Gaga seems cold/aloof

[Karen Smith 10,026]

I chose the worst time to join this fanbase. I'm just feel bad that she didn't wish us merry Xmas or didn't say anything. It's sad that I can't be sure if she wants to promote her material. Except her I only stan Miley, and wth her I know she will, with Gaga I have to find proofs that she wants to. It's exhausting. 

[FentyGa 14,340]

40 minutes ago, Meraki said:

gaga doesn't have to tweet about sophie. why does gaga have to tweet about someone's death when she could send flowers to their family and friends? her outlook has probably changed and/or she may have taken some time to mourn SOPHIE before posting anything. she's not insensitive, ffs.

i just said it comes off insensitive, but cool

you can disagree without causing an issue

[GRIMEZSZ 3,294]

1 hour ago, rasclautmangos said:

I'm wondering if this is common behavior when people get too involved with entertainers, or if this is unique to Gaga fandom and the type of fans she attracts? Gaga isn't the only artist who lays relatively low and doesn't stress over social media.

People express disappointent and want things from others, Rhianna for example whom I also follow, but the tone is much different for the most part. 

It's very rare that they attack, for lack of a better word, her personality.

There's very little comparing/hyping up other artists to spite her.

Very few attacks on her team, the live I saw of Sarah with tears in her eyes and having to address haters in the comments a few months back was unacceptable. 

Something just isn't right here. 

 

And is very problematic you know, this obsessed behavior is indeed something to go to therapy. Some people are a little disconnect of reality, this kind of obsession about and artist is unhealthy and danger, look at John Lennon or Gianni Versace. 

 

[Lemondeduerl 3,239]

It's obvious that she has become more introverted all this years, specially after ARTPOP. Also stan twitter doesn't help at all. Anyways some people need to stop think celebrities share everything  on social media. They have private conversations or accounts too. 

[Beatboom 948]

1 hour ago, Harry Kat said:

Well Said 

Sorry for saying it, but this fanbase is full of ungrateful b*****s . Also the majority of them are 15-20 years old so .. They don't have other problems it seems.. It's so irritating seeing comments like this all the time! Beyonce is not social active either but I don't see her fans dragging her to the pits for whatever she does or she doesn't! Of course we can't like everything Gaga does or says but this kind of complains are so immature. We live in a very difficult period, Gaga did so many things for COVID, BLM and other major things and in the same time she released an album, 3 music videos, performed a medley on VMA's, the national anthem on inauguration day, she was heavily involved on American elections, she released haus labs products, she is taking part in movies, basically she did everything in the last 12 months, and the only things that you see is people moaning and acting like 'OMG she doesn't promote her album, she doesn't release a SC video, we need a new single, she doesn't love us, she didn't say Merry Christmas, she doesn't care about us' etc! Get a life and move on! Grow up! She is the same passionate woman that she will continue to speak with her music but not only through this! As you are growing up you change as a person and you have different priorities in your life! 

That's the issue. Gaga grew up. Her stans didn't. She wants to make a difference in the world and outside of the toxic echo chamber of her stans she is so respected and admired. 

 

I think a part of some LMs feel jealous that she isn't their weird pop alien any more. Are they really 15-20? The most toxic ones I have seen are usually 25-40 y/o gay men. 

 

I'd also say to anybody reading this to call out those fan pages that drag her for clout. Feel free to DM me if y'all aren't sure of names. Unfollow and report them. I can't stress this enough. I've gotten tweets and accounts deleted. Twitter is a lot stricter than it used to be and these accounts get too brave sometimes. 

[Beatboom 948]

17 minutes ago, FentyGa said:

i just said it comes off insensitive, but cool

you can disagree without causing an issue

Or she didn't want to take the spotlight from industry friends who were much closer to her. 

[rasclautmangos 2,746]

20 minutes ago, Sepsami said:

Exactly, they pretend to care about her as long as she gives them something to "yaaas queen" or fingerwave over  it's disgustingly self-centered.

It's sad really. 

I know Gaga is the one who wanted fame. I know she's rich, super privileged, etc. but she's still human. 

I'm glad she's broadening her horizons and gaining new fans. If she loses the toxic, co dependent ones then so be it. You don't owe her anything either, spend your money and time elsewhere.

[Zilla 13,346]

.....why should she use social media when some of her fans decide to berate her and be extremely rude to her acting like she won't see it? Said people helped her mental health get this bad and they don't seem to care or acknowledge that their words hurt.

Her not sharing something =/=not caring. She's better off not using social media as much because some of the stuff I have seen is so vile and disgusting ESPECIALLY on twitter. She cares her not posting doesn't mean she doesn't, there's just this thing that people expect her to say something and over the years we were used to her talking to us so much and stuff like that and that's not the case anymore. I wish she would say something especially if it was someone she worked with, but it's not in her contract, it's not required, and maybe she told something to the family or friends behind the scenes or something like that. You know, how she sends flowers to people and they post the pics etc. 

You don't know what's going on in her life so it's extremely naive to think that you have any inkling. Just throwing it out there, not attacking anybody at all but unless you have ESP (or ESPN) you know nothing at all.  

 

[MOT 2,779]

I doubt if Gaga is cold or aloof, but I'm just a fan at the end of the day, so it's none of my business.

[Miel 15,009]

I’m not a fan of her continued distancing, but I honestly get it. 
 

I think she realized more of what she values regarding her personal space and her private life. It’s probably really good for her, personally, and has not affected her professionally.

 

That said, I personally think it’s made her quite boring of an artist comparative to how engaged and involved she was a decade ago. Not necessarily a bad thing- we have to realize that she’s never going to be the same artist, and that’s fine. 
 

She grew up and out of certain interests, as did I. It needs to be as simple as that for fans.

[BabylonSaints 5,055]

22 minutes ago, FentyGa said:

i just said it comes off insensitive, but cool

you can disagree without causing an issue

Let her grieve on her own terms, ffs  If she was "insensitive", she wouldn't be doing things to help other people, would she?

[Edu 3,799]

Social media can take a toll on your mental health but literally ever other artist under the sun tries to stay connected with their fans.

 

The people that are still defending Gaga for being absent in the midst of an album era need to be reminded that she used to pride herself on being the queen of Twitter. 

[mightyriverz 2,037]

i won't judge her for not commenting on Sophie yet, cause even Charli who's collabed with her so many times for yearsssss is still silent about it as well

[BlondeQueenOfGGD 25,454]

1 minute ago, Edu said:

Social media can take a toll on your mental health but literally ever other artist under the sun tries to stay connected with their fans.

 

The people that are still defending Gaga for being absent in the midst of an album era need to be reminded that she used to pride herself on being the queen of Twitter. 

She was like 23 when she said that 

[Edu 3,799]

Just now, Justin Drew Bieber said:

She was like 23 when she said that 

Your point?