PartySick 159,824 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 6 minutes ago, E Z said: Being an âaccessible divaâ got her a lot of backlash. You know what the reality is? When she got close to her fans on social media, she realized a lot of people online are rotten. I donât blame her for taking several steps back. 100%. She didn't become cold, she just decided to put her own mental health ahead of online stans' need for attention. đ¸Flourishing and vibrantđź Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jed 7,716 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 Honestly shes doing a lot of you a favor. It seems like a huge chunk of you are using her as a pacifier and its time to wean off of it.  Her taking time to herself during a dark time and you all find ways to make yourselves victims. âWow she really has abandoned usâ i mean so much of this fanbase has this permanent victim mentality...  take this time to grow and find other interests and other hobbies. Not another singular diva to take the role of avatar/best friend/mother but a group of different artists and interests that occupy your time. Its become abundantly clear too many of you never learned to do that in 2014 when cheek to cheek came out and its showing now. Worst part is i think people ten years from now will still be whining about this. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jed 7,716 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 8 minutes ago, Poltergeist said: Sadly I share similar feelings. I miss the connection I've used to feel with her, like she was a friend. And I was also hoping for her to pay respects to Sophie. Maybe she did privately, maybe she didn't. It just felt like a right thing to do Not everyones grieving has to be performative and to your satisfaction. How gross to even bring that up and even in the slightest way try and paint her that way. I know you didnt mean it in a major way but god i just find that gross. A persons dead and somehow someone finds a way to use it to make a point of gaga not doing something. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
LilyLark 10,095 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 Good lord. Sis Ariana, Bey, Lana, etc. all have similar "relationships" with their fans. Taylor Swift barely interacted for a couple of years. Gaga's not doing anything out of the ordinary. In fact, her "oversharing" in the past might have been part of the problem as it helped foster a really toxic element in particular with this fanbase. Also, there's zero evidence Gaga was close to Sophie or even knew her well. She worked on a few tracks for Chromatica that didn't make the cut; that doesn't meant they were close. Maybe they were, but there's no evidence pointing towards that...h*ll there's more evidence of Gaga being close to Beyonce than Sophie. Even if they were close, some people feel uncomfortable expressing grief on social media & handle this sort of thing privately. Plus, there are some people who were closeâor at least appeared to be close to Sophieâwho haven't commented at all. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
SlipAway 880 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 I get what youâre saying but itâs like... Sheâs in her mid-30s. She wants to start a family and cooking dinners for her boo, ainât no motha monster no more. Gaga outgrew the stanning culture and yâall should too. Also years of harassing her, her family members, her staff etc etc on social media over dumbest things probably wasnât the best idea Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 that's because she comes here sometimes. I guess. shall I say 'tea' ? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naak Le Vaar 1,222 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 I don't think Gaga lives on the internet like some people do. I just remember how she posted her Halloween pictures days after Halloween is over. She's busy and needs time for herself and family. If she has heard of Sophie's death Gaga is prob processing her emotions. Some people quickly go to Twitter to share their sadness, some do the opposite. Who knows? Lmao they blocked my signature Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
SlipAway 880 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 13 minutes ago, Poltergeist said: And I was also hoping for her to pay respects to Sophie. Maybe she did privately, maybe she didn't. It just felt like a right thing to do Yeah... stuff like this probably plays some part too Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Poltergeist 3,596 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 2 minutes ago, Jed said: Not everyones grieving has to be performative and to your satisfaction. How gross to even bring that up and even in the slightest way try and paint her that way. I know you didnt mean it in a major way but god i just find that gross. A persons dead and somehow someone finds a way to use it to make a point of gaga not doing something. You're reaching too much. I just said I agree with the person who started the thread about Gaga being more distant than she used to be. The whole thing about Sophie is a different thing, I just said I thought she'd say any kind words about her, not that I require her to do so. It's such a tragedy and I don't connect it with the rest. I've been getting messages from my deep waters Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
