Beatboom 948 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 4 minutes ago, ModernEcstasy said: I do believe that Gaga is suffering mentally. In which case, it is fine to not want to release content/ promote etc. However, I do feel that having millions of fans worldwide (some of whom look up to her like a hero), waiting on her every move should push her to want to acknowledge the end of Chromatica. It literally takes seconds to put out a few sentences and end people’s misery. It’s being stuck in Limbo that frustrates me. I understand that she has her Demons. Many people do. She’s only human after all! PMSL "end people's misery" Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
melon 3,584 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 she realised you don’t have to live your life online and she’s better off for it, let her live her life show me to me please Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
tifffany 373 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 IMO, one of the biggest problems with stan culture is basing your identity, happiness, and mental/emotional health in a celebrity’s actions. Gaga is a human being first, and she should do what works best for her. If she releases a ton of new material and engages with us on social media a lot, cool! But if she decides to step back for whatever reason, that’s cool too... my life keeps on going, and yours should too. And when her new material does come out, you can decide if you want to support it. But it’s very dangerous to wrap so much of yourself in someone else’s action—constantly waiting to see what they’ll do, becoming emotionally affected by what they do or don’t do, letting their existence control your actions and emotions online and off. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
N a t h a n 701 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 She's said countless times she hates social media. She doesn't need to hold you hand through every holiday.. All y'all do it bitch about her and that she's not doing what you want her to at any given time. The woman said on the world stage that she has to take ANTI PSYCHOTICS like good lord give the woman a BREAK Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Karl 3,394 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 She might just want to keep her life private, Beyonce does it too, before social media this is how all pop stars were.. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
littlepotter 75,083 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 1 hour ago, March34th said: why are you using this word in a context that it doesn't apply to. please stop. gaslighting is verbal and emotional abuse to make a victim feel crazy or disconnected from reality when the abuser is trying to cover their own tracks of abuse or mistreatment. it doesn't apply to someone in a fandom posting their opinion on a forum and having opposing opinions come back to them. For sure it was probably an extreme word to use but I was referring to the general sense of questioning someone's sanity or perception of a situation and invalidating their feelings. chaeri pls Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
FentyGa 14,340 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 lowkey agree, and i’m glad you put it respectfully. some people would just bash her straight up. also her not posting anything about sophie comes off a lil insensitive, considering how quick she was to post about zombie boy’s passing but hey Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ModernEcstasy 8,998 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 25 minutes ago, Beatboom said: PMSL "end people's misery" Yep. Because believe it or not, no matter how u feel about it, some other people suffer with mental health. Some of those people use their hobbies/Heroes/Inspiration as a way to escape life and not have to deal with the real world. Especially during a year long pandamic whilst being stuck at home. Wanting to know if her album era has ended (after telling us she had lots of surprises to share) is not a lot to ask for (I just want to say I’m not trying to start an argument. This is just how I see it) Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarlet Bitch 862 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 let’s be honest this fanbase has turned into toxic waste and i understand her for „ignoring“ us... i feel so sorry for her, she’s out there spreading kindness and we‘re out there on social media bullying other fandoms or even artists, she deserves better 𝔱𝔥𝔦𝔰 𝔦𝔰 𝔪𝔶 𝔡𝔞𝔫𝔠𝔢 𝔣𝔩𝔬𝔬𝔯, 𝔦 𝔣𝔬𝔲𝔤𝔥𝔱 𝔣𝔬𝔯 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
BabylonSaints 5,189 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 Sometimes, I'm glad she's not on social media most of the time. A handful of you truly don't deserve her. Look, I love, and miss her too, but I accept that she's not gonna be on all the time. Do you guys remember that bond she used to have with us, and how it affected her during the ARTPOP era? How LM's we're being overly toxic to her? I don't blame her for not being on as much as she used to, and good GRIEF, let the woman grieve on her own terms. She's done the same thing for people she's close to. Hell, I do it too. It takes me a little while to process everything Saw your face and mine in a picture by our bedside🎧 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
rasclautmangos 2,746 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 45 minutes ago, Sarah H said: Spot on IMO Some fans act like she doesn't care about them but do they *really* care about her? They certainly don't act like they do with all their moaning. I'm wondering if this is common behavior when people get too involved with entertainers, or if this is unique to Gaga fandom and the type of fans she attracts? Gaga isn't the only artist who lays relatively low and doesn't stress over social media. People express disappointent and want things from others, Rhianna for example whom I also follow, but the tone is much different for the most part. It's very rare that they attack, for lack of a better word, her personality. There's very little comparing/hyping up other artists to spite her. Very few attacks on her team, the live I saw of Sarah with tears in her eyes and having to address haters in the comments a few months back was unacceptable. Something just isn't right here. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
dynamite 58,650 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 Spend 10 minutes on Twitter or Instagram and you'll see why she's not as involved as she used to be. Like a poem said by a neydy in red Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harry Kat 10,022 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 4 hours ago, YourEvilTwin said: Well, if I had to suffer through 12 years of bitching and moaning just like this, I'd hate my fans too. Well Said Sorry for saying it, but this fanbase is full of ungrateful b*****s . Also the majority of them are 15-20 years old so .. They don't have other problems it seems.. It's so irritating seeing comments like this all the time! Beyonce is not social active either but I don't see her fans dragging her to the pits for whatever she does or she doesn't! Of course we can't like everything Gaga does or says but this kind of complains are so immature. We live in a very difficult period, Gaga did so many things for COVID, BLM and other major things and in the same time she released an album, 3 music videos, performed a medley on VMA's, the national anthem on inauguration day, she was heavily involved on American elections, she released haus labs products, she is taking part in movies, basically she did everything in the last 12 months, and the only things that you see is people moaning and acting like 'OMG she doesn't promote her album, she doesn't release a SC video, we need a new single, she doesn't love us, she didn't say Merry Christmas, she doesn't care about us' etc! Get a life and move on! Grow up! She is the same passionate woman that she will continue to speak with her music but not only through this! As you are growing up you change as a person and you have different priorities in your life! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
StressedOut 653 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 We literally have no source of information that gave us any reason to believe they were close. All that was known is that they supposedly worked on some material and it didn't come out. Y'all just make stuff up now I guess... I can somewhat understand the other stuff in OP's post, but gaga has been like this on social media for a while now, it might be jarring, but it's better for her. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
nodandsmile 10,514 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 the only one you have to blame are some of her fans... if you are displeased, you can express yourself in a respectful manner (the way you did!) so that people will be more willing to listen to you respect goes both ways, you cannot be talking to people in whichever manner you want and expect them to be willing to exchange with you and you cannot force grown folks to share anything on the internet... if they do, they do and if they don't you'll have to respect their distance!!! being rude to her friends and partners who most probably will tell her about us doesn't help... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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