Kathy Griffin about dating a 22 year-old

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I don’t think you guys understand how some guys have a milf fetish too. 

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3 hours ago, CHIPCHROME said:

22 year olds can’t

purchase insurance

rent a car

book a hotel

 

and plenty of other things. It’s well known the human brain isn’t done developing until around 25. But even besides that fact- any person more than double digits the senior of their partner is always going to be looked at in that manner, rightfully so. It’s predatory, regardless of gender. I feel like a lot of the people saying good for her in this thread are the same people throwing up and making jokes about Leo decap’s  25 year old girlfriend of the year. Like, do you not see the hypocrisy? Lol

In what world? 

In USA most hotels will definitely book you. Also, you absolutely can rent a car. It just costs more. Not that most young Americans needed it, cos by 18, you'll likely have a drivers license and drive a car, albeit a beat up one. I've been traveling states on my own since I was 19 and never have issues, book hotels, rent a car, tickets for trains and airplanes, and that was in early 2000s. I believe it's even better now, cos how do you think these young adult travels for concerts these days? 

Rightfully so? Accusations on "always predatory" on every age gap relationship will need more evidence, and can you proved it on this? Cos making universal claim such as this will need a very strong evidence. Cos what you said assumes the conclusions without looking at how two adults in that relationship actually treat each other. 

Also, people don't criticize Leonardo DiCaprio simply because there's an age gap. Many critics point to a recurring pattern of only dating women in a narrow age range and frequently ending relationships around the same age. Whether that criticism is fair or not, it's about a perceived pattern of behavior, not just the numerical difference in age. So context matters here.

 

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1 hour ago, faysalaaa said:

Kathy is ignoring the fact that age gaps are an issue, and is trying to justify it because we allow men to do it, and her focus is if men can do it, then women can do it. So based on that logic, if society gives men a free pass with rape culture, should we speak against rape, or advocate for women to get a free pass to rape? Do you get the comparison now? Im using an extreme example to show her logic is flawed. 

Right.

So you were making a comparison?

Like I get what you were trying to say now, but like...you could not have been less clear

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4 hours ago, CHIPCHROME said:

22 year olds can’t

purchase insurance

rent a car

book a hotel

 

and plenty of other things. It’s well known the human brain isn’t done developing until around 25. But even besides that fact- any person more than double digits the senior of their partner is always going to be looked at in that manner, rightfully so. It’s predatory, regardless of gender. I feel like a lot of the people saying good for her in this thread are the same people throwing up and making jokes about Leo decap’s  25 year old girlfriend of the year. Like, do you not see the hypocrisy? Lol

I literally did all those things when I was 22.

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1 hour ago, faysalaaa said:

Kathy is ignoring the fact that age gaps are an issue, and is trying to justify it because we allow men to do it, and her focus is if men can do it, then women can do it. So based on that logic, if society gives men a free pass with rape culture, should we speak against rape, or advocate for women to get a free pass to rape? Do you get the comparison now? Im using an extreme example to show her logic is flawed. 

But she didn’t ignore it. She literally justified age gaps by mentioning relationships that are successful and literally called some of them beautiful. Did you even read what she said lol 

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14 hours ago, VTV said:

wait where is this coming from? i mean its not real real right even if it is if its consensual whos to say whats what

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if she is not dating him, can i date him instead? 

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21 minutes ago, robotvoiceinalice said:

if she is not dating him, can i date him instead? 

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6 hours ago, CHIPCHROME said:

Not you trying to cope… and if yu think I was calling her Epstein coded for the topic at hand, you’re mistaken. She’s run in those circles for decades. Her entire career is one big humiliation ritual if you ask me 

Y’all learn one conspiracy theory buzz word and run it through the ground. 

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Just sitting here wondering how many of the Puritan prudes commenting on this post just took a j.o. break to look at some "daddy" pr0n. 

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bop

Edited 16 hours ago by Skyana Rava

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4 hours ago, faysalaaa said:

Kathy is ignoring the fact that age gaps are an issue, and is trying to justify it because we allow men to do it, and her focus is if men can do it, then women can do it. So based on that logic, if society gives men a free pass with rape culture, should we speak against rape, or advocate for women to get a free pass to rape? Do you get the comparison now? Im using an extreme example to show her logic is flawed. 

one huge major key difference between your weird comparison is that dating is consensual

both people want it

if you want to make a comparison, find something more in line than something randomly extreme

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16 hours ago, Future Lovers said:

Nobody at ANY age has it all figured out. If you're not allowed to date until you've "figured it out" then nobody is allowed to date ever. 22 is an adult. Treat them like one.

