Madling 1,981 Posted October 28, 2019 Share Posted October 28, 2019 2 hours ago, ReginaGeorge said: First of all LET’S NOT PRETEND all of you would give her privacy and ignore her if you saw her at the same Casino you were in. All of those replies like “you invaded her privacy and stalked her” (as if you wouldn’t do the same) are making me cringe and the fact that y’all lost your objectiveness is beyond crazy. I totally understand you and I would be SO disappointed if I payed all that money to go from Europe and to see her perform just to be rejected like that by your idol after you spent thousands of dollars on her. She could have just waved and I’m sure that would make your day but she decided not to and YES I blame her for it. Simple wave for someone who ****ing flew the ocean just to see you is more than simple. WTF? Nobody said they'd ignore her, were not robots, but you take the damn hint if she's not into interacting and you get on with your business. And How is she supposed to know how much and how far everyone spends and travels? That's not her problem. Y'all decided to do that and you paid for the show and she gives it her all. Anything more than that is a massive bonus. But she doesn't owe you anything else. Why would you expect to get special treatment because you go to Vegas? You're no better than a fan who drives for 10 minutes. How old are you? The entitlement is crazy. Its fans like you that make her stay at home 🙄 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ltlmnstr 2,771 Posted October 28, 2019 Share Posted October 28, 2019 2 hours ago, ReginaGeorge said: First of all LET’S NOT PRETEND all of you would give her privacy and ignore her if you saw her at the same Casino you were in. All of those replies like “you invaded her privacy and stalked her” (as if you wouldn’t do the same) are making me cringe and the fact that y’all lost your objectiveness is beyond crazy. I totally understand you and I would be SO disappointed if I payed all that money to go from Europe and to see her perform just to be rejected like that by your idol after you spent thousands of dollars on her. She could have just waved and I’m sure that would make your day but she decided not to and YES I blame her for it. Simple wave for someone who ****ing flew the ocean just to see you is more than simple. He and a friend sat at her table wanting an interaction. I’m almost 30 and I know boundaries are set with security. There’s a paid meet and greet for a reason. She had security on all sides of her and he swooped in to sit at her table. This obviously upset her. He’s trying to force an interaction. Clearly. I mean having Lacee, her personal assistant, talk to him was clearly “diffuse the atmosphere” diversion 101. Calm the fan & give them some false hope so you can find an exit. We have videos of fans LUNGING at her. She doesn’t know what his intentions are. He’s a totally stranger. There’s numerous scenarios that could happen. If anything, security she hired failed her by having him already find a space to get so close. A literal loophole. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ltlmnstr 2,771 Posted October 28, 2019 Share Posted October 28, 2019 1 minute ago, Madling said: WTF? Nobody said they'd ignore her, were not robots, but you take the damn hint if she's not into interacting and you get on with your business. And How is she supposed to know how much and how far everyone spends and travels? That's not her problem. Y'all decided to do that and you paid for the show and she gives it her all. Anything more than that is a massive bonus. But she doesn't owe you anything else. How old are you? The entitlement is crazy. Its fans like you that make her stay at home 🙄 The photos OP posted even showed security was south, east, and west of her. Having Lacee go talk to him is a common tactic all celebs do. Send your PA to deal with the situation while finding a way to escape. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
SeasonOfTheWitch 3,789 Posted October 28, 2019 Share Posted October 28, 2019 Imagine spending the past 10 years having people follow you, take pictures of you without consent, and then completely disregard what security tells them (she would interact with you if she wanted to- if she was leaving- that means don’t follow her). I don’t blame you for what you did in the moment. I probably would’ve tried to meet her too if I knew she was close. But you now have had time to step back and look at the whole picture. Gaga has been harassed by fans and others for a good 30% of her life. There’s a point where, after so much time, your patience isn’t there. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Madling 1,981 Posted October 28, 2019 Share Posted October 28, 2019 1 minute ago, ltlmnstr said: The photos OP posted even showed security was south, east, and west of her. Having Lacee go talk to him is a common tactic all celebs do. Send your PA to deal with the situation while finding a way to escape. He sat at the table behind her but I just think we all should know enough about her at this point to not bother her when she's "off duty". You will know by her if she wants to be social and clearly she didn't on this night. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 28, 2019 Share Posted October 28, 2019 6 hours ago, GoneGUY said: See, you did though. "she has time for this, but doesnt have time to say hi to fans" is an attitude. That's not, "oh, she was in a bad mood when I saw her, which was unfortunate. hopefully shes better now and will actually say hi" You had an attitude whether you meant to or not. Jesus Christ just don't even bother writing these msgs. OP has went through a lot and wanted to treat himself to a nice vacation and meet Gaga, he's disappointed by the experience and wish he couldve at least had a great experience with his idol after the loss of a parent... Have some sympathy. And he mentioned again and again that it was not her fault and he understands. So keep it quiet, he doesn't need negativity right now Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
