Ajayll is finally back with her 2021 Grammy Awards reaction video

[littlepotter 75,152]

47 minutes ago, ManuelColon said:

The person i first quoted literally said "it is not acceptable of her to leave without first saying she will".

So, a human being is not allowed to take three months off just for herself to be okay? It is not acceptable for someone who just makes some funny videos to live their life? It is SO selfish to demand something from her or anybody just because they started creating fake stories about what happened to her when there was no prove about it.

There is a difference between worrying and being selfish, i was quite worried too, but i knew she was just going to come back one day or just wait till someone said something real.

I just don't agree with you. I don't understand how anyone can see it as "selfish" to wish she'd tweeted about leaving. Selfish? Because you're worried about someone else? Make it make sense. Let me not even get started about the dramatics of "how dare you demand something from her, she is not accountable for anything" like... people just wanted to know if she was okay  

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1 hour ago, littlepotter said:

I just don't agree with you. I don't understand how anyone can see it as "selfish" to wish she'd tweeted about leaving. Selfish? Because you're worried about someone else? Make it make sense. Let me not even get started about the dramatics of "how dare you demand something from her, she is not accountable for anything" like... people just wanted to know if she was okay  

As i already mentioned, the person said "it is not acceptable", that basically means that Ajayll is not allowed.

And as i also mentioned there is a difference between being worried and demanding/being selfish, you can worry all you want and ask her to please give a notice before taking a break, but to say "it's unacceptable" is a different thing, I don't feel you are reading me in a clear way.

In the end even if everyone wanted her to give a notice, well, she didn't, that's all.

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4 minutes ago, ManuelColon said:

As i already mentioned, the person said "it is not acceptable", that basically means that Ajayll is not allowed.

And as i also mentioned there is a difference between being worried and demanding/being selfish, you can worry all you want and ask her to please give a notice before taking a break, but to say "it's unacceptable" is a different thing, I don't feel you are reading me in a clear way.

In the end even if everyone wanted her to give a notice, well, she didn't, that's all.

I think you're taking the word unacceptable too seriously. It's not like their acceptance holds any weight... It's just a personal opinion of being disappointed or whatever, which they're entitled to

[Bonkers 29,666]

17 hours ago, PunkTheFunk said:

I never understood what the fuss was about. She takes a 3 month break from YouTube and social media and suddenly she's a missing person/dead?

I'm going to disagree here because there were concerned fans all over twitter, forums, youtube - people who were genuinely concerned and worried about her.

She has a large enough following that it's not credible that she wasn't informed by several people about people being concerned for her.  When that many people are concerned, inevitably there are going to be some of them who either know how to contact her, or know someone who does know to contact her.

So for me, the fact that she just sat back and watched it - puts here squarely in a category I call "f*cking bitch" and i'm not sorry for saying that!

And for this, "Ajay is allowed" crowd.  Yes, she is allowed.  Absolutely.  We're all allowed to be f*cking bitches.  Anyone who is blessed to have thousands of people caring about them, in my opinion, can take 5 seconds to post a "just taking a break" message on Twitter or YouTube.  No explanation needed, just a small courtesy to let people that you're ok.  It's not required, nobody "has to" do that.  But what does that have to do with being a reasonable person with even a tiny bit of appreciation for the fact that people give a **** about you?

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1 hour ago, Bonkers said:

I'm going to disagree here because there were concerned fans all over twitter, forums, youtube - people who were genuinely concerned and worried about her.

She has a large enough following that it's not credible that she wasn't informed by several people about people being concerned for her.  When that many people are concerned, inevitably there are going to be some of them who either know how to contact her, or know someone who does know to contact her.

So for me, the fact that she just sat back and watched it - puts here squarely in a category I call "f*cking bitch" and i'm not sorry for saying that!

And for this, "Ajay is allowed" crowd.  Yes, she is allowed.  Absolutely.  We're all allowed to be f*cking bitches.  Anyone who is blessed to have thousands of people caring about them, in my opinion, can take 5 seconds to post a "just taking a break" message on Twitter or YouTube.  No explanation needed, just a small courtesy to let people that you're ok.  It's not required, nobody "has to" do that.  But what does that have to do with being a reasonable person with even a tiny bit of appreciation for the fact that people give a **** about you?

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I'm not arguing with @PunkTheFunk i still worship at your alter, Queen!!  

 

Fair points! I'm just a casual watcher so I didn't give her break too much thought, but I see a lot of people were distraught by it.

Also my altar is literally just an upturned garbage can, please drag me whenever necessary.

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y'all do not even know her....this is creepy. She can stop using youtube and twitter for a while and be okay. Even if she's not it's none of your business. She has actual friends and family to worry about her. I'm so sick of this parasocial relationship stuff. I know ironic because we're on a fan site but I truly left all my stan behavior for Gaga a long time ago. lol. I just identify with her story and like her music but I'm not gonna act like she's my family.