My (kinda sad) Enigma experience

[LordEnigma 11,313]

All I would say is think of being Gaga or her team. You can’t please everyone and if you took the time to talk to every single person, you wouldn’t have any free time or personal time.

Idk, I get it’s exciting. BUT just put yourself in her/her teams place. I would be completely depressed and anxiety ridden as a celebrity and I’m glad I can go to work but go to Target/get groceries/unwind in complete peace and not be recognized by any and everyone.

[ANTI WP 19,799]

5 hours ago, KatieJudasGaga4 said:

Look, I know you feel bad, and its awful you experienced this, but I don't really get why you keep liking comments that imply this is Gaga's fault, when you even stated that it wasn't.

Thank go i am not the only one noticed that ... i back off ed supporting him  when i saw his instagram's description comment ...like tf ??? .. 

[Madling 1,981]

6 hours ago, AllThingsGaga said:

Don't feel bad. You deserved to be treated like a human being and you weren't. It makes me very sad to hear this. I would be devastated but you handled it with grace and dignity

And Gaga didn't deserve to be treated like a human being who just wasn't in the right mood to talk to fans? You have no idea what her feelings were. Some of you need to take your head out of the clouds. She set boundaries, they were crossed. If she caters to one fan then she opens up the door. Have some respect. We are all in charge of our own personal space and if it's invaded then we don't have to tolerate it. 

I'm clearly on a regular person scale but through my work I  know a lot of families in my local area, I work within a big team too. When I go to community events like a fair or fundraiser or even when I go to do a grocery shop I have people coming up to me all the time to say hi and have a chat. To the point where family members have gotten frustrated and joked said "Its like walking around with Oprah" 🙈. My husband often takes off on his own so he doesn't have to stop every few minutes 😅. It can be great, I like to see them most of the time. But there are times I just want to get on with the day and not have to be reminded of work stuff at the weekends. I've taken to wearing sunglasses and pretending I don't see people if they wave. Do I mean to be rude or hurt feelings? Of course not!!! But i have only so much patience and energy for small talk. I have to take some control of the situation. I give my work 100%. My weekends or evenings are mine. 

Now multiply that by a billion for Gaga or other superstars. I'm so glad she is setting boundaries. If she has children there will be even bigger boundaries in place, as there should be. Please respect that, or someday one of you will cause her to lose her cool and then watch you refuse to take responsibility for it. 

[Madling 1,981]

1 hour ago, ANTI WP said:

Thank go i am not the only one noticed that ... i back off ed supporting him  when i saw his instagram's description comment ...like tf ??? .. 

That picture made him look really annoying too. Trailing after her... Where's the dignity?? Take the hint. Yikes 

[KURUSHITOVSKA 20,442]

4 hours ago, Madling said:

That picture made him look really annoying too. Trailing after her... Where's the dignity?? Take the hint. Yikes 

Ayyy lmao you have no ****ong idea how the situation was. Stay pressed tho

[KURUSHITOVSKA 20,442]

5 hours ago, ANTI WP said:

Thank go i am not the only one noticed that ... i back off ed supporting him  when i saw his instagram's description comment ...like tf ??? .. 

Do you really think I care that much about what someone unknown to me thinks of me or smthn? I was just telling a story, not seeking of any approval or excusing myself. 

[KURUSHITOVSKA 20,442]

10 hours ago, KatieJudasGaga4 said:

Look, I know you feel bad, and its awful you experienced this, but I don't really get why you keep liking comments that imply this is Gaga's fault, when you even stated that it wasn't.

The fact that you actually bother to see what I like and what i don't... Girl i'm in L.A. do you think i'll spend the whole day liking everyones comments in here?

[brucee 1,690]

****, strangers took my picture already and it was really really like 'what the hell?!?!" this is a disturbing feeling when you're not ok for the camera to capture your image if you're sensitive with body dysmorphia of stuff.

People must at all cost forget the idea that what Gaga does is not her job. Makes us feel things, makes us all think we are her friends, that she owes us all her time and that she knows us like family blablabla.... This is her JOB ! Damn. We are the creep already for worshiping her like a goddess or our mother//. Open your eyes.

[Whispering 18,865]

On 10/27/2019 at 11:23 PM, KURUSHITOVSKA said:

 

I'm feeling  a bit sad about this whole thing because she's always like "fight for your dreams, they'll come true, be kind" but I was just about to make a dream come true and I know it wasn't the right time, but do I have to pay 3K to meet her? I've spent my whole year savings on this trip and it was completely worth it, but you know, with that spine stuck on my heart... 

 

From the Joanne Tour:

On March 11, 2018, KURUSHITOVSKA said:

“After a bit of time a white Audi approached and she was there. It stopped and they told us to make a line and stay quiet. Gaga rolled the window and started taking pictures with every one of us and signing for, not kidding, 20 minutes or so.
It was for sure the happiest moment of my life. I've been with her since Just Dance, since the very beginning, from the IKEA Parking Lot concerts to the SuperBowl, and meeting our idol is what a fan can always dream of, I feel like my "fan life" is complete now.

