interesting for me is the angle they chose. Why exclusively shower the lime light on gays? Straights don't use hooking up apps? It won't ruin straight youth minds as oppose to gay youth who uses dating apps? What kind of propaganda? They always use the word "gay" but what they mean is "male" culture. Only men are obsessed with s-x. If straight men didn't have to deal with women, they would be "impersonal" too. And more importantly, the "hook-up culture" is just a lack of maturity, but it has nothing to do with gay culture. I can't stand "gay youth culture", I hate it so much, it's one of the most annoying things ever. Grindr has nothing to do with gay culture though, just hook-up culture targeted towards gay men. Straight people are involved in it too. This guys problem is that he thought Grindr was supposed to be a culture hub No, it's a s-x app. Imagine someone going on Tindr and then writing that Tindr is destroying "straight youth culture" Just, no. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Redstreak 6,653 Posted October 17, 2014 Author Share Posted October 17, 2014 :trootea: I bet you that if this person got some good old hung 9+**** they would not be writing this article That could also be the issue. People wanting to find love but only finding the guys that care about giving or taking the D Take a moment to think of just flexibility, love, and trust~ Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
zexion_armando 241 Posted October 17, 2014 Share Posted October 17, 2014 I've grown to despise online dating super quickly, since its people with awful expectations, awful flaws hiding behind lies, so on. I'll just have someone walk in my physical path rather than try online. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Psychedelic 1,098 Posted October 17, 2014 Share Posted October 17, 2014 This is just stupid tbh. Most people know Grindr is a hook up app as soon as they download it. Why go looking for love and conversation in an app not made for that? Straight people use Tinder to hook up too so it really is no difference. The author of this just sounds bitter. It all comes back to slut shaming. There is NOTHING wrong with being s-xual. :trootea: Poor him, he probably hasn't got any lucky in a long time Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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