hELXIG 43,098 Posted May 21, 2021 Share Posted May 21, 2021 Well I feel shaken now after watching Gaga's segment. Idk really how to process it or what else I can add to the discussion. Her experiences in those early days are horrifying. All the mental work she's done in the past few years really makes me realise we need to cut her a break, stop demanding so much of her. Knowing that even now she's often on the brink of s*lf h*rm and has to pull herself out of it, that she performs shows and even did ASIB and accepted her Oscar at such a low point, and none of us knew... idek. I wish we could help more than we can P.S. we also have to stop trying to find out who did it and make sure we don't start mentioning him by name. The last thing we need is his name trending on Twitter, getting printed in articles, every interviewer and paparazzi mentioning his name right to her face. Do you know how incredibly triggering that would be? How that would hurt her? She mentioned in the segment that she can't even say his name herself. I understand now why she never wanted to talk about it. Once she talks about it, the fans talk about it, then the media, then the whole world. I don't want her confronted with that I'll be myself until they fūcking close the coffin. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Child 18,997 Posted May 21, 2021 Share Posted May 21, 2021 7 hours ago, Lighter said: i know in my gut who did this. we know every producer Gaga has worked with Who? ‘If religion be the cause of disunity, then irreligion is surely to be preferred.’ ‘Abdu’l-Bahá Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Child 18,997 Posted May 21, 2021 Share Posted May 21, 2021 7 hours ago, homomo said: Wasn’t it rumoured that the MTN video was about an abortion? This is so sad to hear. I hope she’s been able to process all this and recover I knew in my guts that MTN video was about this. ‘If religion be the cause of disunity, then irreligion is surely to be preferred.’ ‘Abdu’l-Bahá Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Glamourpuss 29,062 Posted May 21, 2021 Share Posted May 21, 2021 I can't even process how I feel or what to say after reading that. It makes me feel sick. I don't think I'll be able to watch the episode. So much makes sense now like the Marry the Night video and why ARTPOP was a difficult era. She was never going to be a normal person without getting therapy and now when I'm thinking of Replay it's gut wrenching to think that she's forced to relive that horrible memory of being dropped off and all the feelings that come with it. I know as a woman that she will have felt extremely guilty and never got over having to have an abortion. That stays with you. My heart goes out to her. This is shocking and so sad. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Child 18,997 Posted May 21, 2021 Share Posted May 21, 2021 I’m speechless, I don’t have any words, I am in shock, I am so sad, I wish Gaga didn’t have to be this strong, I love her so much. I wanna thank her for having the bravery to come forward with this painful thing that happened to her. ‘If religion be the cause of disunity, then irreligion is surely to be preferred.’ ‘Abdu’l-Bahá Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mother of Puppies 36,460 Posted May 21, 2021 Share Posted May 21, 2021 I just noticed from one clip that I watched on twitter... she said "THEY told me THEY were going to burn all my music" O.O They? So there were more people involved in this mess? oh boy... this makes me so sad and angry THEY CALL ME LADY MOP Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
StarstruckIllusion 52,916 Posted May 21, 2021 Author Share Posted May 21, 2021 still shaken. a ****ing rape baby - after months of pressure too. it enrages me sm - I cant believe he’s not rotting in jail rn. Marry The Night means sm more now damn Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Googoo GAGA 220 Posted May 21, 2021 Share Posted May 21, 2021 This is completely heartbreaking to hear. She is so strong and courageous. I'm glad she was able to get it off of her chest and glad she can feel good enough to deal and heal about it! I love her!! Your either on my side, by my side, or in my ****ing way. Choose Wisely. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
DpHitch1992 1,158 Posted May 21, 2021 Share Posted May 21, 2021 "I'm not here to tell my story to you because I want anybody to cry for me. I'm good." "But open your heart up for somebody else. Because I'm telling you, I've been through it and people need help. So, that's part of my healing, being able to talk to you." As a fan base we need to make sure we stand together and move forward with this attitude. Its what she wants and also is the only way in making sure survivor's are listened too and know they will have support if they are maybe too scared or embarressed to speak out Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Magui 2,628 Posted May 21, 2021 Share Posted May 21, 2021 22 minutes ago, Glamourpuss said: I know as a woman that she will have felt extremely guilty and never got over having to have an abortion. That stays with you. My heart goes out to her. This is shocking and so sad. On top of everything else.... it's horrible. For past few hours that's all I can think about... it's heartbreaking. I'm sad, but so proud of her. I only wish I could just hugg her. I hope wherever some of you meet her, give her a big, big hugg and tell her how proud of her you are. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chromatislaps 34,851 Posted May 21, 2021 Share Posted May 21, 2021 omg Gaga baby Im so proud of her talking about this, this is very hard and I know someone very dear to me who went through something similar. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhantomOfTheDance 13,795 Posted May 21, 2021 Share Posted May 21, 2021 I'm so devastated right now . . . the fact that you can hear a car in the beginning of Replay, which signifies her getting dropped off . . . . I'm so upset. We have to do something as fans, guys. We have to show her that we love her. We should do a project with as much power as ARTPOP ACT II. We need to let her know we love and accept her so so much. She's the reason why we're here. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cybikitty 1,647 Posted May 21, 2021 Share Posted May 21, 2021 I'm currently watching the episode and it's so hard to take in that I have to keep pausing I don't know if I understood a bit right, but it sounded like she had resorted back to cutting during the ASIB era? It's really getting to me personally as I've been down that SH road before and when she said cutting was all about showing you're hurt instead of telling somebody you're hurt it really just kinda... clicked? I never really could pinpoint why I did it as a teen but that helped make so much sense Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Glamourpuss 29,062 Posted May 21, 2021 Share Posted May 21, 2021 8 minutes ago, Meraki said: I'm so devastated right now . . . the fact that you can hear a car in the beginning of Replay, which signifies her getting dropped off . . . . I'm so upset. We have to do something as fans, guys. We have to show her that we love her. We should do a project with as much power as ARTPOP ACT II. We need to let her know we love and accept her so so much. She's the reason why we're here. There's Operation Born This Way. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Noah 26,972 Posted May 21, 2021 Share Posted May 21, 2021 Woah... ⟡ ⋆ ˚｡⋆🦢⋆ ˚｡⋆⟡ Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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