 littlepotter 75,083 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 Sorry people here are trying to gaslight you. You're allowed to feel sad about it. chaeri pls Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jed 7,716 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 Just now, SlipAway said: I get what youâre saying but itâs like... Sheâs in her mid-30s. She wants to start a family and cooking dinners for her boo, ainât no motha monster no more. Gaga outgrew the stanning culture and yâall should too. Also years of harassing her, her family members, her staff etc etc on social media over dumbest things probably wasnât the best idea Literally harassing her team to a point that they cant even post work they are proud of because of constant criticism. Richy has to turn comments off on his choreo videos and sarah has to deal with all this bs just for trying to make us happy. And its too large a chunk of people who complain for people to say its only a small subsection anymore. Its an incredibly loud part of our base that no matter the size drowns out most other comments.  worst part? The people who leave and dont post as much are the positive people because they get fed up with having to read complaints. Literally the first page of every thread whether its HL, Oreos, or even just another artist theres instant negativity. Who the hell would want to engage with that? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jose P 23,341 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 Girl why does her publicly expressing her grief over Sophieâs death make her âcoldâ and âdistantâ? What exactly does she achieve by posting about it on social media? You said it yourself, everyone deals with it differently. Not even one of Sophieâs biggest collaborators, Charli XCX, has posted about Sophie. But oh, she needs to make a post so that her fans are satisfied bc they need concrete proof that sheâs grieving. What sad life it must be to have your fans pester you to publicly express your feelings over everything on social media. âOH WHY ARENT YOU COMMENTING ON THAT DOES THIS MEAN YOU DONT CAREâ So annoying. And why do yâall need a Merry Christmas tweet from an artist, are yâall children? The relationship between Gaga and LMs is so toxic and clingy. I guess itâs cute when youâre like 13 or sumn. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
PartySick 159,824 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 I personally find it really sad that people can't just chill out for a bit. You all wonder why Gaga doesn't get online unless she's got something to promote? Look at what you guys post sometimes Blackpink performs Sour Candy and over half the thread is Gaga's FANS calling her "lazy", saying she doesn't care, her career is over, she only cares about money, she's greedy, etc. I wouldn't want to talk to some of y'all either The fact is she's an amazing person and she doesn't deserve the flack she gets from her fans. She's a human being. Let her live her life and go live your own lives. Let your paths cross hers when it's appropriate, don't demand to invade her space or slander her when she picks another direction. She deserves our respect. This isn't so much geared towards the OP or anyone in particular, just a general annoyance with the attitudes lately. đ¸Flourishing and vibrantđź Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naak Le Vaar 1,222 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 1 minute ago, littlepotter said: Sorry people here are trying to gaslight you. You're allowed to feel sad about it. People aren't gaslighting the OP. That's not at all what gaslighting is. People are giving their perspective is all. Lmao they blocked my signature Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
GRIMEZSZ 3,305 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 14 minutes ago, Jed said: Honestly shes doing a lot of you a favor. It seems like a huge chunk of you are using her as a pacifier and its time to wean off of it.  Her taking time to herself during a dark time and you all find ways to make yourselves victims. âWow she really has abandoned usâ i mean so much of this fanbase has this permanent victim mentality...  take this time to grow and find other interests and other hobbies. Not another singular diva to take the role of avatar/best friend/mother but a group of different artists and interests that occupy your time. Its become abundantly clear too many of you never learned to do that in 2014 when cheek to cheek came out and its showing now. Worst part is i think people ten years from now will still be whining about this. omg girl yes. I really i don't understand the necessity of this people about Gaga. I'm a fan since i was nine and I'm twenty two now, is a big journey but i have hobbies, a real life, when I'm boring i watch series or Rupaul idk. I think is such a problematic issue being so obsessed about what Gaga need to do as if she was a robot just for entertainment. She have a life too, shes human, why people don't understand that. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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