Katy telling her grandma that she's pregnant right before she died

[UnknownUser71 2,878]

So sad  

[GaGaAst 13,023]

11 minutes ago, JFK said:

My mother (her daughter) told me that she is ok with that and that they always kinda knew but I feel so freaking scared to make that phone call and even more scared to have this conversation live. 

It´s funny because I'm not the person that gives up on anything but in this situation I feel soooo broken. 

Don't feel sorry. At least I can live without having to lie to them which is much better than living a lie. 

 

That is how I came out to my mom "Hey, I know that our relationship is awful and that is because of me. I have been lying to you most of the life and did not let you come close but now I need your support with this and I need you to love me no matter what...". - it was hard for her to accept that but I kinda gave her ultimatum that she will be excluded from my life if she doesn't accept the fact I'm gay with a boyfriend and a dog. 

I am so sorry I read it otherwise. 

Don't feel sorry for yourself. You have to be strong and I know you are. But honestly it's too bad when your own family does that. Especially your mom not accepting you and need to give her ultimatum. My parents are too the same and I feel extremely sad. They will probably commit suicide if I say something like that to them. They are forcing me to marry a girl many times even though they know I am gay but are acting as if I am straight. Just because I haven't told them. Some parents are sometimes too egoistic and self centered. But life goes on. Don't worry life has always many beautiful moments and people to cherish for. Do call your grandparent unless it's too late. But don't expect her to be a kindness punk and get it out of your system if she says something hurtful. 

[TSUNAMI 21,018]

Just now, GaGaAst said:

I am so sorry I read it wrongly.

What did you read?

[Regina George 59,387]

7 minutes ago, JFK said:

My mother (her daughter) told me that she is ok with that and that they always kinda knew but I feel so freaking scared to make that phone call and even more scared to have this conversation live. 

It´s funny because I'm not the person that gives up on anything but in this situation I feel soooo broken. 

Don't feel sorry. At least I can live without having to lie to them which is much better than living a lie. 

 

That is how I came out to my mom "Hey, I know that our relationship is awful and that is because of me. I have been lying to you most of the life and did not let you come close but now I need your support with this and I need you to love me no matter what...". - it was hard for her to accept that but I kinda gave her ultimatum that she will be excluded from my life if she doesn't accept the fact I'm gay with a boyfriend and a dog. 

 

 

Btw, thank you for noticing this post, I didn't say anyone this and I feel like I'm gonna blow for 2 weeks (my last birthday) because she didnt call me. 

I know that you’re scared but I also know that you’re so ****ing strong because you and other gay guys and everyone from the community went through a lot of **** and you are still standing strong and proud. Do it for yourself. Make the call and tell her everything that you want to tell her. If she doesn’t accept you the way you are then you at least know you tried to make things better. It’s always better to try and fail than to wonder your whole life what would have happened if you did that. Sending you love! ❤️

[GaGaAst 13,023]

4 minutes ago, JFK said:

What did you read?

it was hard for her to accept that but I kinda gave her ultimatum that she will be excluded from my life if she doesn't accept the fact I'm gay with a boyfriend as a dog. 

Sorry I have this lazy habit of skimming over the text  real fast 

[TSUNAMI 21,018]

13 minutes ago, ReginaGeorge said:

I know that you’re scared but I also know that you’re so ****ing strong because you and other gay guys and everyone from the community went through a lot of **** and you are still standing strong and proud. Do it for yourself. Make the call and tell her everything that you want to tell her. If she doesn’t accept you the way you are then you at least know you tried to make things better. It’s always better to try and fail than to wonder your whole life what would have happened if you did that. Sending you love! ❤️

Thank you! I will need to find some strength to call her. 

But you are 100%. Nothing so bad can happen. 

12 minutes ago, GaGaAst said:

it was hard for her to accept that but I kinda gave her ultimatum that she will be excluded from my life if she doesn't accept the fact I'm gay with a boyfriend as a dog. 

Sorry I have this lazy habit of skimming over the text  real fast 

But my dog is a lady

[Smith 5,499]

i've never ever had a grandma, but i really hope katy will be okay. Rest in peace lady.

[Economy 49,860]

4 hours ago, ReginaGeorge said:

This broke my heart!  ''Do you remember me'' literally broke my heart

RIP grandma 

She looks like

 

[2School4Cool 6,449]

48 minutes ago, JFK said:

I have not spoke with my grandma for more than a year. She called me on my birthday a year ago and aske "Are you a fa**ot" and that broke my heart. 

I know I have to call her back to resolve this but I feel so ashamed and like I let her down. I really miss her and her support and Im thinking what if she dies and that was our last convo? 

 

I’m so so sorry. You did not let her down, I understand feeling sad and wishing things were different, but you have no reason to feel guilt or shame, you did nothing wrong. I hope you two can work things out 

[Sneaky Oliver 22,219]

Oh that broke my heart when she said Do you remember me? Because I was told my grandma could develop Alzheimer and forget about me and I love her so much so I cried like a baby. But that was 5+ years ago and she’s still doing well 

[HausOfMark 4,279]

This is just so sad.