MaryJaneHolland 77,348 Posted October 28, 2019 Share Posted October 28, 2019 Don't know why people are all acting mighty here, we would all want a little "hi" from her if we see her. I guess we can excuse her because she was not in the mood, tired, drunk or whatever, but why did she sent her people to you? Did you do something after she didn't greet you when you were behind her? Sorry for this experience, I hope you enjoyed the show Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
hELXIG 41,576 Posted October 28, 2019 Share Posted October 28, 2019 Lord the debates in here lol Spend your time on something more useful and stream Show And Tell I'll be myself until they fūcking close the coffin. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Regina George 59,387 Posted October 28, 2019 Share Posted October 28, 2019 16 minutes ago, Madling said: WTF? Nobody said they'd ignore her, were not robots, but you take the damn hint if she's not into interacting and you get on with your business. And How is she supposed to know how much and how far everyone spends and travels? That's not her problem. Y'all decided to do that and you paid for the show and she gives it her all. Anything more than that is a massive bonus. But she doesn't owe you anything else. Why would you expect to get special treatment because you go to Vegas? You're no better than a fan who drives for 10 minutes. How old are you? The entitlement is crazy. Its fans like you that make her stay at home 🙄 Old enough to understand that simple wave would make the situation 100% better. Saying hi is not special treatment, it’s basic politeness but you keep doing you and keep protecting her from her fans. Now stop discussing my age before I report you for being rude and insinuating that I’m not old enough to understand basic communication. And no it’s not fans like me that make her stay at home, it’s fans like you who behave like she’s god that she can’t stand. She is human and not saint. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Regina George 59,387 Posted October 28, 2019 Share Posted October 28, 2019 21 minutes ago, ltlmnstr said: He and a friend sat at her table wanting an interaction. I’m almost 30 and I know boundaries are set with security. There’s a paid meet and greet for a reason. She had security on all sides of her and he swooped in to sit at her table. This obviously upset her. He’s trying to force an interaction. Clearly. I mean having Lacee, her personal assistant, talk to him was clearly “diffuse the atmosphere” diversion 101. Calm the fan & give them some false hope so you can find an exit. We have videos of fans LUNGING at her. She doesn’t know what his intentions are. He’s a totally stranger. There’s numerous scenarios that could happen. If anything, security she hired failed her by having him already find a space to get so close. A literal loophole. I stand by what I said. Simple “hi” would fix the problem and it would be more useful that sending assistant and security at him. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rat Boy 41,398 Posted October 28, 2019 Share Posted October 28, 2019 1 minute ago, ReginaGeorge said: She is human and not saint. Tired of people treating her like a God who can do no wrong. "Rat Boy's a nasty, trashy, sleazy, classless"- River Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
xoxo Craig 55,649 Posted October 28, 2019 Share Posted October 28, 2019 1 minute ago, Mer Boy said: Tired of people treating her like a God who can do no wrong. Who is doing that? End Racism Now Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Regina George 59,387 Posted October 28, 2019 Share Posted October 28, 2019 2 minutes ago, xoxo Craig said: Who is doing that? Are we reading the same forum? 90% of people threat her like she’s god and can’t do no wrong. Literally. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ally Campana 15,284 Posted October 28, 2019 Share Posted October 28, 2019 Wow this thread is about to throw away basic human empathy just cause Gaga didn’t wave to a fan who tried to force an interaction. She was probably annoyed by that. I would be too. And no, I’m not trying to act ‘mIgHtY’ I’m just trying to have empathy for her as a human. I do understand your excitement at that moment. If you really wanted to meet her that bad, why don’t you just buy a M&G? That would’ve made the whole experience better. And for certain people in the thread, Gaga is not telepathic. She didn’t know OP flew across the ocean to come to her show. Gosh some of y’all are disgusting honestly. Does it matter? Damage is done Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rat Boy 41,398 Posted October 28, 2019 Share Posted October 28, 2019 9 minutes ago, xoxo Craig said: Who is doing that? 5 minutes ago, ReginaGeorge said: Are we reading the same forum? 90% of people threat her like she’s god and can’t do no wrong. Literally. Quite a few people are attacking the OP (despite the fact that he is apologetic and understands why she may have behaved the way she did) and are ignoring the fact that it could be argued that she was kinda rude to him - once again we all have bad days/aren't perfect. "Rat Boy's a nasty, trashy, sleazy, classless"- River Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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