GipJo 2,912 Posted December 16, 2021 Share Posted December 16, 2021 This is so dumb a argument, it's like game addiction debate all over again. It's not ****/game's fault that you don't know how to control yourself or necessary sex knowledge, it's like blaming violence in films for "corrupting" children into doing bad stuff, parents and schools should educate them better. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
hoeslay 4,190 Posted December 16, 2021 Share Posted December 16, 2021 This is why I like supporting independent folks/onlyfans models even if just on Twitter. It's how I consume most of my **** now. Straight **** tends to be very abusive to women and gay **** tends to be very body image based (which I guess can apply to straight people **** as well). It's definitely tricky to navigate. I'm trans and fat and there is next to no representation for me and it's frustrating for sure and has been a mental hurdle before. But I will say, like, some of that rough bdsm and rough p*rn isn't all fantasy and make believe and I don't wanna undermine anyone's kinks? I've been fortunate enough to have had some very fun and crazy p*rnographic sex and like...it's very fun 🥴 And I've just learned that there's so many ways to have sex or please your partner that range on a massive spectrum. The **** industry is a huge mess and problematic but it's fun and actually useful for some folks. Let's uplift sex workers and those who are trying to reshape the industry. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
RenegAde 19,459 Posted December 16, 2021 Share Posted December 16, 2021 6 hours ago, NATAH said: because overconsumption of p*rn can damage your mental health, like it did mine developing insecurities, exposure to violent material, all kinds of things when your brain is still maturing You're still talking about overconsumption i.e addiction Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
RenegAde 19,459 Posted December 16, 2021 Share Posted December 16, 2021 5 hours ago, WheresMy911Alice said: Read all the other posts. An adolescent brain, and arguably many adult brains, are not adequately prepared to deal with the dopamine overload that **** causes. That's the thing, **** is ideally not supposed be consumed adolescents, it's for adults. there's alot things about this conversation surrounding **** that everyone is ignoring because they want to agree with Billy's statement. Yall are making some problematic blanket statements Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ashley 9,558 Posted December 16, 2021 Share Posted December 16, 2021 5 hours ago, ChicaSkas said: What is tough is when your bf sees p*rn and stuff thats done typically only in **** (choking, gagging, etc) and tries to act that out and its not necessarily normal, and when you are young and impressionable too, you go along with it , when it's not normal unless you consent to it That’s why I don’t date men that watch **** anymore tbh, they have unrealistic expectations or only get turned on by degrading their partner. It’s just not worth dealing with. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bling 31,453 Posted December 16, 2021 Share Posted December 16, 2021 1 hour ago, RenegAde said: That's the thing, **** is ideally not supposed be consumed adolescents, it's for adults. there's alot things about this conversation surrounding **** that everyone is ignoring because they want to agree with Billy's statement. Yall are making some problematic blanket statements **** affects adolescents' brains in negative ways. Fact. **** affects adults' brains in negative ways. Fact. This is what we are saying. Just Google it if you don't believe me. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bling 31,453 Posted December 16, 2021 Share Posted December 16, 2021 https://fightthenewdrug.org/5-ways-****-changes-your-brain-and-body-for-the-worse/ https://time.com/135853/****-brain/ https://www.sciencefocus.com/the-human-body/is-****ography-harmful/ https://neurosciencenews.com/neuroscience-****ography-brain-15354/ https://canopy.us/2020/10/19/what-viewing-****ography-does-to-your-brain/ Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
RenegAde 19,459 Posted December 16, 2021 Share Posted December 16, 2021 6 minutes ago, WheresMy911Alice said: **** affects adults' brains in negative ways. Fact. Wrong OVERCONSUMPTION of **** affect adults in a negative way Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bling 31,453 Posted December 16, 2021 Share Posted December 16, 2021 1 minute ago, RenegAde said: Wrong OVERCONSUMPTION of **** affect adults in a negative way https://fightthenewdrug.org/5-ways-****-changes-your-brain-and-body-for-the-worse/ https://time.com/135853/****-brain/ https://www.sciencefocus.com/the-human-body/is-****ography-harmful/ https://neurosciencenews.com/neuroscience-****ography-brain-15354/ https://canopy.us/2020/10/19/what-viewing-****ography-does-to-your-brain/ Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
RenegAde 19,459 Posted December 16, 2021 Share Posted December 16, 2021 2 minutes ago, WheresMy911Alice said: https://fightthenewdrug.org/5-ways-****-changes-your-brain-and-body-for-the-worse/ https://time.com/135853/****-brain/ https://www.sciencefocus.com/the-human-body/is-****ography-harmful/ https://neurosciencenews.com/neuroscience-****ography-brain-15354/ https://canopy.us/2020/10/19/what-viewing-****ography-does-to-your-brain/ Have you read these studies yourself ? The "negative" impacts are literally nothing compared to what being on your phone/ social media can do to you mentally and physically but yet here you are..... online Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bling 31,453 Posted December 16, 2021 Share Posted December 16, 2021 1 minute ago, RenegAde said: Have you read these studies yourself ? The "negative" impacts are literally nothing compared to what being on your phone/ social media can do to you mentally and physically but yet here you are..... online Yes I have. And nice change of subject Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
RenegAde 19,459 Posted December 16, 2021 Share Posted December 16, 2021 7 minutes ago, WheresMy911Alice said: Yes I have. And nice change of subject Not changing the subject, just pointing out how over dramatic and borderline regressive yall are sounding over the negative effects of **** as opposed to other things we do everyday because Billie eilish said so. I mean, everyone should know the cardinal rules of **** consumption. 1.)Its not for kids OR teens 2.)Its fantasy 3.)don't over use it Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
hELXIG 43,198 Posted December 16, 2021 Share Posted December 16, 2021 All the serious and meaningful stuff has already been said in this thread so I'll just a post a moment that this conversation made me think of... (time stamped) I'll be myself until they fūcking close the coffin. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
nATAH 50,121 Posted December 16, 2021 Share Posted December 16, 2021 5 hours ago, RenegAde said: You're still talking about overconsumption i.e addiction yes... the overcomsumption of p*rn... and how it negatively affects a person? what's not clicking bestie lmao mother, what must i do? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ziggy 11,911 Posted December 16, 2021 Share Posted December 16, 2021 21 hours ago, Wolf said: I think that **** in itself is not bad per se, but with how you consume it. There's a high tendency that you can get addicted to it, and it hijacks the brain's reward system and releases too much dopamine so you're craving for more each time. While it's still better not to watch it at all completely, that may not be possible for everyone. I also think that it's possible to have a healthy relationship with ****-- setting boundaries as to not watching it on a regular basis and not treating it as "real life" sex. Perhaps we can support **** directed by women, depicting a more realistic view on what sex is. Agreed! I think she's talking more about the culture at-large that exists around ****, though, especially as it relates to young women vs what we're talking about which is more of an ideal scenario type thing. Either way, I commend her for speaking her mind so cogently and being open and firm in her stance on a pervasive preying culture. I think what you and I are about is what she would ideally wish **** would go and is a remedy to many of the problems she is talking about. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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