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yungpancake

Hi. 

Last time I was pretty active here was last year, and the last post I made was how I felt 'betrayed' around the months that Gaga was completely silent- like before the Chromatica oreo announcement. I talked here about how I felt lost and weirded out that Gaga wasn't interacting with us anymore, since in past years Gaga used to be so talkative with us. Maybe it was in those past habits that Gaga learned her lesson towards her social media activity, and I think this is the opportunity for me to learn from my mistakes as well.

Learning the news of how Gaga had a family member hospitalized for 2 months shook me to the core. How she shared that most of the time she was the only one to stay in and be with that family member made me remember how terrifying it is to be in that position. 

In 2017, my baby sister was diagnosed with a rare heart disease with no name. And, the night that we rushed her to the hospital was also the same day as our grandfathers' funeral. My sister was also admitted for 2 months, and I was also one of the family members that looked after her for nights until dawn. It was a very terrifying time, and I'm glad my sister is now well today, thank God.

I think I want to take this opportunity, if ever Gaga actually sees this, to apologize to her and to everyone for having high expectations from her for a stupid album era in the middle of a crisis. This album, Chromatica, has been my friend and escape outside of this pandemic, and I wish I knew earlier how to be grateful for this music. I'm sorry Gaga and I'm sorry everyone.

I wish we, as a collective were more kind towards each other and to Gaga and her team. I wish we were more loving and understanding to each other. I think that's what this album and message is all about. So, let's take our first steps today to change the air in our community.

I love you everyone. :heart:

 

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Rahrahbitchson

Thats why it is important to not judge someone if you doesnt know what is going on in their life/mind and not only with Gaga but with every person, we are fast to complain, judge etc but we dont get in the others position, thats one of the reasons i hate all of this "lack of promotion" threads

Quizás bastaba respirar, sólo respirar, muy lento...💙
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Cameltoe Chariot

Thanks for sharing this with us! What a great message to put out to the fandom :kiss:

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MJHolland

this exactly. 

this is so beautiful, thank you. this should be mandatory reading for every ggd member. 

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Healed My Heart

Thank you for sharing this, I think your post shows great empathy and personal growth and Gaga would be proud of you! :hug: So glad to hear your sister is doing well now

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Thank you for this beautiful message. I agree this is definitely Gaga’s message all the time to be loving and kind towards one another. Thank you for sharing this with us. ❤️

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Stephen

We need more mature fans like you! There’s nothing wrong with making mistakes, we all learn from them. I wish you and your family health and love :heart: 

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Chromatica Island

This is why I've learned to be patient and not jump to conclusions about people, especially celebrities I stan, it can become toxic. Also, I'm glad your sister is ok! :heart:

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HausOfAntonio

I think our times make it way too easy for us to let someone’s social media engagement, or lack thereof, influence how we ultimately perceive them when we start believing that they owe us accountability for the time they are not online. I hope we can learn through this that no one owes anyone an explanation for not sharing their lives online and that its perfectly ok to keep personal stuff out of social media, that its also ok to take a step back without that having to jeopardise one’s integrity to their community. 

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Sarah H

This is a mature and good post in response to hearing what Gaga has been through. Glad your sister is okay now :heart:

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Doily Skull

We need more of this on this cult forum when it comes to critiquing Chromatica. Thank you for sharing this. ❤️

~staying stupid through my holy days~
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