Suspiria 10,683 Posted July 8, 2020 Share Posted July 8, 2020 1 hour ago, xoxo Craig said: I mean... thats pretty low if that really is someones life Sis don't you post shirtless selfies? For some people taking and sharing pictures of themselves makes them feel good. Some people feel good all dressed up, others like being revealing/provocative. There's really not much difference between the two, and certainly neither is "lower" than the other. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
xoxo Craig 55,649 Posted July 9, 2020 Author Share Posted July 9, 2020 2 hours ago, Knife said: You can believe that if you'd like, but that doesn't make that any less valid of an expression of sexuality, and it certainly doesn't mean that person is lacking in self-respect. That's a pretty judgmental assumption to make. That's also the same line of thinking that demonizes a woman who wear revealing clothes or expresses themselves sexually. ~Good, moral women aren't supposed to do that.~ At the end of the day, if you're more worried about how you're perceived by straight people than living your best gay life, you're doing something wrong. Okay but straight people don't do that you don't see straight men or women being sexually proactive at every chance you get. I just don't see how being naked or showing nudity/being a hoe is "living your best gay life". You can be gay and fabulous in clothes and off hook up apps. Being LGBTQ+ isn't an excuse to flaunt your body parts in a suggestive way. Thats playing into sex and hook up culture, which is fine if you want to take part in that... but its not an expression of sexuality in terms of gay straight bisexual etc. It just means you're sexually active. End Racism Now Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
xoxo Craig 55,649 Posted July 9, 2020 Author Share Posted July 9, 2020 1 hour ago, Suspiria said: Sis don't you post shirtless selfies? For some people taking and sharing pictures of themselves makes them feel good. Some people feel good all dressed up, others like being revealing/provocative. There's really not much difference between the two, and certainly neither is "lower" than the other. I don't JUST post shirtless selfies, but thats nothing to do with what we are talking about the equivalent would be if I just posted selfies in boxers or something that left nothing to the imagination. Being shirtless is not expression of sexuality, nor is it showing nudity or being sexually provocative. For some people, their whole personality centers around being sexually provocative and/or posting selfies with barely anything on... and I think thats shallow and pretty boring. End Racism Now Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Illuminati Freak 2,432 Posted July 9, 2020 Share Posted July 9, 2020 4 hours ago, Bonkers said: The gays come for Karen I am living for this queen! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suspiria 10,683 Posted July 9, 2020 Share Posted July 9, 2020 8 hours ago, xoxo Craig said: I don't JUST post shirtless selfies, but thats nothing to do with what we are talking about the equivalent would be if I just posted selfies in boxers or something that left nothing to the imagination. Being shirtless is not expression of sexuality, nor is it showing nudity or being sexually provocative. For some people, their whole personality centers around being sexually provocative and/or posting selfies with barely anything on... and I think thats shallow and pretty boring. I don't know anyone who JUST posts nudes lmao. Why do you post shirtless selfies? Because it helps you feel good about yourself. You are comfortable with your body. And that's great! There are other people who get that same feeling from showing their ass or whatever. And you are saying some people's "whole personality" revolves around being provocative because they post nudes, you are the one being shallow. You are making a judgement about their "whole personality" based on a few photos they've posted online. You clearly don't know these people and are just making shallow judgements about them based on pictures, when everyone obviously has a life in the real world... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
xoxo Craig 55,649 Posted July 9, 2020 Author Share Posted July 9, 2020 20 minutes ago, Suspiria said: I don't know anyone who JUST posts nudes lmao. Why do you post shirtless selfies? Because it helps you feel good about yourself. You are comfortable with your body. And that's great! There are other people who get that same feeling from showing their ass or whatever. And you are saying some people's "whole personality" revolves around being provocative because they post nudes, you are the one being shallow. You are making a judgement about their "whole personality" based on a few photos they've posted online. You clearly don't know these people and are just making shallow judgements about them based on pictures, when everyone obviously has a life in the real world... Well... you'd be suprised. I don't post shirtless selfies to help me feel good at all. Infact, most of my social media is not of shirtless selfies. I don't really care about it, its not something I need validation on... unlike people who's lives revolve around posting selfies with nothing on but their boxers. If I've worked hard in the gym and I saw "the gains" I'd post about it... but thats not to make me feel good. That to help people get inspired. I'm not being shallow. People who live two lives (i.e real life versus instagram life) are being shallow. Literally in everything I do on social media does reflect me as a person. And I look at other people the same way. Its true, I won't know what someone is like until I meet them. But people would be lying if they didn't make assumptions about people based on what they put out on the Internet before you meet them. If all I'm seeing is pictures of them in underwear, being sexually suggestive, even having OnlyFans, then that tells me that they all they want is a good image for themselves, a good image to be popular with other people, they want sex out of life and nothing more, and that they just want to be another selfless image for people to look at. They care about what other people think of them, and seek validation in people telling them how good they look. That, to me, is shallow. There's no personality there. If I was on Tinder and I saw that, I wouldn't swipe right... there isn't a personality there or something that shows me them. People who aren't being real or authentic, and only being fake for the attention and validation of others is shallow to me. End Racism Now Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
roshogullu 1,415 Posted July 9, 2020 Share Posted July 9, 2020 ok but i live for that little happy dance towards the end lmao Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
MANiCURE 6 10,264 Posted July 9, 2020 Share Posted July 9, 2020 I can't with those Karen Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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