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RenegAde 18,189 Posted August 28 Share Posted August 28 (edited) 54 minutes ago, Cameltoe Chariot said: Just wanted to pop in here and add that I have a close friend who had the unfortunate displeasure of working with JLo on a press event as a coordinator and she said Jen made her rage cry afterward because of how f*cking rude and demanding she was. She said the worst part was how the second anyone famous spoke to her she instantly lit up, all smiles and warm, but had none of that energy for the people actually helping her. She's a confirmed nightmare, meanwhile Ben has a reputation of being really kind and easy to work with. He's also been a huge advocate for the LGBTQ+ community, specifically when it came to legalizing gay marriage and trans health care. Not a big fan of how his addiction struggles are being used to paint a picture of a violent and abusive man when that really isn't the case. So Jlo is a confirmed nightmare because your friends had a bad experience with her but two women accusing ben of groping them and his addiction to alcohol and gambling which is usually a major player in divorces are just "struggles being used against him"?. No one has used the words violent or abusive to discribe him, all I've done is state his actions. You see the double standards and hypocrisy. Also what is the use of throwing Ben's political views here when it hasn't even come into question if not to paint him as saint. Everybody claims he doesn't like showbiz and attention but the documentary about their marriage was his idea and he had control over it. Like I've said before, I only brought his problematic history because of how quick people like you are to apportion blame to jlo and I'm responding to you because you are indirectly referring to me and have been continously lmaoing my posts. Edited August 28 by RenegAde Quote Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cameltoe Chariot 14,249 Posted August 28 Share Posted August 28 (edited) 28 minutes ago, RenegAde said: So Jlo is a confirmed nightmare because your friends had a bad experience with her but two women accusing ben of groping them and his addiction to alcohol and gambling which is usually a major player in divorces are just "struggles being used against him"?. No one has used the words violent or abusive to discribe him, all I've done is state his actions. You see the double standards and hypocrisy. Also what is the use of throwing Ben's political views here when it hasn't even come into question if not to paint him as saint. Everybody claims he doesn't like showbiz and attention but the documentary about their marriage was his idea and he had control over it. Like I've said before, I only brought his problematic history because of how quick people like you are to apportion blame to jlo and I'm responding to you because you are indirectly referring to me and have been continously lmaoing my posts. No offence but I worked in media for over 6 years and have met/mingled with/know a lot of people in the entertainment industry. I'm going to trust my friend when she tells me she had a negative celeb interaction because I have worked alongside her in similar situations. Just because I'm on GGD doesn't mean I'm jobless or inexperienced, I started coming to GGD way back in 2009/2010 and I've been here ever since because I have found a community of likeminded people who share a love for Lady Gaga. I get the feeling that you love Jlo, hence your intense and defensive reaction to my criticism of her and all I can say is if that is the case then I suggest you focus on her music/films and whatever other creative endeavours she puts out and try to ignore what people say about her. Sometimes it's best to not meet your heroes because oftentimes they're incredibly negative people. EDIT: Also, genuinely sorry if LMAOing your posts came across as mean/rude - not my intention, I just thought we were all kikiing. Edited August 28 by Cameltoe Chariot Quote Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
HelloHangoverz 15,542 Posted August 28 Author Share Posted August 28 (edited) 2 hours ago, RenegAde said: So Jlo is a confirmed nightmare because your friends had a bad experience with her but two women accusing ben of groping them and his addiction to alcohol and gambling which is usually a major player in divorces are just "struggles being used against him"?. No one has used the words violent or abusive to discribe him, all I've done is state his actions. You see the double standards and hypocrisy. Also what is the use of throwing Ben's political views here when it hasn't even come into question if not to paint him as saint. Everybody claims he doesn't like showbiz and attention but the documentary about their marriage was his idea and he had control over it. Like I've said before, I only brought his problematic history because of how quick people like you are to apportion blame to jlo and I'm responding to you because you are indirectly referring to me and have been continously lmaoing my posts. I see where you're coming from, but I feel that pointing to somebody's gambling/addiction issues as some sort of 'evidence' that "they must be the one in the wrong" is quite insensitive. Having these issues does not make you a terrible friend or partner automatically, nor does it make you problematic. edit: to clarify, a "worse" friend, or "challenging" friend. you're not necessarily saying they make him a "terrible" friend automatically Edited August 28 by HelloHangoverz my head is filled with broken mirrors, so many I can't look away 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hyoha 1,602 Posted August 28 Share Posted August 28 So some people in this thread are basically defending JLo because she's a woman, and criticizing Ben Affleck because he's a man Did I get the memo right? 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ElectricChapelR 1,975 Posted August 28 Share Posted August 28 1 hour ago, Hyoha said: So some people in this thread are basically defending JLo because she's a woman, and criticizing Ben Affleck because he's a man Did I get the memo right? No, I defend Ben because he is hot and I think with my penis... And yes I've got a warning point for that 🤡👁️ Quote Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sunny 12,705 Posted August 28 Share Posted August 28 20 hours ago, ElectricChapelR said: Yeah... he doesn't enjoy the fame and attention whoring part of his job. While J Lo is the exactly opposite. Being with her is like hanging out with an influencer that makes tiktoks and stories everywhere they go + the paparazzi. Sometimes people need to leave men alone. WONT SOMEBODY THINK OF THE MALE CELEBRITIES I like dancin', and ponies.... Quote Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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