BUtterfield 8 41,506 Posted October 20, 2020 Author Share Posted October 20, 2020 15 hours ago, alicefromabove said: Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Runway 27,876 Posted October 20, 2020 Share Posted October 20, 2020 When I suck a guy and they don’t **** me, i definitely do not feel like i had real sex Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
DenDenTired 1,126 Posted October 20, 2020 Share Posted October 20, 2020 I’ve eaten out a girl and had sex with her but I’m gay AF. Experimenting with a gender doesn’t change your actual orientation Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheOriginalOne 10,907 Posted October 20, 2020 Share Posted October 20, 2020 but did he swallow? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Born This Way 1,812 Posted October 20, 2020 Share Posted October 20, 2020 4 hours ago, Dukttapetoo said: It's not just your idea, it's the way most straight people think too, and it invalidates gay sex. It goes back to that tired, outdated "which one is the man/woman?" and "how do lesbians have sex?" line of thought where there needs to be penile penetration to constitute a sexual encounter as valid in their minds. I knew someone would come at me with this lol. I'm literally saying what I feel and what I think in my mind for myself only and no one else. I am gay and I don't really count ME giving or receiving blow jobs as ME having sex with somebody, in MY case, a man. What I would like to think as ME having sex is ME having an*l sex and ME either topping or bottoming (I've never done it so idk which I'd prefer.) I am aware that this isn't how a lot of people feel and I'm fine with it. I was just saying that I related someone else's perspective. I don't need or appreciate you or anyone trying to invalidate me and lump me in with homophobic straight people who think lesbians can't have sex or that a gay man's worth is based on if he's the one penetrating during an*l sex or not. And I definitely don't need you or anyone to start saying some bullsh*t about how my personal feelings about myself, and no one else, are some weird internalized homophobia or toxic masculinity. Because I f***ing promise you, it really isn't that for me. So step off, sis. Run run with her top down baby she flies Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
27monster27 13,465 Posted October 20, 2020 Share Posted October 20, 2020 21 hours ago, TimisaMonster said: Oral sex...isn't sex apparently I have actually talked to quite a few people that believe this. he/him/his Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chlorine 47,976 Posted October 20, 2020 Share Posted October 20, 2020 I'm a virgin in the biblical sense. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
TimisaMonster 31,073 Posted October 20, 2020 Share Posted October 20, 2020 1 hour ago, 27monster27 said: I have actually talked to quite a few people that believe this. Yes...same here unfortunately Stream my new single, 💜"Heartbeat"💜, on Spotify! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
PsychoMaxcara 814 Posted October 20, 2020 Share Posted October 20, 2020 Ok so I thought I'm pretty confident as far as my stance on what constitutes sexual intercourse and what doesn't is concerned and it takes one thread to make me utterly confused. Since when is oral sex not sex? He treats the whole thing as if he was just fooling around with a BFF like all naughty straight boys do when he legit had another guy go down on him and the whole nine yards. GIRL. A M E S S . Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Contessa 1,879 Posted October 20, 2020 Share Posted October 20, 2020 22 hours ago, Kimmo said: With a strap on? Those are usually huge and thic He just outdid all the gheys This is my time to shine. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sneaky Oliver 22,226 Posted October 20, 2020 Share Posted October 20, 2020 14 minutes ago, PsychoMaxcara said: Ok so I thought I'm pretty confident as far as my stance on what constitutes sexual intercourse and what doesn't is concerned and it takes one thread to make me utterly confused don't be confused, baby. I guess sex is whatever we want it to be. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
vanna shintuyu 10,833 Posted October 20, 2020 Share Posted October 20, 2020 4 hours ago, Born This Way said: I knew someone would come at me with this lol. I'm literally saying what I feel and what I think in my mind for myself only and no one else. I am gay and I don't really count ME giving or receiving blow jobs as ME having sex with somebody, in MY case, a man. What I would like to think as ME having sex is ME having an*l sex and ME either topping or bottoming (I've never done it so idk which I'd prefer.) I am aware that this isn't how a lot of people feel and I'm fine with it. I was just saying that I related someone else's perspective. I don't need or appreciate you or anyone trying to invalidate me and lump me in with homophobic straight people who think lesbians can't have sex or that a gay man's worth is based on if he's the one penetrating during an*l sex or not. And I definitely don't need you or anyone to start saying some bullsh*t about how my personal feelings about myself, and no one else, are some weird internalized homophobia or toxic masculinity. Because I f***ing promise you, it really isn't that for me. So step off, sis. Jesus Christ. I'm sorry the slightest bit of information to the contrary of what you're saying makes you react like this. That must be an exhausting life. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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