My (kinda sad) Enigma experience

[GoneGUY 858]

2 minutes ago, Vroom Vroom said:

It’s called consent. You can’t meet someone that doesn’t want to meet you back. There’s a time and a place. 
Just because you are in the same room as Gaga, doesn’t mean you deserve an interaction with her. 
99% of her fans will never get to have a conversation with her and that’s ok. 
 

It is okay, but the way you spoke was not. From his post, he didnt run up to her, demand a photo. He didnt follow her for days on end. He saw her at a casino because it's fun to get a look at your idol. I know it is, because I had that chance. That's not a bad thing on his part. He was respectful.

[KURUSHITOVSKA 20,439]

1 minute ago, GoneGUY said:

It is okay, but the way you spoke was not. From his post, he didnt run up to her, demand a photo. He didnt follow her for days on end. He saw her at a casino because it's fun to get a look at your idol. I know it is, because I had that chance. That's not a bad thing on his part. He was respectful.

Exactly, as I said, we were quiet, and respectful all the time, and when security asked us to leave, we did. 

[LilyLark 9,694]

Just now, Vroom Vroom said:

It’s called consent. You can’t meet someone that doesn’t want to meet you back. There’s a time and a place. 
Just because you are in the same room as Gaga, doesn’t mean you deserve an interaction with her. 
99% of her fans will never get to have a conversation with her and that’s ok. 
 

I mean, OP absolutely gets that? He said it was a bit disappointing, but he realizes she didn't do anything wrong by wanting privacy in her off time? He's not claiming Gaga was rude or awful or anything and even acknowledges he got a bit over excited—just that she was human. Situations can occur where no one does anything wrong or bad, but it can still be a bid disappointing.

And honestly, I know social media isn't always reliable but several people who saw her in the casino said she looked smashed. Gag's could have wanted her people to make sure she was left alone, or it's possible her people were trying to make sure she was alone  because she was smashed. In the past, some fans absolutely took advantage of when they got photos of Gaga smashed. O.P. wouldn't do that, but it's not like her people know which people would take advantage and which would not.

[KURUSHITOVSKA 20,439]

I mean here's the only picture I took and one that my friend took of me just in case she said anything to me or something

 

[KatieJudasGaga4 67,907]

1 minute ago, KURUSHITOVSKA said:

I mean here's the only picture I took and one that my friend took of me just in case she said anything to me or something

 

I know you're feeling sad, but your comment is gonna make everyone seem Gaga is a rude person. You should include the backstory too.

[LilyLark 9,694]

10 minutes ago, alextruper17 said:

3k euros? 

Honestly, that's pretty good for a weekend in Vegas if you're not from the U.S.

[KURUSHITOVSKA 20,439]

6 minutes ago, KatieJudasGaga4 said:

I know you're feeling sad, but your comment is gonna make everyone seem Gaga is a rude person. You should include the backstory too.

Well i changed it a bit, the post has no hashtags and is not supposed to be public, i'm not an influencer, i'm just sharing it here. I didn't want it to go viral or something, i didn't even tag her, and I don't want to, it's my own experience and I shared it in my personal account that is irrelevant, because I knew and know that those pictures weren't supposed to be taken 

[KURUSHITOVSKA 20,439]

4 minutes ago, LilyLark said:

I mean, OP absolutely gets that? He said it was a bit disappointing, but he realizes she didn't do anything wrong by wanting privacy in her off time? He's not claiming Gaga was rude or awful or anything and even acknowledges he got a bit over excited—just that she was human. Situations can occur where no one does anything wrong or bad, but it can still be a bid disappointing.

And honestly, I know social media isn't always reliable but several people who saw her in the casino said she looked smashed. Gag's could have wanted her people to make sure she was left alone, or it's possible her people were trying to make sure she was alone  because she was smashed. In the past, some fans absolutely took advantage of when they got photos of Gaga smashed. O.P. wouldn't do that, but it's not like her people know which people would take advantage and which would not.

Thank you ❤️

[TheRealJT 2,291]

5 minutes ago, LilyLark said:

I mean, OP absolutely gets that? He said it was a bit disappointing, but he realizes she didn't do anything wrong by wanting privacy in her off time? He's not claiming Gaga was rude or awful or anything and even acknowledges he got a bit over excited—just that she was human. Situations can occur where no one does anything wrong or bad, but it can still be a bid disappointing.

