SKANK 14,288 Posted November 13, 2021 Share Posted November 13, 2021 1 hour ago, TheDemonIClingTo said: Making a woman have your surname instead of hers... retrograde and sexist to say the least No one was talking about making a woman do anything. A lot of women, perhaps Taylor's fiance included, want to take their husband's surname. Their choice is not sexist or retrograde. Implying that their husband "made" the choice for them? That is sexist. When it comes to marriage and relationships, the less judgment you pass about the way people choose to live, the better. In my opinion. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheDemonIClingTo 1,018 Posted November 13, 2021 Share Posted November 13, 2021 3 minutes ago, SKANK said: A lot of women, perhaps Taylor's fiance included, want to take their husband's surname. Their choice is not sexist or retrograde. Implying that their husband "made" the choice for them? That is sexist. It's not only men that are sexist, you know. Many women have been brainwashed by the patriarchy to do what's expected of them. But hey, let's just think changing her surname is what she wanted and what she wanted only Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
TSUNAMI 21,021 Posted November 13, 2021 Share Posted November 13, 2021 Taylor debuts his last name in neon Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Der Meister 3,000 Posted November 13, 2021 Share Posted November 13, 2021 1 hour ago, bionic said: You all know what I thought was going to come next We lost! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
SKANK 14,288 Posted November 13, 2021 Share Posted November 13, 2021 1 minute ago, TheDemonIClingTo said: It's not only men that are sexist, you know. Many women have been brainwashed by the patriarchy to do what's expected of them. But hey, let's just think changing her surname is what she wanted and what she wanted only Calling a woman brainwashed for practicing the agency she has to choose her own name is sexist. A woman can be a feminist who understands the history of marriage being a tool used to oppress women, and still choose to use their husband's surname. Passing judgment on women who choose to take their husband's surname is as shitty as passing judgment on women who choose not to. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
gothicdream 39,589 Posted November 13, 2021 Share Posted November 13, 2021 2 hours ago, TheDemonIClingTo said: Making a woman have your surname instead of hers... retrograde and sexist to say the least 2 hours ago, Bonkers said: But at the same time, choosing to change your last name is ok. I do agree with you, though. In Quebec where I live women keep their name (even reverting back to it if you move from another place). It requires a deliberate name change if you really want to have your last name the same as your husband, and I agree with it and likeit. I think it's fine either way as long as there isn't any pressure to do so. I didn't change my name when I got married only out of pure laziness It is a PROCESS Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheDemonIClingTo 1,018 Posted November 13, 2021 Share Posted November 13, 2021 10 minutes ago, SKANK said: Calling a woman brainwashed for practicing the agency she has to choose her own name is sexist. A woman can be a feminist who understands the history of marriage being a tool used to oppress women, and still choose to use their husband's surname. Passing judgment on women who choose to take their husband's surname is as shitty as passing judgment on women who choose not to. If you wanna think that way, it's your choice Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blastertoyo 22,728 Posted November 13, 2021 Share Posted November 13, 2021 2 hours ago, bionic said: You all know what I thought was going to come next Beauty Line please enlighten me to death Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheDemonIClingTo 1,018 Posted November 13, 2021 Share Posted November 13, 2021 5 minutes ago, Blastertoyo said: Beauty Line Werewolf Labs? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
SKANK 14,288 Posted November 13, 2021 Share Posted November 13, 2021 11 minutes ago, TheDemonIClingTo said: If you wanna think that way, it's your choice It's not about what I think. It's not about what you think. It's about respecting and not judging women's choices. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bling 31,446 Posted November 13, 2021 Share Posted November 13, 2021 S- So...it's Taylor and Tay Lautner??? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheDemonIClingTo 1,018 Posted November 13, 2021 Share Posted November 13, 2021 Just now, SKANK said: It's not about what I think. It's not about what you think. It's about respecting and not judging women's choices. I won't judge Melania Trump's choices, then Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bling 31,446 Posted November 13, 2021 Share Posted November 13, 2021 He was the Shawn Mendes before Shawn Mendes. Was hoping he would finally come out already. We truly lost Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 13, 2021 Share Posted November 13, 2021 1 hour ago, SKANK said: No one was talking about making a woman do anything. A lot of women, perhaps Taylor's fiance included, want to take their husband's surname. Their choice is not sexist or retrograde. Implying that their husband "made" the choice for them? That is sexist. When it comes to marriage and relationships, the less judgment you pass about the way people choose to live, the better. In my opinion. I was in a relationship with a girl once and I expressed the idea of if ever getting married, I would be totally cool with changing my last name to hers. She had a coool af last name and my name would have sounded so much better with her last name. She was completely against that idea. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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