The show was on January 14, I was front row and it was f"cking amazing. A whole experience. I got to touch her when she came down to take a picture with the fans that threw the letter on stage. I was so close to her for the whole show, like she was performing only for me and my friends.”

 

You already meet Gaga and got pictures with her, both before the concert and during the concert. Now, you are upset because you didn’t get the same thing again. You already got to meet Gaga, touch her, get a picture with her...without paying for a meet and greet, but instead of being grateful, you are expecting that to be the case for you at the next concert you attend. 

So, the answer to your question is No, you do not “have to pay 3K to meet her”. 

[Itsbrenda 2,983]

19 hours ago, PoshLife said:

That is so odd  There was another story on here kind of similar to that. It sounds like either Gaga or her team likes to get her fans to behave by promising they can meet her if they're patient/quiet, but then not holding up her end of the bargain. When it stretches on for hours, it strikes me as somewhat abusive.

Anyway, I wouldn't go so far as to say "never meet your heroes," but I'd definitely say "it's better to meet them when they're expecting it." Like, I've gone to album signings (KT Tunstall and Vanessa Carlton come to mind), where even though I only had like 30 or so seconds with the artist, it was still really cool and memorable, and because they were in "fan interaction" mode it was very positive.

I would agree but just ask people who paid over £2000 to ‘meet’ Gaga and she gave less then 30 secs to people on the Joanne Tour 😞

[Kimblue 7,334]

17 minutes ago, Whispering said:

From the Joanne Tour:

On March 11, 2018, KURUSHITOVSKA said:

“After a bit of time a white Audi approached and she was there. It stopped and they told us to make a line and stay quiet. Gaga rolled the window and started taking pictures with every one of us and signing for, not kidding, 20 minutes or so.
It was for sure the happiest moment of my life. I've been with her since Just Dance, since the very beginning, from the IKEA Parking Lot concerts to the SuperBowl, and meeting our idol is what a fan can always dream of, I feel like my "fan life" is complete now.

The show was on January 14, I was front row and it was f"cking amazing. A whole experience. I got to touch her when she came down to take a picture with the fans that threw the letter on stage. I was so close to her for the whole show, like she was performing only for me and my friends.”

 

You already meet Gaga and got pictures with her, both before the concert and during the concert. Now, you are upset because you didn’t get the same thing again. You already got to meet Gaga, touch her, get a picture with her...without paying for a meet and greet, but instead of being grateful, you are expecting that to be the case for you at the next concert you attend. 

So, the answer to your question is No, you do not “have to pay 3K to meet her”. 

So privileged 

[Edonis 28,590]

19 minutes ago, Whispering said:

From the Joanne Tour:

On March 11, 2018, KURUSHITOVSKA said:

“After a bit of time a white Audi approached and she was there. It stopped and they told us to make a line and stay quiet. Gaga rolled the window and started taking pictures with every one of us and signing for, not kidding, 20 minutes or so.
It was for sure the happiest moment of my life. I've been with her since Just Dance, since the very beginning, from the IKEA Parking Lot concerts to the SuperBowl, and meeting our idol is what a fan can always dream of, I feel like my "fan life" is complete now.

The show was on January 14, I was front row and it was f"cking amazing. A whole experience. I got to touch her when she came down to take a picture with the fans that threw the letter on stage. I was so close to her for the whole show, like she was performing only for me and my friends.”

 

You already meet Gaga and got pictures with her, both before the concert and during the concert. Now, you are upset because you didn’t get the same thing again. You already got to meet Gaga, touch her, get a picture with her...without paying for a meet and greet, but instead of being grateful, you are expecting that to be the case for you at the next concert you attend. 

So, the answer to your question is No, you do not “have to pay 3K to meet her”. 

Nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn the expose 

[LetsGetHigh 52,683]

[Morphine Prince 102,010]

24 minutes ago, Whispering said:

From the Joanne Tour:

On March 11, 2018, KURUSHITOVSKA said:

“After a bit of time a white Audi approached and she was there. It stopped and they told us to make a line and stay quiet. Gaga rolled the window and started taking pictures with every one of us and signing for, not kidding, 20 minutes or so.
It was for sure the happiest moment of my life. I've been with her since Just Dance, since the very beginning, from the IKEA Parking Lot concerts to the SuperBowl, and meeting our idol is what a fan can always dream of, I feel like my "fan life" is complete now.

The show was on January 14, I was front row and it was f"cking amazing. A whole experience. I got to touch her when she came down to take a picture with the fans that threw the letter on stage. I was so close to her for the whole show, like she was performing only for me and my friends.”

 

You already meet Gaga and got pictures with her, both before the concert and during the concert. Now, you are upset because you didn’t get the same thing again. You already got to meet Gaga, touch her, get a picture with her...without paying for a meet and greet, but instead of being grateful, you are expecting that to be the case for you at the next concert you attend. 

So, the answer to your question is No, you do not “have to pay 3K to meet her”. 

[RenegAde 18,138]

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