And honestly, I know social media isn't always reliable but several people who saw her in the casino said she looked smashed. Gag's could have wanted her people to make sure she was left alone, or it's possible her people were trying to make sure she was alone  because she was smashed. In the past, some fans absolutely took advantage of when they got photos of Gaga smashed. O.P. wouldn't do that, but it's not like her people know which people would take advantage and which would not.

Seeing that Gaga’s security had to talk to him and his friends twice makes me feel like the OP wasn’t really that quiet and respectful.

And then to go on here and make a thread that makes her look like a bad guy, that doesn’t seem respectful either.  
Main point. Leave Gaga alone. She owes the OP nothing and he shouldnt slander her name. 

[TheRealJT 2,291]

9 minutes ago, LilyLark said:

I mean, OP absolutely gets that? He said it was a bit disappointing, but he realizes she didn't do anything wrong by wanting privacy in her off time? He's not claiming Gaga was rude or awful or anything and even acknowledges he got a bit over excited—just that she was human. Situations can occur where no one does anything wrong or bad, but it can still be a bid disappointing.

And honestly, I know social media isn't always reliable but several people who saw her in the casino said she looked smashed. Gag's could have wanted her people to make sure she was left alone, or it's possible her people were trying to make sure she was alone  because she was smashed. In the past, some fans absolutely took advantage of when they got photos of Gaga smashed. O.P. wouldn't do that, but it's not like her people know which people would take advantage and which would not.

Seeing that Gaga’s security had to talk to him and his friends twice makes me feel like the OP wasn’t really that quiet and respectful.

And then to go on here and make a thread that makes her look like a bad guy, that doesn’t seem respectful either.  
Main point. Leave Gaga alone. She owes the OP nothing and he shouldnt slander her name. 

[KURUSHITOVSKA 20,439]

2 minutes ago, Vroom Vroom said:

Seeing that Gaga’s security had to talk to him and his friends twice makes me feel like the OP wasn’t really that quiet and respectful.

And then to go on here and make a thread that makes her look like a bad guy, that doesn’t seem respectful either.  
Main point. Leave Gaga alone. She owes the OP nothing and he shouldnt slander her name. 

In my post i clearly say that i'm not blaming her and i'm not trying to make her look bad or whatever you're saying. Security didn't had to talk to us. They came to us because we of course were looking at her, they were nice every moment. You're talking about things that you don't even know about. If expressing my feeling and telling a story, saying that it was not her fault and that i just feel sad about the situation is slandering her name then what is it when y'all ****ing trash her for any wig, make up, song, or whatever she does? 

[Kindness Ponk 2,994]

Understandable, sometimes I don't even want to say hi to my co-workers.

[Catnikko 11,548]

52 minutes ago, Vroom Vroom said:

It’s called consent. You can’t meet someone that doesn’t want to meet you back. There’s a time and a place. 
Just because you are in the same room as Gaga, doesn’t mean you deserve an interaction with her. 
99% of her fans will never get to have a conversation with her and that’s ok. 
 

literally no one said that.. That's as stupid a statement as saying 'Just because you like a Gaga song, doesn't mean she deserves you buying it and being a supportive fan'   

It's fine if  Gaga's not feeling great and/or not wanting to interact with fans, that doesn't mean a fan can't be upset by getting that reaction.. 

[dit 43,478]

First of all I am so sorry for your loss sis. It must be really tough. I am here for you if you ever need to talk to someone.

in regards to the situation; I get both sides of this. On one hand Gaga probably just wanted a normal fun time and is so tired from constantly waving at people and saying hi but on the other hand fans of course want to express their love and admiration to an artist that means so much to them. I feel you and I get her. This is a tough situation. Sending you lots of love and positive energy   

[FfFfFfFF 54,014]

I'm sorry for your loss and the way you feel (and hope you feel better) but this is the part where it went wrong:

1 hour ago, Vroom Vroom said:

Security told you that she would say hi if she wanted to. But instead of leaving her alone you decided to force an interaction and she ignored you. 

 I understand how it maybe felt natural in the moment but you shouldn't have done that.