I'm sorry but there is absolutely no way on god's green earth that you're going to convince me to be upset about a 22 year old in a relationship with another adult. This current wave of ultra puritanism is absolutely insane and it boggles my mind how people from my generation can be so sensitive to the idea of an adult being in a relationship with another adult because there's an age gap. 

Newsflash: age gaps do not matter in the slightest when you're 22 years old. They just don't. That is an adult. Stop acting like that's a child. It's silly and it's INCREDIBLY disrespectful to that person. It does not help them. It's not sweet. It's not a show of care. It's an overbearing farce. 

I'm 25 myself, so I am still a young man. But i can make my own choices, just as I did when I was 22. 22 year olds have graduated college, live on their own, have careers of their own, and in many cases are starting families or are at the very least in a committed longterm relationship. 

We cannot continue to infantilize people in their 20s because all it does it lay foundations to excuse them when they do things that should not be excused. If a man were to assault his partner at the age of 22, we wouldn't say "oh he's just 22 he's so young he doesn't know better" because we know that it isn't true. He does know better and should be held accountable because he is an adult. 

A 22 year old is an adult. You can quote the whole brain development thing to me or tell me stories about how you just don't know as much at that age as you do when you're a little older (duh), but that does not change that that is an ADULT. Not a recent adult, he has been adult for almost half a decade now. 

Age gaps really stop mattering once you're in your 20s, and you'll never convince me otherwise. Let adults be adults and stop treating them as if they're still teenagers. 

Just because you personally felt like you needed or should have a little more guidance at 22 doesn't mean everyone else at that age does. Your experiences are yours, not everyone else's. I was perfectly independent at the age of 22 and I had not needed any sort of guidance or hand holding in quite some time by then. 

Stop projecting whatever things or feelings you have toward your own self on everyone else. 

The median age for college graduates is 23. When adjusting the median age of people to move out for those that move back in with their parents it's 25-27. 

 

There's a reason that divorce rates start to drop after 25. And there's a reason you actively seek to dismiss the developmental psychology behind it all. You can do a lot of things at age 22, and it doesn't mean that you should do them. Part of life is making those mistakes and learning from them. And thats in a sense taken away when your partner has a wild age gap. That guidance does create an opportunity for the older person to take advantage of you. You can acknowledge that 22 is an adult and treat them as such while also acknowledging that the 65 year old has seen a LOT more in life. The 22 year old might be starting their career, the 65 year old is retiring from theirs after 40 years of work. The 22 year old in a lot of cases is starting to have their first relationship with the dynamics of adult life in play, while the 65 year old has on average had at least 1 divorce. 

 

We're not talking about the autonomy of a 22 year old as an individual, we're talking about a 22 year old within a dynamic with someone that has had decades more life experience and that context matters.

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6 hours ago, RAMROD said:

In what world? 

In USA most hotels will definitely book you. Also, you absolutely can rent a car. It just costs more. Not that most young Americans needed it, cos by 18, you'll likely have a drivers license and drive a car, albeit a beat up one. I've been traveling states on my own since I was 19 and never have issues, book hotels, rent a car, tickets for trains and airplanes, and that was in early 2000s. I believe it's even better now, cos how do you think these young adult travels for concerts these days? 

Rightfully so? Accusations on "always predatory" on every age gap relationship will need more evidence, and can you proved it on this? Cos making universal claim such as this will need a very strong evidence. Cos what you said assumes the conclusions without looking at how two adults in that relationship actually treat each other. 

Also, people don't criticize Leonardo DiCaprio simply because there's an age gap. Many critics point to a recurring pattern of only dating women in a narrow age range and frequently ending relationships around the same age. Whether that criticism is fair or not, it's about a perceived pattern of behavior, not just the numerical difference in age. So context matters here.

 

How about you prove me wrong instead

 

and provide evidence? 
and I think you pigeonholed the Leonardo thing…. For the sake of looking like you did something. Nobody would utter a word if there was any other quality about the women he chose to seek out that was so obviously a dealbreaker. Of COURSE the issue is with the age gap. And you’re right as well there is an issue with the BEHAVIORAL PATTERNS of such abusers. Why blindly normalize it ? Lol

Edited 19 hours ago by CHIPCHROME

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3 hours ago, Batwings said:

Just sitting here wondering how many of the Puritan prudes commenting on this post just took a j.o. break to look at some "daddy" pr0n. 

Once you realize you’re projecting your own trauma onto others by forcefully desensitizing everyone to it, you’ll regret such a gross comment.

Edited 19 hours ago by CHIPCHROME