Ronk 14,089 Posted September 20, 2020 Share Posted September 20, 2020 5 minutes ago, Spanish Eyes said: I've always wondered how I would approach her if I saw her in person. After seeing this, I probably would only say hello, pay a compliment, and leave her alone. No cameras, no asking for photos. Just a quick show of appreciation for how she's helped me as a human and artist.  If she's with her family, then, I think we should all highly re-think if we want to "make things about her." This clearly bothers her. Exactly.  She is so much about helping others. Imo it's important that she knows that her efforts actually work.  It's important that people inform her that she hasn't been shouting into the wind all these years, but her messages have been heard and she has actually changed people's lives.   And like any person, she needs to know she is loved. Not just the music and entertainment, but she, the person, is loved. I live outside the space time continuum. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hybrid AT 78 Posted September 20, 2020 Share Posted September 20, 2020 1 hour ago, Spanish Eyes said: I've always wondered how I would approach her if I saw her in person. After seeing this, I probably would only say hello, pay a compliment, and leave her alone. No cameras, no asking for photos. Just a quick show of appreciation for how she's helped me as a human and artist.  If she's with her family, then, I think we should all highly re-think if we want to "make things about her." This clearly bothers her. I don't think asking for a picture is entirely unfair, especially for people who have been her admirers for a long time and consider her their role model, but "Hey Gaga, I love you, can I take a quick picture?" shouldn't be the first thing that comes out of your (in general) mouth when you meet her. Like, ask her first about how she's doing, how she's feeling lately, give her a hug(ask her for that too first, obviously), try to have an open and honest conversation and then in the end, ask for a picture if you want. Then if she is comfortable and okay with it, do it. Don't just shove your phone already in her face so she doesn't know what else to do but to oblige to your demand. As for personal spaces, I agree. When she's clearly trying to be present in the moment with her loved ones and making a sincere attempt to shed off the "megastar" status for a while, fans invading her personal space and making it about her, reminding her again that she can't just be left alone in peace with her loved ones, that's awful. Don't do it. "I was protected by the monks of Azarath, I was raised by my friends. They are my family, this is my home and you are not welcome here." Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
GreenDiamond 6,286 Posted September 20, 2020 Share Posted September 20, 2020 2 hours ago, ShesAMess said: but who is this this is a KI of the century Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sister 9,907 Posted September 20, 2020 Share Posted September 20, 2020 I Love her, so happy that she bounced back from all of that and hope that she feels better and continues to feel better. Maybe this pandemic gave her a needed break too, from the stress of being "Lady Gaga" and she will be strong and ready for her tour when the time gets here. We all need a break sometimes and personal space. I can't imagine random people coming up to me everywhere and shoving a phone in my face at random. I would hate that too. The future's uncertain and the end is always near. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Franch Toast 25,246 Posted September 20, 2020 Share Posted September 20, 2020 45 minutes ago, Spanish Eyes said: I've always wondered how I would approach her if I saw her in person. After seeing this, I probably would only say hello, pay a compliment, and leave her alone. No cameras, no asking for photos. Just a quick show of appreciation for how she's helped me as a human and artist.  If she's with her family, then, I think we should all highly re-think if we want to "make things about her." This clearly bothers her. I haven't seen her in the wild, only in a formal M&G, but I saw several of her team members milling around the Park MGM and the Nomad when I was in Vegas. I didn't approach any of them. I thought about it, but they were hanging out and relaxing, and it didn't seem fair to approach them during their down time. My sister and I also ran into Sarah when we were walking into the Nomad and she was walking out, holding an item of dry cleaning, and we just smiled at her and went about our way. I kind of regret not telling Sarah how much I love Haus Labs, especially Glam Attacks, but I'm also glad I just let her be. I really don't know what I would do if I saw Gaga though. I think you only know what you'll do when the moment arises. She/Her/Hers Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
steven 4,373 Posted September 20, 2020 Share Posted September 20, 2020 Being from Canada, I can't watch the interview Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Galactic Mess 1,393 Posted September 20, 2020 Share Posted September 20, 2020 So inspirational Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ziggy 10,379 Posted September 20, 2020 Share Posted September 20, 2020 1 hour ago, Spanish Eyes said: I've always wondered how I would approach her if I saw her in person. After seeing this, I probably would only say hello, pay a compliment, and leave her alone. No cameras, no asking for photos. Just a quick show of appreciation for how she's helped me as a human and artist.  If she's with her family, then, I think we should all highly re-think if we want to "make things about her." This clearly bothers her. Or just like ask for directions some place since home slice wants that normal human interaction Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
NewUsername 10,338 Posted September 20, 2020 Share Posted September 20, 2020 Thought the interview was going to be a bit longer. As @elijahfan said, it's hard to watch. I hope she indeed feels better now and feels all the love her close ones and we send her and most of all her self love. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Creyk 16,836 Posted September 20, 2020 Share Posted September 20, 2020 When I met her I simply just told her that Heavy Metal Lover should have been a single. I guess I count as one of the better fans now. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
mattbri 1,332 Posted September 20, 2020 Share Posted September 20, 2020 Being creative is so f painful ... relatable queen Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
TimisaMonster 31,073 Posted September 20, 2020 Share Posted September 20, 2020 3 hours ago, ShesAMess said: but who is this Thx I thought I was the only one... Stream my new single, đ"Heartbeat"đ, on Spotify! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hebi 13,928 Posted September 20, 2020 Share Posted September 20, 2020 Aww it felt so short, there's too many things to talk about And that mistaken picture of her... was disrespectful Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
francescobrunetti 22 Posted September 20, 2020 Share Posted September 20, 2020 3 hours ago, ShesAMess said: This! And do fans still not understand that she would probably like to have an actual conversation with them if everybody were not just taking pictures and screaming at her I once saw this video from star is born era where she was leaving but the fans were so nice and calm that she stayed even tho she seemed super tired we could all do better Well, instead of hugging her or kindly talk to her, fans should completely resist to do anything. In my opinion, it's not only the problem with cameras; imagine being hugged by someone you don't know, even if he/she kindly introduces him/herself first saying things like: 'I'm your biggest fan, you saved my life!'. At the end of the day we don't know her, and if she's out for whatever reason we should not bother her at all because we don't know if she's like stressed/pissed off or whaever. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShesAMess 1,560 Posted September 20, 2020 Share Posted September 20, 2020 7 minutes ago, francescobrunetti said: Well, instead of hugging her or kindly talk to her, fans should completely resist to do anything. In my opinion, it's not only the problem with cameras; imagine being hugged by someone you don't know, even if he/she kindly introduces him/herself first saying things like: 'I'm your biggest fan, you saved my life!'. At the end of the day we don't know her, and if she's out for whatever reason we should not bother her at all because we don't know if she's like stressed/pissed off or whaever. Well I donât really agree with this. I would say that there are times when she should be left alone for example when she is with her family but if you happened to see her in other situations I donât see why you couldnât go and briefly talk to her and give her a hug if itâs okay with her. She has actually been many times the one to hug her fans first so I donât think that this statement meant that now she hopes that no fans ever come anywhere near her unless itâs a concert or something Free my mind, ARTPOP Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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